Settled

Jason & Elizabeth Settle

You’re trying hard to do all the right things, but deep down you’re still exhausted, disconnected, and wondering if closeness with God is always going to feel just out of reach. In each episode, Jason & Elizabeth have raw, story-driven conversations to help you rest in the reconciled person you already are in Christ. We’ll include space to slow down, listen, and encounter God right where you are. Are you ready to stop striving, start hearing God in the moment, and occupy your true self? This show is for anyone craving freedom, wholeness, and a settled identity.

  1. 5D AGO

    Childish or Childlike? - Community and Humiliation | Child Likeness

    This week, we dive deep into the concept of interdependence versus independence, particularly in the context of childlikeness. We explore what it truly means to have community and the importance of recognizing who’s around us and why that matters. It’s all about understanding our needs and how they connect us to others, as we reflect on the beauty of being able to express those needs like children do. We unpack the idea that while independence is often celebrated, it can lead to isolation, whereas interdependence fosters genuine connections and healing. Join us as we navigate these themes, drawing on personal experiences and scripture, to highlight the power of community in our lives. Resources: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: In this episode, we explored the essential concept of interdependence and how it contrasts with independence, highlighting the need for community support.We discussed the importance of maintaining childlikeness in our relationships, understanding that it's not about being childish, but rather embracing our needs.It's crucial to recognize our own needs, as adults often struggle to express them due to societal pressures or past experiences.The podcast emphasized that vulnerability in asking for help is a strength, allowing us to grow in our relationships and deepen our community connections.We reflected on the biblical perspective of bearing one another's burdens, which reminds us that we need each other to navigate life’s challenges.Finally, we touched on how emotional awareness can guide us in understanding our needs, leading to healthier connections with others. Townsend's Relational Nutrients - https://drtownsend.com/relational-nutrients/ From the book People Fuel by Dr. John Townsend - https://drtownsend.com/books/ Mentioned in this episode: Reflections: A Monthly Dose of Spiritual Beauty Tired of endless digital notifications? Experience a different kind of connection with 'Reflections,' a unique monthly snail-mail subscription by Stephen & Aubrey Cavazos. Each month, you'll receive a beautiful piece of mail designed to help you discover the spiritual beauty in everyday moments. It's a personal, tangible way to connect with their work and find a moment of peace in your busy life. Visit StampFans.com/Reflections Promo "StampFans" for 1st Free

    28 min
  2. MAR 9

    Dancing in Parking Lots - Accessing the Kingdom as a Child | Childlike

    We dive into the compelling invitation from Jesus to embrace a childlike spirit as a pathway to the kingdom of heaven. The conversation gets real as we explore what it truly means to be childlike—not childish—in our faith journey. We unpack the significance of dependence, joy, and the raw honesty that children embody. Through relatable anecdotes, we illustrate how societal pressures often stifle our innate ability to connect with God and others authentically. Join us as we challenge the norms of adulthood and rediscover the beauty of being a child of God, fully alive and engaged with the kingdom right here around us. Resources: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: Entering the kingdom of heaven requires a childlike heart and perspective, not mere rules.Childlikeness is about dependence on God, recognizing our need for Him in all things.Jesus emphasized that being childlike is essential for entering the kingdom, highlighting the importance of humility.True childlikeness allows us to engage with the kingdom around us and perceive its presence.As adults, we often lose touch with our inner child, but embracing that can lead to deeper spiritual truths.Mistakes are part of being childlike; it's the willingness to learn and grow that truly matters. Mentioned in this episode: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

