Lucid Cafe

Wendy Halley

What's on the menu at Lucid Cafe? Stories of transformation; healing journeys; thought-provoking conversations about consciousness, shamanism, psychology, ethics. Hosted by Wendy Halley of Lucid Path Wellness & Healing Arts.

  1. Pushback: How to Be Assertive Without Losing Yourself with Tonya Lester

    May 22

    Pushback: How to Be Assertive Without Losing Yourself with Tonya Lester

    In this episode, I’m joined by psychotherapist, relationship expert, and Psychology Today blogger Tonya Lester to talk about her empowering new book, Pushback: Live, Love, and Work with Others Without Losing Yourself. If you tend to avoid conflict, over-accommodate others, or struggle to speak up for what you need, this conversation offers a refreshing and deeply practical perspective on assertiveness. Tonya shares why being “difficult” — not cruel or combative, but clear, honest, and self-respecting — is often essential for building healthier relationships and a more authentic life. Together, we explore the hidden costs of people pleasing, the ways women are often conditioned to prioritize harmony over honesty, and how learning to “rock the boat” can actually create deeper connection and self-trust. In this episode, Tonya dicusses: 00:47 Harmony Trap Explained 02:15 Why Women Disappear 03:52 How This Pattern Formed 05:41 Home Labor Inequality 09:23 Pandemic Pressure Test 10:51 Whose Time Matters 12:41 Why Speaking Up Feels Hard 18:13 Guilt and Anger Permission 19:53 Shock Absorber Behavior 21:26 Weather Vane Emotions 24:21 Honesty Builds Intimacy 30:31 Scripts for Hard Talks 32:53 Couples Therapy Ice Bath 34:32 Where to Find Tonya Visit Tonya's website________ NEW PODCAST! Realms of Curiosity with Sarah & Wendy (available in audio and video): Realms of Curiosity with Sarah & Wendy podcastRealms of Curiosity podcast on youtubeBECOME YOUR OWN SHAMAN Introductory Online Course For more information about Wendy's new visionary fiction book, Raven's Daughter, or to purchase a copy, visit Three Worlds Press Visit Wendy’s website to learn more about the the Harmonic Egg®   Lucid Cafe episodes by topic   Listen to Lucid Cafe on YouTube   ★ Support this podcast ★

    40 min
  2. When Everything Falls Apart...and You Come Alive with Wendy Valentine

    May 8

    When Everything Falls Apart...and You Come Alive with Wendy Valentine

    In this lively and inspiring episode, I’m joined by author and speaker Wendy Valentine to explore what really lies on the other side of a so-called midlife crisis. Wendy shares her powerful story of breakdown and breakthrough—navigating divorce, financial strain, health challenges, grief, and anxiety—and how it ultimately became the catalyst for a complete life transformation. Rather than seeing midlife as something to endure, she reframes it as an awakening: a chance to reconnect with who you truly are and what you deeply want. We talk about the courage to take bold, imperfect action, the importance of ending self-abandonment, and how learning to trust your inner “yes” and “no” can guide you toward a more aligned and fulfilling life. Wendy also shares the mindset shifts and practices that helped her rebuild—from following an unexpected dream to embracing growth through life’s most difficult moments. This conversation is a reminder that it’s never too late to begin again—and that what feels like everything falling apart may actually be the beginning of something far more true. In this episode, Wendy discusses: Midlife Crisis ReframedBreakdown to BreakthroughRV Vision and LeapSelf Abandonment InsightBecoming the Future YouFeel Your Way ForwardEnergy Trust and HarmonyStruggle as InitiationRegret Stepping Into Your LightEmbracing the Dark SideTaking RisksLife Buffet, No RegretsFreedom and Yes FrameworkWhy She Wrote the BookBecome Your Own Best FriendRewriting the Inner TickerHospital Scare Mindset ResetLotus Flower ExerciseQuiet Nature WisdomCrisis to Teacher PathGratitude on the Other SideBuddha Castle and SufferingFilling Your Courage JarMidlife Makeover OfferingsVisit Wendy Valentine's website________ NEW PODCAST! (available in audio and video) Realms of Curiosity with Sarah & Wendy podcastRealms of Curiosity podcast on youtube BECOME YOUR OWN SHAMAN Introductory Online CourseThe Magical Path Shamanic Workbook For more information about Wendy's new visionary fiction book, Raven's Daughter, or to purchase a copy, visit Three Worlds Press Visit Wendy’s website to learn more about the the Harmonic Egg®   Lucid Cafe episodes by topic   Listen to Lucid Cafe on YouTube   ★ Support this podcast ★

