What The Hell Do I Know w/JB

Jason Becker

”What the Hell Do I Know?” with JB offers insightful interviews with friends, business associates, and professionals. Join JB, a late-stage midlife husband and dad with self-diagnosed ADHD, as he explores life lessons gathered along the way. Expect candid discussions where you can take away the good parts and leave the bad behind. Disclaimer: Topics may wander from the stated episode theme.

  1. 25 Years of Marriage: What I Got Wrong, What Saved Us, and What I’d Tell You Now

    FEB 10

    25 Years of Marriage: What I Got Wrong, What Saved Us, and What I’d Tell You Now

    This is my first-ever solo episode of What the Hell Do I Know with JB — and it’s different. Ep. 69 Today marks 25 years of marriage to my wife Danielle, and instead of doing a normal interview, I sat alone in the studio and reflected honestly on what marriage has taught me: the mistakes, the selfishness, the grace, the counseling, the hard conversations, and the moments that almost broke us — and the ones that saved us. This episode isn’t expert advice. It’s earned wisdom. If you’re: thinking about marriage newly married deep in the grind of kids and careers wondering if it’s worth fighting for …this one’s for you. 🎙 Topics we get into: Why marriage isn’t a fairy tale (and why that lie hurts people) The selfish version of me that almost cost my marriage How ambition and work can quietly erode intimacy Why counseling earlier would’ve changed everything What real love actually looks like after decades The difference between happiness and formation What I’d tell my kids — and your kids — about marriage 🤝 Sponsors (support the people who support the show): Floorzz 👉 https://www.floorzz.com Quality flooring for restoration, remodels, and new builds — shipped nationwide. Tell them The Jabronis sent you. True North Pest Control 👉 https://www.trunorthpest.com Family-owned, trusted pest control across Florida & Georgia. Your pest control superheroes. 🌐 Follow & Support Website: https://thejabronis.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/_jason_becker If this episode resonates, subscribe. It’s free — and it helps this show reach people who need these conversations. 00:00 First Solo Episode & Why This One Matters 02:30 The Wedding Day & Early Expectations 08:45 The Selfish Version of Me 15:40 Why Counseling Changed Everything 22:00 Marriage Isn’t a Fairy Tale 30:10 Ambition, Work, and Family Tension 38:30 Learning How to Fight Fair 46:00 Marriage as Formation, Not Happiness 53:30 What I’d Tell My Kids About Marriage 01:00:30 How We Met & Why the Story Still Matters #MarriagePodcast #LongTermMarriage #SoloPodcast #MarriageAdvice #MarriageTruth #RealMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageWisdom #Relationships #FamilyLife #PersonalGrowth #FaithAndFamily #PodcastLife

    1h 3m
  2. Coaching the Bulls After Jordan, College vs NBA & Learning What ‘Enough’ Means | Coach Tim Floyd

    JAN 27

    Coaching the Bulls After Jordan, College vs NBA & Learning What ‘Enough’ Means | Coach Tim Floyd

    In Episode 67 of What the Hell Do I Know with JB, Jason Becker sits down one-on-one with legendary basketball coach Tim Floyd, whose career spans college basketball powerhouses and the NBA — including one of the most challenging jobs in sports history: coaching the Chicago Bulls after the Michael Jordan era. Coach Floyd opens up about: Coaching the Bulls during a full rebuild The real differences between college basketball and the NBA Leadership under pressure and intense media scrutiny Lessons learned from Don Haskins and Bobby Knight Why today’s college sports landscape is broken And the most powerful idea he wishes he’d learned earlier: what “enough” really means This conversation goes far beyond basketball. It’s about leadership, identity, legacy, and navigating success without losing yourself. 🎙 Hosted by Jason Becker 📍 Episode 67 ⏱️ CHAPTER TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Intro & Episode Overview 02:30 – Growing Up Around the Game 06:15 – Lessons From Don Haskins 10:40 – Building Programs at Different Levels 16:20 – College Basketball vs the NBA 22:45 – Coaching the Chicago Bulls Post–Jordan 29:50 – Media Pressure & Leadership Challenges 35:40 – Managing Egos & High-Level Talent 41:55 – The State of the NBA Today 47:30 – NIL, Transfer Portal & College Sports 55:10 – Competition, Adversity & Development 1:01:45 – Bobby Knight & Old-School Coaching 1:07:50 – Life Beyond Coaching 1:12:10 – Learning the Meaning of “Enough” 1:16:30 – Final Reflections & Closing Thoughts 🤝 EPISODE SPONSORS This episode is brought to you by: TruNorth Pest Control 👉 Reliable, professional pest control you can trust 🌐 https://trunorthpest.com Floorzz 👉 High-quality flooring solutions for homes and businesses 🌐 https://floorzz.com 📱 CONNECT Follow Jason on Instagram: @_jason_becker 🎙 New episodes of What the Hell Do I Know with JB every week

