THE ROXANNE SHOW

roxanne saffaie
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THE ROXANNE SHOW (Formally BlackBeltBeauty Radio) is a weekly podcast empowering you into stronger Self-Mastery, Self-Love + Vitality. Each episode is created with real talk, wisdom, knowledge, heart, soul, and laughter that entertains you as it teaches. The Roxanne Show is as authentic as it gets and uniquely delivers vital ideas, and tough love with compassion, grace, and warmth. You don’t just listen to this show, you experience it.

  1. 5D AGO

    EP. 352: 5 Questions That Make 2026 Your Best Year Ever

    In this special anniversary episode, I reflect on eight years of podcasting and the core principles that have shaped my life and work.  We focus on self-trust, decision-making, and how to move through life from love instead of fear.  I share five questions that have guided my growth, helped me regulate my emotions, and make choices I can stand behind. We explore self-respect as a non-negotiable foundation for personal and professional alignment.  This episode is a practical reset for anyone ready to start 2026 with clarity, honesty, and trust in themselves. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

    37 min

  2. 12/23/2025

    EP. 351: Stefanos Sifandos: How To Break Survival Patterns and Build Real Inner Safety.

    This powerful clip is from episode 338. In this honest, soul-stretching microsode, I sit with Stefanos Sifandos — Renowned Relationship Coach — to explore what it really means to know, love + lead yourSELF. We talk about growing up in environments shaped by impatience, survival, + unspoken pain — and how those early imprints write the emotional codes we live by as adults. This conversation is for the ones who’ve struggled to feel safe in their own skin. The ones learning that self-intimacy — not perfection — is the foundation of authentic power. Stefanos + I dive into the sacred terrain of trust, trauma, + transformation, unpacking how addiction, avoidance, + hyper-vigilance are not flaws — they’re invitations to return home to yourSELF. SOME WORDS ARE GIFTS: • You can’t love what you don’t know. Self-intimacy comes before self-love. • The roots of disconnection often look like survival — but healing begins with awareness. • Family systems teach us who to trust, until we remember to rebuild that trust within. • Avoidance is protection, until it becomes the prison that keeps you from your truth. • Leadership isn’t about control — it’s about conscious presence + radical honesty. Missed the Full Episode? Check it out here: LISTEN TO EP 338 ON APPLE PODCAST LISTEN TO EP 338 ON THE SPOTIFY PODCAST WATCH EP 338 ON YOUTUBE ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE TWITTER THREADS FIND STEFANOS SIFANDOS ON: IG WEB COURSE BOOK WAITLIST FREE RESOURCES: 🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making.  🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge.  🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses.

    14 min

  3. 12/16/2025

    EP. 350: Q&A: Getting Hurt, Getting Honest & Getting Grounded — Real Talk on Love & Life.

    In this heart-to-heart Q&A, we move through themes of self-trust, relationships, courage, + the quiet strength of asking for help. I talk about what it means to ground yourself in hard moments, how to shift from self-critique to self-compassion, and why the question “What can I do to make things easier on myself right now?” can change everything. I share honest stories from my own life: navigating relationship values, differentiating wants from needs, the tenderness of vulnerability, the discomfort of asking for support, + the deep work behind my upcoming book The Truth in You Knows. This episode is both practical and soulful — a reminder that personal evolution isn’t about perfection, but about presence, clarity, and courage. TAKE THIS WITH YOU: Self-trust is built moment by moment, especially in the hard moments. Values > wants — alignment is a compatibility of consciousness, not convenience. Vulnerability is not weakness; it’s an entry into real connection. Asking for help is uncomfortable… and profoundly strengthening. When things get heavy, return to the question: What would make this easier right now? ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS FREE RESOURCES: 🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making.  🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt:  🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge.  🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses.

    35 min

  4. 12/09/2025

    EP. 349: Q&A: Being Misunderstood, Setting Real Boundaries, and Staying True to Yourself.

    Some truths arrive as whispers. Some arrive as wounds that teach. Some arrive as a reminder: you were never meant to fit… You were meant to be. In this intimate Q&A episode, I answer your questions on misunderstanding, boundaries, and creative resilience — pulling from the decades I’ve spent writing my way into my values, my voice, + mySELF. We explore how being misunderstood can become a kind of spiritual armor — not the hard kind, but the sacred kind that forms when you stand rooted in who you are, even when others can’t comprehend you yet. I share stories from my 20s + 30s, the seasons where I had to choose between belonging to others or belonging to myself. Journaling became my sanctuary, my mirror, my extraction process — the place I met the real Roxanne. We go into boundary-setting with the people you love, why resentment is a poison, what it means to make a “true move,” + how to keep showing up for passions that feel heavy but holy. This episode is a love note to your inner compass — the one that always knows. TAKE THIS WITH YOU: Understanding your values is the foundation of every boundary you’ll ever need. Being misunderstood often signals depth, integrity, + evolution. Boundaries are uncomfortable AND necessary — love doesn’t cancel self-respect. When passion feels hard, alignment becomes your stamina. Journaling clears the fog so you can hear yourSELF again. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS FREE RESOURCES: 🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making.  🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt:  🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge.  🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses:

    34 min

  5. 12/02/2025

    EP. 348: Oliver Mann: How Journaling Helps You Discover Your Truth and Break Self-Judgment

