Rori Raye Feminine Energy Radio

Rori Raye
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I find it so amazing to hear "out there" that Feminine Energy is something you, as a women, need to "aspire to"... when, actually, Feminine Energy is what you already are... Every week, Rori Raye sits down with Siren School Director Natalina Love to work through deep, sometimes difficult, topics, situations and questions - and answers with completely original, irreverant and incredibly effective solutions. If you have questions for Rori, just email her at CoachRori.com, and you'll get a fast answer in both a personal letter and the podcast!

  1. What Men Actually Fall For

    2d ago

    What Men Actually Fall For

    You want to be 100% vulnerable Except that’s your nervous system telling you if you’re open, you’re gonna get mowed down. Your feminine energy is ferocious. It is powerful. It is protecting yourself in a different way than your masculine energy does. Your masculine energy protects you by closing yourself down, pushing him forward, staying mental, staying strategic. Your feminine energy goes: “I just feel. I just feel. And right now I feel…” And it’s gonna take you a while. You can see how your own voice will change, and your own speed, and your own breath will change. So where we’ve gotten is you’re vulnerable with yourself, and you start to know the difference between the thoughts you’re thinking and the actual feelings underneath. Which is: “I want.” I want to feel close. I feel lonely. I want to feel connected. If I could turn this around, you can too. You can learn to do this from the inside out with us on Siren Island, my official Rori Raye community. Especially with everything happening in the world right now, having real community matters so much. Not just another app you scroll past, but a space that feels supportive, alive, feminine, and nourishing to return to. That’s what Siren Island is for me, too. Siren Island is here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    22 min
  2. Why We Don’t Trust Love (And How to Open to It Again)

    Jun 12

    Why We Don’t Trust Love (And How to Open to It Again)

    Life is a process. You are a process. You are a work in process. A work in progress. What’s progress? What’s the endpoint? There is no beginning. There is no end. I’ve been thinking about happiness. It’s really an interesting word. We take it for granted. “I’m happy.” Certain things make us happy that seem external: dancing, music, experiences, people. But try to zero in on the feeling itself when you feel happy. Often we think happiness requires something outside of us—an external experience. Yet happiness is actually an internal experience. Unfortunately, getting down into that internal experience often requires moving through layers of pain, sadness, and grief. A lot of grief. And then there’s the anger sitting on top of everything, protecting you. When you move through that, you eventually reach something deeper: Love. Maybe that’s what I should talk about. What does that baseline love feel like? It’s the feeling you have when you look at a puppy. If you don’t feel anything when you look at a puppy, you’re probably shutting something down. Puppies were practically created to look at you with those eyes and open your heart automatically. Babies are the same way. This is the kind of work we practice every day inside Siren Island—not just talking about love, happiness, and connection, but learning how to experience them more deeply in our real lives. Especially with everything happening in the world right now, having real community matters so much. Not just another app you scroll past, but a space that feels supportive, alive, feminine, and nourishing to return to. That’s what Siren Island is for me, too. Siren Island is here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    22 min
  3. The Trust Test Most Women Never Give a Man

    Jun 5

    The Trust Test Most Women Never Give a Man

    How can you find a man who is a giver rather than a taker? A man who is masculine rather than feminine? What do you do if you have a history of being attracted to men who are in their feminine? What do you do if you’re in a long-term relationship that you’re no longer happy with and you want something different? Trust starts internally—with trusting yourself, your intuition, your ability to make decisions, your ability to make the right choices, and your ability to open up to love and be a receiver. Being a lean-back receiver of everything. Every moment of every day. When you’re on a walk. No matter who you’re taking care of. Even when you’re taking care of your child—a screaming child—you are still on the receiving end of love coming from that child, coming from the air, coming from God if you’re into God, coming from the trees if you’re not, coming from the molecules, coming from the experience of life itself. You are a receiver of energy. As soon as you get that into your being, you’ll no longer see yourself as this run-dry person constantly giving and giving and giving. You are a channel. The energy comes into your receiver, and then it comes out in love—to the child, to the dog, to yourself, to the other person. This has to be the core of everything you do from this moment on. If you want to truly embody this work—not just understand it intellectually, but actually feel it in your body—come play with me on Siren Island. Especially with everything happening in the world right now, having real community matters so much. Not just another app you scroll past, but a space that actually feels supportive, alive, feminine, and nourishing to return to. That’s what Siren Island is for me, too. Siren Island is here:https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    12 min
  4. What Happens When a Man Decides You’re The One

    May 30

    What Happens When a Man Decides You’re The One

    Can I trust you with me? Can I trust you with the real me? I can trust you with the me that can do everything. I’ll take care of everything and you can just be there. And if I can’t trust you some of the time, I’ll just shut down and that’s okay. That’s, I think, the way most of us live. I don’t really trust you. So I’ll just be my ‘10 self’ around you a lot of the time. And when you leave the house, I’ll be my real self. That trust creates emotional intimacy, right? But here we’re talking about trusting his intentions. His intentions to move forward. His intentions to be good to you. His intentions toward what a connected relationship is… what a lifetime relationship is… what a marriage is… as opposed to a fabulous experience with a man that’s not forever. When a good man decides you’re the one, he doesn’t give you reasons to distrust him… but being chosen is not the same as experiencing deep intimacy. If you want to truly embody this work — not just understand it intellectually, but actually feel it in your body — come play with me on Siren Island. Especially with everything happening in the world right now, having real community matters so much. Not just another app you scroll past, but a space that actually feels supportive, alive, feminine, and nourishing to return to. That’s what Siren Island is for me, too. Siren Island is here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    9 min
  5. How to Build Trust With a Man Through Feminine Energy