    1h 17m
  3. From Trailer Parks to Green Beret Sergeant Major | Terry Wilson on Brotherhood, War & Purpose

    JAN 20

    From Trailer Parks to Green Beret Sergeant Major | Terry Wilson on Brotherhood, War & Purpose

    Terry “Trailer” Wilson is a retired Green Beret Sergeant Major who spent 11 of his 24 years deployed with the 7th Special Forces Group. In this powerful Season 3 episode of What the Hell Do I Know with JB, Terry opens up about growing up in poverty, breaking generational cycles, surviving war, leading elite teams, and the toll military life takes on families. From learning Spanish for Special Forces missions, to combat decision-making under fire, to reintegrating into family life after deployment — this conversation goes far beyond war stories. It’s about brotherhood, humility, leadership, and purpose. This episode is for: • Veterans and military families • Leaders and team builders • Anyone trying to break cycles and build something better • Civilians who want to understand the unseen cost of freedom 🎙 Hosted by JB: @_jason_becker Guest: Terry Wilson: @terry.m.wilson.jr 🎧 Co-hosts: @juiceellis & @bhillenb 🙏 Huge thanks to our sponsors: • Floorzz → https://floorzz.com | @floorzz • TruNorth Pest → https://trunorthpest.com | @trunorth.pest 📍 Watch, listen, and subscribe at: https://vintagewisdom.org https://thejabronis.com 00:00 – Who is Terry Wilson 03:00 – Growing up unstable & breaking generational cycles 07:45 – Joining the military to save his family 14:20 – Special Forces vs Special Operations explained 19:00 – Learning Spanish for Green Beret missions 23:30 – Combat decision-making under fire 28:10 – The cost of 11 years deployed on family 36:00 – Leadership, humility & team culture 41:30 – What civilians don’t understand about brotherhood

    1h 30m
  4. Is “Spare the Rod” Biblical? Megan Hampton on Christian Parenting & Emotional Health (Ep. 065)

    JAN 13

    Is “Spare the Rod” Biblical? Megan Hampton on Christian Parenting & Emotional Health (Ep. 065)

    Season 3 kicks off with a powerful and timely conversation. In Episode #065 of What the Hell Do I Know with JB, we sit down with Megan Hampton, Christian counselor, parenting educator, and founder of Soul Care for Families, for an honest discussion on Christian parenting, discipline, grace, and emotional regulation. Megan breaks down: What the Bible actually says about discipline Why “spare the rod” is often misunderstood How parents unintentionally pass anxiety and stress to their kids What co-regulation really means Why “good enough parenting” only requires getting it right about 40% of the time How Jesus modeled love, mercy, and patience toward children This episode is a must-listen for: ✔️ Christian parents ✔️ Parents questioning traditional discipline models ✔️ Families wanting healthier emotional dynamics ✔️ Anyone trying to lead with grace instead of fear Megan blends biblical theology, psychology, and real-world parenting tools into a compassionate approach that challenges old assumptions — without shame or condemnation. If you’ve ever wondered: 👉 “Am I parenting the right way?” 👉 “Is discipline supposed to look like this?” 👉 “Why does my child react this way?” This conversation is for you. 🔗 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST Megan Hampton – Soul Care for Families Instagram: @soulcareforfamilies Resources, Substack & Parenting Tools available via her IG 🎙️ HOSTS & SHOW Hosted by JB with co-hosts Juice Ellis & Brandon "Bmoney" Hillenburg Podcast: What the Hell Do I Know with JB Instagram: @_jason_becker , @juiceellis , @bhillenb 🤝 SPONSORS (Support the People Who Support the Show) Floorzz 🌐 https://floorzz.com 📸 @floorzz TruNorth Pest Control 🌐 https://trunorthpest.com 📸 @trunorth.pest 📌 CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS  00:00 – Season 3 Opener 02:10 – Is spanking actually biblical? 05:40 – What “the rod” really means in Scripture 10:15 – Psychology, theology & parenting overlap 16:45 – Why kids absorb our emotional state 23:00 – Co-regulation explained simply 30:20 – Why fear-based parenting backfires 36:10 – Obedience, grace & brain development 42:15 – The only parenting directives in the New Testament 49:00 – Discipline vs. mercy vs. grace 55:20 – “Good enough parenting” (40% rule) 1:02:00 – Hope for parents who feel like they failed #ChristianParenting #FaithAndFamily #ParentingPodcast #GentleParenting #BiblicalParenting #EmotionalHealth #WhatTheHellDoIKnow

    1h 28m
  5. 11/18/2025

    Season 2 Finale: FBI Profilers, Coast Guard Legends, Adoption Miracles & Wild Redemption Stories