    1 hr
  3. The Transformational Power of Liminal Spaces with Lynda Samphire

    Apr 24

    The Transformational Power of Liminal Spaces with Lynda Samphire

    In this episode, I’m joined by Transformational Coach Lynda Samphire for an expansive conversation about healing, transformation, and the power of liminal spaces — those in-between realms where real change becomes possible. Drawing from over two decades of experience, Lynda describes her unique approach to healing — one that bypasses the rational mind and speaks directly to deeper layers of being through modalities like dreamwork, plant medicines, and light language. We explore the role of dreams as “first medicine,” a powerful inner oracle that can guide intuition and self-understanding through personal symbolism. Our conversation also touches on trauma-informed work with psychedelics, including psilocybin and 5-MeO-DMT, the restorative potential of Amanita muscaria, and the importance of integration, safety, and intention in these practices. Throughout, Lynda emphasizes the wisdom of the body, the value of feeling what arises, and the transformative potential of stepping into the unknown. In this episode, Lynda discusses: The Scope of her WorkHer Origin StoryFacing DeathPlant MedicineAmanita Muscaria BasicsThe Importance of DreamworkSleep And RecallWho Is The Dreamer?Training Your Intuition Through DreamsHealing Fear In Real LifeSymbols And Dream LanguageDream CirclesUnderstanding 5 MeO DMTHow She Works with Plant MedicineSafe Sourcing of Amanita Muscaria and LegalityWhat Is Light Language? Visit Lynda's website ________ BECOME YOUR OWN SHAMAN Introductory Online CourseThe Magical Path Shamanic Workbook For more information about Wendy's new visionary fiction book, Raven's Daughter, or to purchase a copy, visit Three Worlds Press Visit Wendy’s website to learn more about the the Harmonic Egg®   Lucid Cafe episodes by topic   Listen to Lucid Cafe on YouTube   ★ Support this podcast ★

    54 min
  4. When the Rational Mind Meets the Spirit World with author Seth Steinzor

    Apr 9

    When the Rational Mind Meets the Spirit World with author Seth Steinzor

    In this episode of Lucid Cafe, I’m joined by Seth Steinzor, author of The View From the Other Side of My Head, for a candid and thought-provoking conversation about what happens when a highly trained, analytical mind encounters experiences it can’t explain. Raised without a spiritual framework and trained as an attorney, Seth spent much of his life grounded in logic and reason — until a series of unexpected encounters with shamanic trance opened a doorway into an entirely different way of perceiving reality. What began during the uncertainty of the pandemic soon evolved into a deeply transformative practice, challenging his assumptions and reshaping his understanding of consciousness, embodiment, and the nature of existence itself. In this episode, Seth discusses:  His New Book Secular UpbringingSearch for Spiritual ConnectionPower Animal EncounterLearning How to JourneyRituals and the ShofarThe Experience of Accessing the Spirit WorldDreams and RealityInner Guidance ProcessDream World vs Waking WorldLucidity and DetachmentFinding a TeacherHow Shamanic Practice Transformed HimCulture and SymbolismThe Upper World and DeathLearn More about Seth's Book: The View From the Other Side of My Head Seth's website ________ BECOME YOUR OWN SHAMAN Introductory Online Course The Magical Path Shamanic Workbook For more information about Wendy's new visionary fiction book, Raven's Daughter, or to purchase a copy, visit Three Worlds Press Visit Wendy’s website to learn more about the the Harmonic Egg®   Lucid Cafe episodes by topic   Listen to Lucid Cafe on YouTube   ★ Support this podcast ★

