Post Trauma Secrets & Decluttering

Valerie Huard and JM Tetreault

Hosted by wellness and decluttering experts Valerie Huard and JM Tetreault, the Post Trauma Secrets and Decluttering Podcast brings you on a journey from trauma to Joie de vivre! Like going on a vacation, you may be stressed and excited at the same time. You will enjoy every moment, try new things, discover new places, and still have time to relax. That decluttering journey will give you all the secrets you need to simplify your life by reducing your stress, decluttering your mind, organizing your space and getting control over your time so that you can create the life you want.

  1. 3D AGO

    #79 What Your Clutter Says About Your Attachment Style

    In this episode, JM and Valerie explore the connection between clutter and attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized. Through real-life examples and a quick self-assessment quiz, you’ll learn how your emotional patterns show up in your space—and how to work with them instead of against them. Whether you hold on tightly or keep everything at arm’s length, this episode offers insights to help you create a space that supports your emotional well-being. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: How clutter reflects attachment styles – Discover the link between emotional patterns and your space. Traits of secure vs. anxious attachment – Learn why some people keep balance, while others hold on. Avoidant and disorganized clutter habits – Understand the extremes of minimalism and chaos. How to identify your clutter style – Use a quick quiz to spot emotional patterns behind your belongings. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-trauma Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    5 min
  2. SEP 26

    #78 Why 'Decluttering' Feels Exhausting (And What’s REALLY Going On)

    In this episode, Valerie and JM get honest about the emotional layers that make decluttering feel overwhelming—even when your home looks “clean.” They unpack the neuroscience of why clutter is so triggering, share their personal story of burnout, and challenge the polished perfection of most organizing content. With insights on trauma, identity, and the reality of ongoing healing, this episode reframes decluttering as a journey of emotional clarity—not just tidy spaces. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Why decluttering feels emotionally exhausting – Understand the brain’s response to unresolved clutter. How trauma and identity are tied to clutter – Learn why letting go is more than just organizing. The truth behind “perfect” decluttering videos – Discover why real transformation looks messy. Why decluttering is ongoing work – See it as a healing process, not a one-time fix. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-trauma Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    7 min
  3. SEP 19

    #77 This Is What 20 Years of Clutter Looks Like (and How We Fixed It)

    In this episode, Valerie and JM walk through Leslie’s 20-year journey of caregiving, grief, and emotional attachment—and how the trauma-informed DO Well Method helped her reclaim space, freedom, and joy. You’ll learn how clutter often holds meaning, why slow and compassionate support matters, and how decluttering can restore not just your home, but your life.  IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Why clutter often represents grief and survival – Understand the emotional roots behind what we keep. How the DO Well Method supports healing – Learn the trauma-informed steps that guide gentle decluttering. What real transformation looks like – See how small shifts can restore space, freedom, and connection. How to begin when it feels overwhelming – Start with one drawer, one emotion, one step toward peace. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-trauma Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    5 min
  4. SEP 12

    #76 How to Support a Loved One with Clutter (Without Pushing Them Away)

    In this episode, JM shares compassionate, trauma-informed strategies to support someone who’s struggling with clutter. You’ll learn why clutter often represents safety or survival, how to communicate with empathy, and why consent is non-negotiable. From asking the right questions to celebrating small wins, this guide offers powerful tools to help your loved one reclaim their space—without losing their dignity or trust. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: How clutter connects to trauma and safety – Understand the emotional roots behind “stuff."What to say (and not say) when helping – Use empathy and curiosity, not pressure.Why consent is essential in decluttering – Respect boundaries to build trust.Simple ways to support without control – Celebrate small wins and offer gentle structure. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-trauma Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    6 min
  5. SEP 5

    #75 Healing Through Decluttering: A Household Journey to Harmony

    In this episode, JM unpacks how emotional attachments to objects can impact communication, especially when trauma or grief is involved. You’ll learn why some people hold on, how to approach decluttering as a household, and strategies like community vs. personal zones, shared goals, and weekly resets. Designed for couples and families, this episode offers a path to declutter with compassion, restore connection, and create a home that feels peaceful for everyone. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Why clutter creates household tension – Understand the emotional meaning behind “stuff.” How trauma affects decluttering habits – Learn why some people struggle to let go. Ways to declutter as a team – Use shared goals, zones, and 15-minute resets to stay aligned. How decluttering can heal relationships – Create space for peace, connection, and mutual respect. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-trauma Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    7 min
  6. AUG 29

    #74 Decluttering Regrets: What No One Tells You About Letting Go

    In this episode, JM shares the surprising story of a small drill bit with a big emotional impact—lost during a well-meaning garage clean-out. Together, JM and Valerie unpack the hidden cost of letting go too quickly and offer three mindful tips to prevent regret: use a Maybe Box, ask if an item carries a story, and slow down before tossing unique pieces. Whether you're clearing space or facing emotional decisions, this episode helps you declutter with intention, not remorse. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: What causes decluttering regret – Learn why even small items can hold deep emotional weight. How to avoid letting go too fast – Use a “Maybe Box” to pause before making final decisions. Questions to ask before tossing anything – Identify which items carry meaningful stories. Why mindful decluttering matters – Make choices you won’t second-guess later. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    4 min
  7. AUG 22

    #73 The Shocking Truth About Decluttering Guilt (And How to Let Go for Good)

    In this episode, Valerie and JM unpack the hidden emotional weight behind guilt, nostalgia, and identity that keeps clutter in your life. Learn the psychology behind why letting go is hard—and the mindset shifts that make it easier. This episode covers simple, practical steps to declutter without guilt, from the One-Year Rule to photo-based memory keeping. If you're holding onto things out of obligation, this conversation will help you reclaim space, peace, and purpose—one small step at a time. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: Why decluttering feels emotionally heavy – Understand the guilt behind letting go. Common types of decluttering guilt – From gifts to memories, learn what holds you back. Mindset shifts that free you from clutter – Reframe regret and focus on what you gain. Easy, guilt-free decluttering steps – Start small, use the One-Year Rule, and keep memories without the mess. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show

    5 min
  8. AUG 15

    #72 Before You Toss Childhood Items, Watch This!

    In this episode, Valerie shares the emotional story of losing her beloved blanket—and how that moment shaped her view on sentimental clutter. Together with JM, they walk through four powerful strategies to help you declutter keepsakes without regret: from memory boxes to meaningful goodbyes. If you're holding onto items from the past but craving a lighter, more peaceful home, this episode offers practical tools to help you release without losing what matters most. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: How to declutter sentimental items without regret – Let go without losing emotional connection. Memory box strategy for keepsakes – Keep meaningful items in one intentional space. Creative ways to repurpose childhood items – Transform objects into lasting treasures. Simple rituals to say goodbye – Honor memories while creating space for the present. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-traumaJoin the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! Support the show

    4 min
4
out of 5
17 Ratings

About

Hosted by wellness and decluttering experts Valerie Huard and JM Tetreault, the Post Trauma Secrets and Decluttering Podcast brings you on a journey from trauma to Joie de vivre! Like going on a vacation, you may be stressed and excited at the same time. You will enjoy every moment, try new things, discover new places, and still have time to relax. That decluttering journey will give you all the secrets you need to simplify your life by reducing your stress, decluttering your mind, organizing your space and getting control over your time so that you can create the life you want.

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