    Season 2… what a ride. Episode #064 This finale episode recaps some of the most powerful, wild, emotional, and impactful conversations we’ve ever had on What The Hell Do I Know with JB. Today we look back at the second half of the season — the moments that made us laugh, made us think, and honestly… made us better. We’re closing Season 2 with gratitude — for our guests, our listeners, our community, and for the grace of God weaving through so many of these stories. 🔥 Episodes We Recap in This Finale 🔹 Episode #052 — Mike Yoder, Former FBI Behavioral Analyst Former FBI Supervisory Special Agent Mike Yoder walked us through elite Behavioral Analysis Unit operations, child exploitation cases, West Point grit, profiling methodology, and how someone carries that weight home at night. 🔹 Episode #055 — Corey & Hillary Fosdyck (Adoption & Foster Care Journey) One of the most moving stories of the season… adoption, fostering, calling, obedience, and God’s unexpected timing. @coryfosdyck @hillaryfosdyck 🔹 Episode #046 — Coast Guard Master Chief Eugene Wright Leadership at sea, staying calm under pressure, real-life rescue missions, young sailors depending on your voice, and what the ocean teaches you about life, fatherhood, and integrity. @genewright383 🔹 Episode #060 — David Fields (Addiction, Recovery & Redemption) From drinking at 10 years old… to arrests… to supernatural God-moments… to full redemption. One of the most gripping testimonies we’ve ever featured. @davidfields22 🔹 Episode #061 — Ron Williams (21-Time Natural Mr. Universe) Faith, discipline, purpose, and the #1 thing he’d tell his 25-year-old self: “Jesus is the answer for the world today.” @ron.williams ⭐ Why This Season Mattered From behavioral profiling to adoption miracles, from addiction recovery to military leadership, from faith conversations to laugh-until-you-cry stories… this season had everything. We loved hearing your messages about how these episodes have helped you: reconnect with faith start counseling explore adoption mend relationships find healing chase purpose and even save lives That’s why we do this. 🙏 Huge Thank You to Our Sponsors They make this show possible: Floorzz floorzz.com  @floorzz TruNorth Pest Control trunorthpest.com @trunorth.pest Follow JB on Instagram: @_jason_becker Bmoney @bhillenb  Juice @juiceellis 📩 Want to suggest a guest for Season 3? Email: 10dollarpodcast@gmail.com Or comment below — we actually read every single one. ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Welcome + Season 2 Overview 01:15 Episode #052 — FBI Profiler Mike Yoder 05:20 Episode #055 — The Fosdycks: Adoption & Foster Care 09:40 Episode #046 — Coast Guard Master Chief Eugene Wright 13:10 Episode #060 — David Fields: Addiction → Redemption 17:00 Episode #061 — Ron Williams: Faith, Discipline & Purpose 20:45 Funniest / Wildest Behind-the-Scenes Moments 26:00 Thanksgiving, Family, Food & Chaos 32:20 What We’re Planning for Season 3 35:00 How YOU Can Shape Next Season 38:10 Final Thoughts & Gratitude

    1h 4m
  6. 11/11/2025

    💔 Permission to Grieve | J.S. Park on Healing, Faith & Finding Hope Through Loss

    Episode #063 – What The Hell Do I Know with JB Grief touches every life. In this raw, deeply honest conversation, JB sits down one-on-one with J.S. Park (Joon Park) — hospital chaplain, author, and viral storyteller — to talk about what it really means to grieve as long as you need. J.S. shares stories from hospital rooms and heartbreak, moments of faith and doubt, and how he’s learned that grief never disappears — it just changes shape. Together, they unpack what “grief literacy” means, why our culture struggles to sit with pain, and how love, compassion, and presence often speak louder than any words. Whether you’ve lost someone, are walking with someone who has, or are simply learning how to hold space for others — this conversation will stay with you. 🎙 Guest: J.S. Park 📘 Book: As Long As You Need: Permission to Grieve — [Amazon Link] 🌐 Follow J.S. Park: @jspark3000 🧠 Topics Covered: How to sit with pain without trying to fix it Why “grief literacy” matters for everyone How faith and doubt can coexist What to not say to someone grieving How trauma shapes compassion Learning to give yourself grace Joon’s next book on family systems and generational healing JB’s reflections on loss, legacy, and faith 🙏 Sponsors: Huge thanks to our show sponsors for making this possible: @trunorth.pest - www.trunorthpest.com    @floorzz - www.floorzz.com  🛒 Merch, Episodes & More: 👉 www.thejabronis.com 🎧 Follow on Instagram: @_jason_becker 💭 “Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is just sit with the pain and breathe. Or don’t. What the hell do I know?” – JB #WhatTheHellDoIKnow #GriefJourney #FaithAndHealing #VintageWisdom #PermissionToGrieve

    53 min

Ratings & Reviews

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”What the Hell Do I Know?” with JB offers insightful interviews with friends, business associates, and professionals. Join JB, a late-stage midlife husband and dad with self-diagnosed ADHD, as he explores life lessons gathered along the way. Expect candid discussions where you can take away the good parts and leave the bad behind. Disclaimer: Topics may wander from the stated episode theme.

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