    1h 6m
  5. Inside a Clairvoyant Reading: Healing, Discernment, & Self-Discovery with Dave Clark

    Mar 28

    Inside a Clairvoyant Reading: Healing, Discernment, & Self-Discovery with Dave Clark

    I’m joined by clairvoyant reader, healer, and teacher Dave Clark for a powerful and deeply personal conversation about intuition, healing, and what it really means to “see” clearly. Dave shares how his work centers on reading energy to uncover the unconscious patterns shaping our relationships, health, and life path — not by predicting the future, but by helping people reconnect with their own inner knowing. We also explore his approach to mediumship and the profound healing that can come from connecting with loved ones who have passed. We also dive into the practical side of intuitive development: deprogramming the analytical mind, working with emotional reactivity, cultivating discernment in an overwhelming information landscape, and honoring ethical boundaries in healing work. This is a rich and grounded exploration of intuition, loss, and transformation — and an invitation to trust your own capacity to see more clearly. In this episode, Dave discusses: How Readings HealMediumshipHis Origin Story and TrainingHis Daughter Ella and the VeilDeprogramming Mind and FeelingsEthics and InvitationsInside a Clairvoyant ReadingIntegration and TimingUnfolding Self DiscoveryWhy Healers Are Needed NowDiscernment In Information AgeDream Reality And Self CreationOvercoming A Victim MindsetTeaching Clairvoyance FoundationsNeutrality And Course PathApplying Intuition In ChaosAn Example of Clairvoyance in ActionLucid Dreaming Life LensHow He Works with PeopleDave's website: divineroots.love ________ For more information about Wendy's new visionary fiction book, Raven's Daughter, or to purchase a copy, visit Three Worlds PressBECOME YOUR OWN SHAMAN Introductory Online Course Visit Wendy’s website to learn more about the the Harmonic Egg®   Lucid Cafe episodes by topic   Listen to Lucid Cafe on YouTube  ★ Support this podcast ★

    1h 2m
  6. Archetypes at Work: The Hidden Patterns of Your Life with Carl Greer PhD, PsyD

    Mar 13

    Archetypes at Work: The Hidden Patterns of Your Life with Carl Greer PhD, PsyD

    I’m joined once again by Carl Greer, whose remarkable life has spanned engineering, finance, academia, clinical psychology, Jungian analysis, and shamanic practice. Now in his mid-eighties, Carl reflects on how these experiences reshaped his understanding of reality, purpose, and the stories that guide our lives. We explore archetypes, dreamwork, the personal and collective unconscious, and the power of small experiments to help us shift old patterns. His newest workbook is Go Within To Change Your Life. In this conversation we discuss dreamwork, shamanic journeying, dialoguing with inner figures, and noticing before interpreting. Carl outlines personal vs collective unconscious, resilience in life’s “suddenlys,” risks of escapism, and habit change through small, playful experiments. Topics covered in this episode include: Carl's Life Story and CareerShamanism and ServiceWorkbook OverviewArchetypes ExplainedFinding Your ArchetypesDreams and JourneyingDialoguing with ShadowsInterpreting Inner MessagesPersonal and Collective UnconsciousResilience in Sudden ChangeBuilding New HabitsInner Wisdom and HealthVIsit Carl's website________ BECOME YOUR OWN SHAMAN Introductory Online Course  For more information about Wendy's new visionary fiction book, Raven's Daughter, or to purchase a copy, visit Three Worlds Press Visit Wendy’s website to learn more about the the Harmonic Egg®   Lucid Cafe episodes by topic   Listen to Lucid Cafe on YouTube  ★ Support this podcast ★