    29 min
  3. MAR 2

    Sharing Feelings - Why God's Family Table is a Safe Haven | Concept of God

    This week, we’re diving deep into the heart of family dynamics as we explore the significance of gathering around the table. We share our personal journey of how we created a weekly family dinner tradition, which we affectionately dubbed our Shabbat meal. The table became a sacred space where we not only shared meals but also engaged in meaningful conversations about our lives and emotions, encouraging everyone to express their feelings openly. We discuss the importance of creating an atmosphere that allows for vulnerability and connection, even amidst discomfort, and how this practice has fostered deeper relationships within our family. Join us as we reflect on the memories made and the growth experienced through our table rituals, reminding us all that there’s room for every feeling at our family table. Resources: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: Family dinners create a space where we can share our feelings and experiences openly.Establishing a weekly family meal can strengthen connections and provide a rhythm for communication.Using a feelings chart helped our family articulate emotions, making sharing feelings more common.Creating a safe atmosphere at the dinner table allows for deeper conversations and vulnerability among family members.Practicing vulnerability as parents encourages our kids to express their emotions without fear of judgment.Over the years, consistency at the family table helped our children feel comfortable sharing their lives with us. Mentioned in this episode: Reflections: A Monthly Dose of Spiritual Beauty Tired of endless digital notifications? Experience a different kind of connection with 'Reflections,' a unique monthly snail-mail subscription by Stephen & Aubrey Cavazos. Each month, you'll receive a beautiful piece of mail designed to help you discover the spiritual beauty in everyday moments. It's a personal, tangible way to connect with their work and find a moment of peace in your busy life. Visit StampFans.com/Reflections Promo "StampFans" for 1st Free

    22 min
  4. FEB 23

    Superman's Cape - The Roles We Play in Family | Concept of God

    This episode dives deep into the roles we adopt within our families and how these roles shape our identities. We explore the idea that family dynamics can often feel like a framework into which we are poured as children, with each of us taking on specific roles—whether we were asked to or not. From the silent absorber to the family punchline, we share our personal experiences and humorous anecdotes about the roles we played growing up. We open up about how these family patterns can carry over into adulthood, affecting our relationships and self-perception. Ultimately, we encourage you to reflect on your own family roles and consider how they might still influence your life today, as we seek to shed those costumes and embrace our true selves in Christ. Resources: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: In this episode, we explored how childhood roles in our families shape our adult lives, often unconsciously.We discussed the importance of recognizing and shedding the emotional costumes we wore as children to live authentically.Understanding our family of origin can help us identify patterns that no longer serve us in our current relationships and workplaces.We emphasized that our identities should not be defined by roles imposed on us in childhood, but rather by our true selves in Christ.It's vital to notice the dynamics in our families, as they can inform our emotional responses and coping mechanisms today.The conversation highlighted how healing involves disentangling from unhealthy roles and stepping into our true identities. Mentioned in this episode: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

    26 min
  5. FEB 16

    God the Father is a Perfect Mother - Squishy Orbs and Spiritual Milk | Concept of God

    Exploring the concept of God as Mother may just be the most liberating conversation we've had yet. In this episode, we dive into the often overlooked feminine attributes of God, challenging conventional views of the divine as strictly paternal. Through personal stories and scripture, we reveal how embracing God’s maternal qualities can bring healing and a deeper understanding of our relationship with Him. We share our own experiences of how our perceptions of God are shaped by our families of origin, illustrating the importance of seeing God as both a nurturing figure and a source of comfort. This episode is not just a theological discussion; it's an invitation to reconsider how we relate to the divine and to explore the warmth and nurturing that God offers to each of us. Resources: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: This episode dives into the unconventional idea of viewing God as a mother, challenging traditional notions and encouraging healing through this perspective.The hosts share personal stories about their family backgrounds and how they influence their understanding of God, emphasizing the need for guidance in spiritual journeys.We explore the nurturing aspects of God as a mother, illustrating how this maternal imagery can provide comfort and security in our faith.The discussion unpacks how attachment theory relates to our relationship with God, highlighting the importance of receiving love and nourishment from both our earthly and divine parents. Mentioned in this episode: Reflections: A Monthly Dose of Spiritual Beauty Tired of endless digital notifications? Experience a different kind of connection with 'Reflections,' a unique monthly snail-mail subscription by Stephen & Aubrey Cavazos. Each month, you'll receive a beautiful piece of mail designed to help you discover the spiritual beauty in everyday moments. It's a personal, tangible way to connect with their work and find a moment of peace in your busy life. Visit StampFans.com/Reflections Promo "StampFans" for 1st Free

    39 min
  6. FEB 9

    The Potter's Hands - Discovering God as the Father You Never Had | Concept of God