    I sat down with Oliver Mann — 30+ years deep in the journaling world, a keeper of stories, a guide for the brave — to explore the REAL reason journaling works. Spoiler: it’s not the pen. It’s not the page.It’s YOU. Your courage. Your SELF-honesty. Your willingness to stop hiding from your own reflection. This conversation is an initiation into radical authenticity — the kind that doesn’t perform, doesn’t pretend, doesn’t negotiate its OWN truth.We go into masculine + feminine energies, the myth of “doing it right,” the lies judgment tells us, + the liberation that comes from writing what you’re REALLY thinking. If you’re ready to stop performing + start becoming, this episode is your invitation to write yourSELF free. Write your truth. OWN your truth. Become the one who transforms your OWN life — word by word, breath by breath, page by page. SOME WORDS ARE GIFTS: Journaling is a TOOL — but YOU are the transformation. Authenticity requires dropping judgment, masks, + performance. Self-awareness means nothing without action to match it. Masculine + feminine energies are FLUID — not fixed — and learning your inner rhythm creates inner harmony. Your humanity is not a flaw… It’s the curriculum. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS FIND OLIVER ON: IG WEB OLIVER'S 5-DAY WRITING CHALLENGE:  ⁠https://www.shadowjournaling.com/new-story-challenge⁠ CHECK OUT: My Beautiful Guided + Illustrated Journal YOU ARE THE PATH: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  My Upcoming Self-Directed Journaling Webinar: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/webinar FREE RESOURCES: 🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making.  🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt:  🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge.  🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses.

    1h 20m

  6. 11/25/2025

    EP. 347: Christine Hassler: Why Your Childhood Shows Up in Your Relationships (And How To Shift It)

    This powerful clip is from episode 336 In this raw + illuminating microsode, I sit down with Christine Hassler to explore the invisible threads between childhood wounds, creativity, + the way we show up in our adult lives. We talk about the moments when expression felt unsafe — when you learned to silence yourSELF to be accepted — and how that suppression becomes the breeding ground for suffering. We discuss what it means to meet your inner child again — not with blame, but with compassion. This episode is for anyone ready to stop repeating the same emotional cycles + start integrating the lessons they’ve already earned. Because healing isn’t about erasing your past — it’s about responding differently this time. KEY REVELATIONS: • Your suppression wasn’t protection — it was survival. But your expression? That’s your liberation. • The inner child isn’t a metaphor — it’s the map to your healing. • Familiar doesn’t mean safe. It just means known. Choose differently this time. • Integration is the practice of becoming who you already are beneath the conditioning. • Healing happens when you stop performing and start feeling. Missed the Full Episode? Check it out here: LISTEN TO EP 336 ON APPLE PODCAST LISTEN TO EP 336 ON THE SPOTIFY PODCAST WATCH EP 336 ON YOUTUBE ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE TWITTER THREADS FIND CHRISTINE HASSLER ON: IG PODCAST FREE RESOURCES: 🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making.  🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge.  🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses:

    13 min

  7. 11/18/2025

    EP. 346: How To Be More Stoic Under Pressure.

    I say your emotions aren’t your enemy—they’re data. They’re messages from your body + your soul, guiding you toward your truth. This episode is your framework for learning how to feel it all without losing yourSELF in the process. Through my 5-step Emotional Agility Framework, we dive into the art of self-awareness, emotional discipline + integration—because emotional mastery isn’t about perfection, it’s about presence. Maybe you’ve been trying to stay “strong” by avoiding the mess. But what if the mess is your teacher? What if self-mastery begins where emotional honesty lives? If you’ve ever felt ruled by your emotions, consider this your invitation to transmute them into wisdom. Because when you master your inner world, the outer one starts to follow. Consider these love notes for your evolution: You can’t control life, but you can master your state. That’s real power. Emotions aren’t weakness—they’re wisdom. Learn to decode them before they own you. Self-awareness is your superpower. Without it, you’re just reacting to life instead of creating it. Discipline is love in action. It’s how you honor yourSELF when chaos comes knocking. Challenges aren’t punishments—they’re portals. Each one refines your strength + evolves your consciousness. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS FREE RESOURCES: 🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making.  🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge.  🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses.

    34 min

  8. 11/11/2025

    EP. 345: Ellina Abovian: How To Move On From Heartbreak + Rise Into Your Real Power.

    In this episode of The Roxanne Show, I sit down with the unapologetically raw Ellina Abovian — journalist, storyteller + woman in the wild process of BECOMING. Together we dive deep into the art of self-discovery, the courage to walk away from what no longer fits, + the beauty of rebuilding yourSELF from truth, not expectation. They say certainty is safety. I say uncertainty is where your SPIRIT starts breathing again. Ellina opens her heART about the moment she chose HERSELF — ending a 16-year marriage to step into the unknown + rewrite her story. We talk intuition, self-trust, + the bold act of standing in your authenticity even when the world doesn’t understand your evolution. This is a conversation for anyone standing at the edge of change — scared, curious, + ready. Take this with you: There’s no “right” path — only the one that feels most like YOU. Self-trust is built inch by inch, choice by choice, day by day. Your rebirth will ask you to let go of who you were to become who you’re meant to be. Vulnerability isn’t weakness — it’s your greatest form of power. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS FIND ELLINA ON: IG PODCAST FREE RESOURCES: 🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making.  🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge.  🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses:

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THE ROXANNE SHOW (Formally BlackBeltBeauty Radio) is a weekly podcast empowering you into stronger Self-Mastery, Self-Love + Vitality. Each episode is created with real talk, wisdom, knowledge, heart, soul, and laughter that entertains you as it teaches. The Roxanne Show is as authentic as it gets and uniquely delivers vital ideas, and tough love with compassion, grace, and warmth. You don’t just listen to this show, you experience it.

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  • Creator
    roxanne saffaie
  • Years Active
    2017 - 2025
  • Episodes
    355
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © roxanne saffaie
  • Show Website
    THE ROXANNE SHOW

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