THE ROXANNE SHOW

roxanne saffaie

DEEP. REAL. + DELICIOUSLY ALIVE. The most interesting part of a person is rarely the part you can Google. And that’s where The Roxanne Show likes to begin. Roxanne Saffaie, aka Roxy, sits down with world-class experts, artists, athletes, thinkers, founders + cultural voices—but the résumé is only the doorway. She wants to know the person behind it. What shaped them. What challenged them. What they risked, got wrong, figured out, mastered + had to live through to know what they know now. This is not an interview. It’s a real conversation between two people who genuinely want to be having it. The talks move fast, dive deep, hit hard, stay with you—and are never short on laughter. A Street Philosopher, artist, athlete + mystic, Roxy has plenty to say on her own. Her solos are part philosophy, part lived experience, part straight talk—the big ideas she can’t stop thinking about, the things she’s learning in real time + the truths she’s willing to say out loud. It’s like sitting across from your wise best friend who loves you enough to tell you the truth, make you laugh + give you a loving kick in the ass. There’s also a little bit —or a lot—of magic around here. Again + again, listeners tell Roxy the same thing: I needed to hear this today. Somehow, the words, the perspective, the reminder—or a sign—have a way of showing up right when they’re needed. If you’re reading this, it’s for a reason. Trust it. Hang out. There’s always something to learn, to question , to think deeper about, to take action on—to become. You don’t just hear The Roxanne Show. You feel it.

  1. 2d ago

    EP. 414: What's Feeding You, What's Costing You | Roxy Rewind

    In this rewind I walk you through four of my go-to journal prompts for checking in with your energy — your most valuable and finite resource. I share my own honest answers to each one, explain why judgment has no place in this kind of self-inquiry, and show how these simple questions can become a powerful weekly ritual for staying rooted in yourself. In this Roxy Rewind: Why energy, not time, is the resource that matters most The four prompts: what's inspiring me, what's challenging me, what's giving me energy, what's draining me Why self-judgment blocks real self-inquiry — approach it as the student, not the critic Reframing "problem" as "challenge" to open up growth instead of resistance Why naming what drains you is the first step to protecting your energy This episode was originally aired on 02/21/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

  2. 5d ago

    EP. 413: Christine Hassler: Why "Get in Your Feminine Energy" Is Bad Advice for Most Women

    This talk will make you rethink everything you've been taught about attracting real love.  In this special episode, down again with Christine Hassler—Spiritual Psychologist, Master Coach, Facilitator, Speaker, and a Best-selling Author who doesn't do surface-level—nor do I.  Together we get into why women get so exhausted searching for love, why being told you're 'too much in your masculine' almost always means something else entirely, and why desire itself was never the problem—attachment is. Christine breaks down her theory of magnetism, the difference between an expectation and a desire, the important connection between inner child work and relationships, and the real meaning of being called "intimidating."  We also get into her own love story, fawning as a hidden trauma response, and her upcoming Love Magnet workshop with her husband, Stefanos.  In This Episode: Why so many high-achieving women feel exhausted in their search for love The difference between being in your masculine and being in hypervigilance Why desire isn't the problem — attachment to outcome is How family of origin and inner child patterns shape who we're drawn to The difference between an expectation and a true desire What fawning looks like in relationships, and how to recognize it in yourself I loved every minute of this conversation with Christine.  I am so excited for you to listen to this one, AND if you feel called, come join her extraordinary FREE LIVE WORKSHOP with her husband, Stefanos Sifandos.  You never know what saying YES will offer your relationship with yourself—and to your love life. Believe✨ Claim Your Spot for Christine’s and Steph’s Free Workshop: LOVE MAGNET  ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS FIND CHRISTINE IG iTUNES 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

  3. Sep 11

    EP. 412: What Confident People Do Before They Feel Ready | Roxy Rewind

    In this rewind I break down five of my personal power moves for developing real, lasting self-confidence. I share the practices I've used throughout my life — from betting on myself with no real plan, to why my health habits directly shape my confidence — and how each one connects back to the relationship you have with your own word. In this Roxy Rewind: Why self-honesty is the non-negotiable starting point for real confidence "Competence creates confidence" — the role of preparation and repetition Betting on yourself in the face of uncertainty, even without a plan Why integrity — being fully of your word — fuels self-respect and self-trust How health and vitality directly shape your confidence and clarity This episode was originally aired on 02/14/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

    EP. 412: What Confident People Do Before They Feel Ready | Roxy Rewind
  4. Sep 8

    EP. 411: Why People-Pleasing Is Quietly Destroying Your Self-Respect.