    May 22

    How to Build Trust With a Man Through Feminine Energy

    See everything as giving to you, which naturally places you in a position of receiving. Imagine walking around all day receiving from the walls, the rugs, the doors, the food, the refrigerator, the cat, the dog, the man standing in the corner — no matter what he’s doing. The man on the phone or on Zoom — no matter what he’s doing — energetically, you're on the receiving end of everything. Forget about the “magnet” idea for now if that feels like too much. Just focus on this: You are on the receiving end of everything. Like a football receiver. Like a catcher. As soon as you get into that state, you start building trust because you begin to recognize what it feels like. Your whole body softens a little. Anybody feeling that? Even if your mind is racing, it doesn’t matter. Drop down into your belly. Feel your feminine energy expanding. Let your body soften and open. Let yourself fill up. Then look at anything — the rug, for example — and imagine the energy coming toward you. You are receiving love from the rug. When you look at your dog, instead of a blank “there’s my dog,” you begin taking in the love. You begin to receive. Just use that word: Receive. Paste it in your mind. Paste it on your face. You are going to receive self-worth. You are going to receive esteem. You are going to receive everything. You are on the receiving end. If you want to truly embody this work — not just understand it intellectually, but actually feel it in your body — come play with me on Siren Island. Especially with everything happening in the world right now, having real community matters so much. Not just another app you scroll past, but a space that actually feels supportive, alive, feminine, and nourishing to return to. That’s what Siren Island is for me, too. Siren Island is here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    10 min
  6. How to Stay Open When Things Don’t Feel Good With a Man

    May 15

    How to Stay Open When Things Don’t Feel Good With a Man

    The only thing you can trust, to start the process of trusting the external, is the internal. That means you. If you are like 99.9% of women in the world, you’ve been taught since birth to other-esteem. We are constantly on the lookout for gathering our self-esteem through others — how they look at us, how they respond to us, whether they move toward us or away from us. When we don’t allow ourselves to imagine love coming toward us, we start trying to get it. Can you feel the difference in the body? Here, it’s just coming toward me — I’m leaning back. Here, I’m trying to get it — I’m leaning forward. We instinctively look for approval, love, appreciation, desire — all on a subconscious level. And then consciously, we fight it. Part of you wants to lean forward and grab him. Another part of you remembers being a Siren. And another part feels angry at yourself for needing anything at all.”“So here we are, all of us pushing and pulling at the same time — pushing against our own deep-seated need to receive love from others. If we truly felt love was always coming toward us, then of course we could trust him automatically. You are energetically assuming love is coming toward you and letting it land on you. As soon as you get this into your being — ‘I can’t control everything’ — something softens. The weather is bigger than you. You cannot control the weather. And when you really feel that, something inside you begins to let go. You begin to look at everything differently — your dog, your cat, the books in front of you — and feel life itself coming toward you. Inside Siren Island, you’ll get access to feminine energy tools, relationship coaching, live classes, and ongoing support to help you stop overgiving, stop chasing, and finally feel more secure and magnetic in love.Inside Siren Island, you’ll have access to feminine energy tools, relationship coaching, live classes, and ongoing support to help you stop overgiving, stop chasing, and finally feel more secure and magnetic in love. Siren Island is here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    11 min
  7. How To Do Marriage by Saying What You Actually Need

    May 8

    How To Do Marriage by Saying What You Actually Need

    Marriage means you change. You start to open up and stand up for yourself, and suddenly you feel irritated and unsure. It’s not just him anymore—it’s everyone—and you keep asking: what do I want? I lost my dog and realized how much I had been ignoring my own wants because other people didn’t approve. I thought being “free” meant giving myself up. When I finally chose what I needed, everything shifted. I stopped blaming and started saying: I need this. I want this. I want to feel this way. And I learned that being honest is harder than being angry—but it changes everything. If he wants to be with you, he will shift. As long as you shift into saying the truth, the second you start laying fault on him, he’s going to back up and it won’t work. When you have rage, talk about your rage to the women and all of us here on Siren Island or your coach, and learn how to say: I’m feeling enraged. I want to hit things. Instead of “you’re an idiot.” I actually discovered I said to myself, “oh my God, I’m an idiot,” and I didn’t even realize it. And my husband said, “you’re not an idiot. Don’t say that to yourself.” And I went, “thank you.” That’s the relationship you want. You can join us on Siren Island here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/ Love, Rori

    18 min
  8. I Thought I Was Broken For Chasing Unavailable Men

    May 1

    I Thought I Was Broken For Chasing Unavailable Men

    Do not allow any unavailable man to take any of your time, period. That's the law. Don't do it.If he stops calling, if he stops making dates, lean back and see if that's you trying to push him out of your way. But mostly he's got to really try hard for you.And if you are not encountering men who are trying hard for you, that's because you're not letting those guys in because you really, really, really inside don't want that intimacy, that emotional intimacy, and they are too close.So you have to take baby steps by dating men who you would normally not allow because they are available.On Siren Island—my creative feminine energy playground—you'll be first to see what new coaching tools and programs come next, because you help inspire it all. You'll be able to turn all of this around. Siren Island is here:https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/Love, Rori

    12 min
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I find it so amazing to hear "out there" that Feminine Energy is something you, as a women, need to "aspire to"... when, actually, Feminine Energy is what you already are... Every week, Rori Raye sits down with Siren School Director Natalina Love to work through deep, sometimes difficult, topics, situations and questions - and answers with completely original, irreverant and incredibly effective solutions. If you have questions for Rori, just email her at CoachRori.com, and you'll get a fast answer in both a personal letter and the podcast!

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