    42 min
  7. The Lost Art of Emotional Resilience with author John Tsilimparis

    Feb 26

    The Lost Art of Emotional Resilience with author John Tsilimparis

    In this episode, psychotherapist John Tsilimparis joins me to explore a more compassionate approach to grief, inspired by his book The Magic in the Tragic. We discuss how our “be strong and move on” culture often discourages us from truly honoring loss — and why grief, when faced rather than avoided, can build emotional resilience. John shares his personal story of loss, the myth of closure, the concept of “forbidden suffering,” and practical tools for working with anxiety and worry. At its core, this conversation is about learning to stay with pain, transform it, and discover unexpected meaning — even in our darkest days. In this episode, John discusses: How Our Culture Avoids DeathHis Origin Story and LossForbidden Suffering ExplainedThe Purpose of Grief ResilienceAnxiety Trends and ScreensThe Dangers of Avoiding PainInspiration Exposure PracticeMusic and HopeNobility of SufferingHonoring SufferingGuilt and JoyRituals and ReverenceWrite a Sympathy LetterA 'Reducing Worry' PracticeThree Anxiety PillarsAesthetic Mindset ToolsMyth of ClosureLiving With GriefResilience and MeaningTherapy Work and ResourcesVisit John's website________ BECOME YOUR OWN SHAMAN Introductory Online Course  For more information about Wendy's new visionary fiction book, Raven's Daughter, or to purchase a copy, visit Three Worlds Press Visit Wendy’s website to learn more about the the Harmonic Egg®   Lucid Cafe episodes by topic   Listen to Lucid Cafe on YouTube  ★ Support this podcast ★

    46 min
  8. Trusting Your Cosmic Design with author Madi Murphy

    Feb 4

    Trusting Your Cosmic Design with author Madi Murphy

    In this episode of Lucid Cafe, I’m joined by astrologer, shamanic practitioner, and author Madi Murphy to explore her new book, In the Cosmic Zone: Embody the 12 Astro Archetypes to Unleash Your Genius and Activate Your Authentic Self. Madi shares her personal journey from a Christian upbringing to embracing astrology as a powerful tool for alignment, self-trust, and spiritual growth. Together, we talk about her embodied approach to astrology — one that invites us to turn inward and work with the wisdom of each zodiac archetype as a living, breathing part of ourselves. We also explore what it means to live authentically in a world that often asks us to disconnect from our inner knowing, the courage it takes to trust your path, and how astrology can serve as a mirror for self-discovery rather than a set of external predictions. This episode is an invitation to step into your cosmic zone — and remember who you came here to be. In this episode, Madi discusses: Her Personal JourneyQuestioning and Spiritual AwakeningBreakdown and BreakthroughDiscovering Astrology's DepthUsing Astrology PracticallyThe Evolutionary Journey of the ZodiacPatterns and Client ExperiencesFoundations of TrustThe Spirit of the Night SkyRebuilding Trust and Joyful Re-imaginingHer Journey to Writing a BookUnderstanding Your Sun SignExploring Your Birth ChartCommunity and ResourcesPersonal Journey into ShamanismThe Role of Teachers and GuidesParenting and Spiritual LessonsVisit Madi's website CosmicRX________ BECOME YOUR OWN SHAMAN Introductory Online Course  For more information about Wendy's new visionary fiction book, Raven's Daughter, or to purchase a copy, visit Three Worlds Press Visit Wendy’s website to learn more about the the Harmonic Egg®   Lucid Cafe episodes by topic   Listen to Lucid Cafe on YouTube  ★ Support this podcast ★

    1h 5m
4.9
out of 5
30 Ratings

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What's on the menu at Lucid Cafe? Stories of transformation; healing journeys; thought-provoking conversations about consciousness, shamanism, psychology, ethics. Hosted by Wendy Halley of Lucid Path Wellness & Healing Arts.

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