    Self-betrayal doesn't always look like weakness — sometimes it looks like kindness, patience, or being a team player. Today I break down five common ways people betray themselves without even realizing it, from saying yes when you mean no to constantly outsourcing your own judgment. I get into why repeated self-betrayal turns into full self-abandonment, and how fear — not love — is usually running the show underneath it.  If the title of this episode caught your attention, there's probably a reason for that. In this episode: What self-betrayal actually is, and how it differs from self-abandonment Why saying yes when you mean no (or no when you mean yes) erodes self-trust How constantly seeking outside opinions hands your power away Why breaking promises to yourself quietly destroys your self-worth How minimizing your own feelings is a form of self-rejection How to start repatterning self-betrayal using your future self as an anchor ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

  5. Sep 4

    EP. 410: Why You Keep Breaking Promises To Yourself | Roxy Rewind

    In this rewind I dive into one of my favorite core values — integrity — and why it's one of the most powerful attributes you can build. I share a real story from behind the scenes of the podcast, unpack why integrity is directly tied to self-trust and self-respect, and offer a self-accountability practice for the moments you're not fully living up to your own standard. In this Roxy Rewind: Why integrity means being "whole and undivided," not just honest How misalignment between your words and actions erodes self-trust Why you're always the witness to your own actions, conscious or not Self-accountability as an empowering practice, not a punishment A real story of showing up with integrity when it wasn't easy This episode was originally aired on 02/07/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

    EP. 410: Why You Keep Breaking Promises To Yourself | Roxy Rewind
  6. Sep 1

    EP. 409: 5 Lessons From Dolly Parton On Being Your Unmistakably Magnetic Self.

    Dolly Parton didn't just leave us music—she left us a masterclass in knowing exactly who you are.  This episode is a tribute to a national treasure who turned self-knowledge into an art form.  I walk through five lessons from her life, her career, and one iconic 1977 Barbara Walters interview that still gives me chills—on Self-knowledge, Self-love, magnetism, refusing to be underestimated, and never saying yes to less than what you're worth.  This one will boost your Self-empowerment BIG TIME.  Rest in power, Dolly. In this episode: Why knowing yourself has to come before the world tries to define you The difference between being underestimated and being underpowered Why you don't have to be reduced to just one thing or one label Why Dolly turned down Elvis over her publishing rights, and what it teaches about knowing your worth—and honoring it Why true magnetism comes from fully showing up as yourself, not performing for approval Reflections on Dolly's 1977 Barbara Walters interview and what her composure reveals about Self-possession ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

  7. Aug 28

    EP. 408: Rewire Your Thoughts to Rewire Your Life | Roxy Rewind

    This rewind is a conversation with my dear friend Nicole Vignola, a neuroscientist, keynote speaker, and author who reaches millions with practical, science-backed tools for mental well-being. We dive into the neuroscience of habit formation, why the brain can't fully tell the difference between something real and something vividly imagined, and what it actually takes to interrupt a pattern instead of just white-knuckling through it. In this Roxy Rewind: Why neuroplasticity depends on attention and emotional charge happening together The 1995 study showing imagined practice can shape the brain like real practice Why repetition builds identity, whether the pattern serves you or not How to interject a new pattern instead of trying to erase the old one Why sleep is the most underrated tool for consolidating change This episode was originally aired on 01/24/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

    EP. 408: Rewire Your Thoughts to Rewire Your Life | Roxy Rewind
  8. Aug 25

    EP. 407: Why You Manifest What You Want — But Can't Seem to Keep It.

    "You have to feel worthy" gets thrown around in manifesting circles constantly — but almost nobody explains what it actually means.  Today I break worthiness into two parts: the inherent worthiness that gets you the thing, and the functional worthiness that determines whether you can actually keep it. I get into why so many people can manifest something and then watch it slip through their hands, what your nervous system has to do with all of it, and why capacity — not deserving — is the real work.  In this episode: The difference between inherent worthiness and functional worthiness Why manifesting something is different from being able to keep it How responsibility is the overlooked part of every manifestation conversation Why your nervous system can block you from receiving what you say you want How to use micro-actions and body-based practices to build capacity Journaling prompts to identify where you're blocked in each type of worthiness ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

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DEEP. REAL. + DELICIOUSLY ALIVE. The most interesting part of a person is rarely the part you can Google. And that’s where The Roxanne Show likes to begin. Roxanne Saffaie, aka Roxy, sits down with world-class experts, artists, athletes, thinkers, founders + cultural voices—but the résumé is only the doorway. She wants to know the person behind it. What shaped them. What challenged them. What they risked, got wrong, figured out, mastered + had to live through to know what they know now. This is not an interview. It’s a real conversation between two people who genuinely want to be having it. The talks move fast, dive deep, hit hard, stay with you—and are never short on laughter. A Street Philosopher, artist, athlete + mystic, Roxy has plenty to say on her own. Her solos are part philosophy, part lived experience, part straight talk—the big ideas she can’t stop thinking about, the things she’s learning in real time + the truths she’s willing to say out loud. It’s like sitting across from your wise best friend who loves you enough to tell you the truth, make you laugh + give you a loving kick in the ass. There’s also a little bit —or a lot—of magic around here. Again + again, listeners tell Roxy the same thing: I needed to hear this today. Somehow, the words, the perspective, the reminder—or a sign—have a way of showing up right when they’re needed. If you’re reading this, it’s for a reason. Trust it. Hang out. There’s always something to learn, to question , to think deeper about, to take action on—to become. You don’t just hear The Roxanne Show. You feel it.

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