    We're diving deep into how we perceive God as Father in this episode, and it’s a pretty crucial topic. The way we view God is often shaped by our experiences with our earthly fathers, whether those relationships are filled with love or carry deep wounds. We share our personal stories to explore how these dynamics affect our view of God and ourselves. Together, we’ll process those feelings and invite God into the healing process, aiming to reshape our understanding of divine fatherhood. So, grab a seat, and let’s create some space for God to speak into our hearts and bring forth a clearer picture of who He is as our perfect Father. Resources: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: Our understanding of God as Father is deeply connected to our earthly father experiences, which can shape our identity and beliefs.Healing from past wounds with our fathers can transform how we see God, fostering a healthier relationship with Him.A father’s voice has a profound impact on a child's identity; it's crucial for affirmation and acceptance.Forgiveness is essential for moving forward and can lead to a deeper understanding of our identity as children of God. Mentioned in this episode: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

    46 min
  7. FEB 2

    Vulnerable Shadows - Finding True Friendship in Jesus | Concept of God

    We dive deep into our concept of God today, focusing specifically on how our understanding of Jesus shapes our identity and our relationships. This conversation is not just enlightening; it's liberating. We explore how our early family experiences and the dynamics of sibling relationships heavily influence our perceptions of God and ourselves. With humor and vulnerability, we reflect on our personal journeys towards seeing God as a friend and a brother, breaking down the barriers of misconceptions that may have held us back from experiencing true connection. Join us as we share stories of transformation and invite you to consider how you view Jesus, and how that view impacts your life and relationships. Resources: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: Our concept of God is significantly influenced by our family of origin, shaping our beliefs about Him.It's essential to recognize and address the misconceptions we hold about God stemming from childhood experiences.Seeing Jesus as a friend or sibling can transform our understanding of His love and companionship.Transformation happens when we allow God to reveal the truth about our lives and relationships.The process of healing often requires vulnerability and a willingness to confront past hurts.We can hold both the reality of our current relationships and the pain of our past experiences simultaneously.

    37 min
  8. JAN 26

    Secondhand God - How Family Framed Your Faith | Concept of God

    We're diving into the transformative concept of God in this new series, exploring how our perception of Him shapes our entire experience of life. I mean, how we see God isn't just an abstract idea; it profoundly impacts how we view ourselves and the people around us. We're all carrying around some form of concept of God, often shaped by our upbringing, which can lead to some serious misunderstandings about His nature. As we kick off this series, we're not just scratching the surface; we're laying down a framework that will guide us into deeper conversations and revelations about who God really is. So, buckle up, because this journey is going to be liberating as we shatter those old, unhelpful images and embrace the fullness of His love and goodness! Resources: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney Free 30 Minute Biblical Counseling Session Linktree - https://linktr.ee/settledco Connect with us: Website - https://settledco.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/settled.co/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61552836102590 YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@settledpodcast LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/settledco/ Takeaways: Understanding our concept of God is crucial as it shapes how we see ourselves and others in our lives.The way we perceive God is often influenced by our familial experiences, which can lead to misconceptions about His nature.Dysfunctional family dynamics can distort our understanding of God's love and care, highlighting the need for a redefined perspective.Our journey toward a healthier concept of God requires us to confront and surrender our preconceived notions, allowing for transformation.Recognizing the difference between iniquity and sin helps us understand how generational patterns can influence our view of God.Embracing the truth of who God is can lead to profound liberation and a deeper connection with our true selves. Mentioned in this episode: Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Journey This FREE 5-day journey helps you silence the noise, reconnect with your soul, and rediscover the presence of God already dwelling within you. Reclaim your inner world, confront false voices, and discover the Kingdom of God within. Reclaim What's Real 5-Day Jouney

    39 min
5
out of 5
43 Ratings

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You’re trying hard to do all the right things, but deep down you’re still exhausted, disconnected, and wondering if closeness with God is always going to feel just out of reach. In each episode, Jason & Elizabeth have raw, story-driven conversations to help you rest in the reconciled person you already are in Christ. We’ll include space to slow down, listen, and encounter God right where you are. Are you ready to stop striving, start hearing God in the moment, and occupy your true self? This show is for anyone craving freedom, wholeness, and a settled identity.

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