THE ROXANNE SHOW

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THE ROXANNE SHOW (Formally BlackBeltBeauty Radio) is a weekly podcast empowering you into stronger Self-Mastery, Self-Love + Vitality. Each episode is created with real talk, wisdom, knowledge, heart, soul, and laughter that entertains you as it teaches. The Roxanne Show is as authentic as it gets and uniquely delivers vital ideas, and tough love with compassion, grace, and warmth. You don’t just listen to this show, you experience it.

  1. 2D AGO

    EP. 367: Oliver Mann: Why You’re Exhausted From Pretending You’re Fine.

    This powerful clip is from episode 348. In this Microsode I’m sitting with Oliver Mann, who’s spent over 30 years in the trenches of journaling and self-inquiry. We talk about masks, shame, and the quiet violence of pretending you’re better than you are. Not broken. Not special. Just human — contradictory, unfinished, and real. The problem isn’t what lives inside us. It’s the energy we waste denying it. This episode isn’t here to soothe you. It’s a mirror. What you do after recognizing yourself in it is on you. Missed the Full Episode? Check it out here: LISTEN TO EP 348 ON APPLE PODCAST LISTEN TO EP 348 ON THE SPOTIFY PODCAST WATCH EP 348 ON YOUTUBE ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE TWITTER THREADS FIND OLIVER ON: IG WEB FREE RESOURCES: 🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making.  🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge.  🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses

    13 min
  2. MAR 31

    EP. 365: Why You Keep One Foot in the Old Life.

    This Q&A episode is about outgrowing what used to fit — careers, cities, habits, even versions of you — and how to make a true move without needing the whole next chapter mapped out. I answer three core questions: how to leave something you worked hard to build, how to steady yourself when you’re emotionally activated, and what journaling gives you in hard seasons that nothing else does. The through-line is self-respect: risk tolerance, standards, and the ability to take your foot off first base when it’s time. If you keep one thing from this: you don’t need to move fast — you need to move true, and stop negotiating with the life you’ve already outgrown. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

    41 min
  3. MAR 24

    EP. 364: You’re Not Burnt Out — You’re Scared to Handle More.

    In this episode, I break down what personal growth actually feels like when you’re in it — the pressure, the self-talk, the decision-making, and the nervous system stretch that comes with becoming more. If you’re in a season where your capacity is being tested, this is about learning the difference between growth and burnout. Between discomfort and misalignment. Between playing safe and expanding into the next level version of yourself. We talk about: Identity shifts Managing self-talk during hard seasons Nervous system capacity Growth vs burnout Making powerful decisions Growth isn’t supposed to feel comfortable. The real skill is knowing when to push — and when to pause. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

    36 min
  4. MAR 17

    EP. 363: Ellina Abovian: Why You Lost Yourself In That Relationship.

    This powerful clip is from episode 345. In this microsode, I sit down with Ellina Abovian — journalist and storyteller — for a raw, unfiltered conversation about identity, intuition, and who you become after life cracks you wide open. We talk about early loss, hyper-independence, divorce, and how long-term relationships can quietly erode your voice if you’re not paying attention. We explore ignoring intuition versus honoring it, reclaiming yourself after starting over, and the truth most people avoid: your past didn’t break you — it built you. This episode is about integration over erasure, radical self-trust, and choosing to live from truth, standards, and self-respect instead of fear or approval. Missed the Full Episode? Check it out here: LISTEN TO EP 345 ON APPLE PODCAST LISTEN TO EP 345 ON THE SPOTIFY PODCAST WATCH EP 345 ON YOUTUBE ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE TWITTER THREADS FIND ELLINA ON: IG PODCAST FREE RESOURCES: 🖤 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making.  🖤  Download Your WHAT TO DO NEXT Guide to start moving through life with Self-trust, not Self-doubt: 🖤 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge.  🖤  Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event and special bonuses.

    17 min
  5. MAR 10

    EP. 362: You're MANIFESTING What You Fear (And Don't Realize It).

    This is a compilation episode built around one theme: manifestation without delusion. Not the aesthetic version — the psychological one. Across different conversations, I break down how your dominant thoughts, emotional patterns, and unconscious scripts shape what you experience. The airport story. The autopilot thinking. The frequency you live in daily. And why gratitude isn’t about listing what you have — it’s about reinforcing who you are. This episode is a reminder that you’re not waiting on life. You’re participating in it. And whether you like it or not, you’re contributing to what shows up. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

    20 min
  6. MAR 3

    EP. 361: What's BLOCKING Your Next Level.

    This Q&A episode is about the difference between imagining who you want to become and actually partnering with her in real time. Future self work only works when it starts with identity: traits, values, boundaries. Then it comes down to the daily micro-moments where I either embody that version of me, or I abandon her. I also get into what to do when life keeps hitting—how to regulate your nervous system, rewrite the story, and stop letting challenge turn you into someone smaller. There’s a line between resilience and performance. Between authenticity and a mask you put on to be liked. This episode is a reminder that the path gets cleaner the second you stop betraying who you are. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

    38 min
  7. FEB 24

    EP. 360: The Real Reason You're Stuck.

    I didn’t plan this episode. It intercepted me. A detour. A pause. A moment where I chose trust instead of irritation, presence instead of control.  This is about self-trust in real time. About learning the difference between honoring an emotion and letting it run your life. About recognizing when overwhelm isn’t life being too much — it’s you not being clear enough. And about the quiet power of creating space so you can actually receive what you say you want. Nothing here is theoretical. This is lived. If you’re clinging to something because it’s familiar, even though it no longer fits, this episode will meet you there — and ask you to tell the truth about what you’re ready to release. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  ❤️‍🔥 BUY My Future Self Course: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/future-self-1  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thetruthinyouknows

    39 min
4.9
out of 5
146 Ratings

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THE ROXANNE SHOW (Formally BlackBeltBeauty Radio) is a weekly podcast empowering you into stronger Self-Mastery, Self-Love + Vitality. Each episode is created with real talk, wisdom, knowledge, heart, soul, and laughter that entertains you as it teaches. The Roxanne Show is as authentic as it gets and uniquely delivers vital ideas, and tough love with compassion, grace, and warmth. You don’t just listen to this show, you experience it.

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