THE ROXANNE SHOW

roxanne saffaie

DEEP. REAL. + DELICIOUSLY ALIVE. The most interesting part of a person is rarely the part you can Google. And that’s where The Roxanne Show likes to begin. Roxanne Saffaie, aka Roxy, sits down with world-class experts, artists, athletes, thinkers, founders + cultural voices—but the résumé is only the doorway. She wants to know the person behind it. What shaped them. What challenged them. What they risked, got wrong, figured out, mastered + had to live through to know what they know now. This is not an interview. It’s a real conversation between two people who genuinely want to be having it. The talks move fast, dive deep, hit hard, stay with you—and are never short on laughter. A Street Philosopher, artist, athlete + mystic, Roxy has plenty to say on her own. Her solos are part philosophy, part lived experience, part straight talk—the big ideas she can’t stop thinking about, the things she’s learning in real time + the truths she’s willing to say out loud. It’s like sitting across from your wise best friend who loves you enough to tell you the truth, make you laugh + give you a loving kick in the ass. There’s also a little bit —or a lot—of magic around here. Again + again, listeners tell Roxy the same thing: I needed to hear this today. Somehow, the words, the perspective, the reminder—or a sign—have a way of showing up right when they’re needed. If you’re reading this, it’s for a reason. Trust it. Hang out. There’s always something to learn, to question , to think deeper about, to take action on—to become. You don’t just hear The Roxanne Show. You feel it.

  1. 5d ago

    EP. 417: Stop Waiting to "Get There" — Your Abundance Is Available Right Now.

    This compilation episode is about abundance — not the version everyone sells you, the real one. Money is only one room in a much bigger house. My guests and I get into why abundance was never a place you arrive — it's a frequency you either occupy now or keep chasing, exhausted, wondering why nothing's landing. We talk about ownership, about dropping the excuses that keep you small, and about the hyper-masculine push so many of us mistake for ambition — the kind that quietly caps what you're able to receive. Peace, not more effort, is the actual doorway in. You don't get abundant later. You get abundant the second you stop negotiating with your own life. In this episode: Why ownership — not blame — is the real power move Why abundance is a frequency you match, not a destination you earn How hyper-masculine hustle energy quietly caps what you can receive Why peace, not more effort, is the actual doorway to abundance What it means to be a magnet for miracles, starting now ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

  2. Sep 25

    EP. 416: Why Self-Love Takes More Courage Than You Think | Roxy Rewind

    In this rewind, I share ten principles I've created to help you anchor into real, active self-love. I unpack why self-love requires courage and honesty as much as it requires warmth, and walk through the mindset shifts — from self-witnessing to trusting your intuition — that help you build a stronger relationship with yourself over time. In this Roxy Rewind: Why witnessing yourself without judgment is the starting point for self-love Self-honesty as the greatest act of self-love, even when it's uncomfortable Choosing curiosity over judgment when you look at your own patterns Listening to your intuition before the critical mind or outside voices take over Why turning inward in hard moments is true empowerment, not avoidance This episode was originally aired on 02/28/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

  3. Sep 22

    EP. 415: Stop Letting Your Feelings Run Your Life.

    Words cast spells — including the ones you use on yourself.  Today I'm answering more of your questions: how to separate yourself from your feelings without bypassing them, what actually keeps me committed to this podcast on the days I don't feel like showing up, and whether I've always felt this alive or had to cultivate it. I also get into what to do when you hate the way you look on camera, and why that word "hate" deserves a closer look.  Big, honest questions today — let's get into it.  In this episode: How to separate your feelings from your identity without rejecting them The "weather vs. climate" metaphor for when a feeling becomes who you are What keeps me committed to podcasting even on unmotivated days What "aliveness" really means, and how to cultivate it deliberately Why hating your own content is worth investigating, not judging How self-inquiry and journaling build self-trust and self-respect ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

  4. Sep 18

    EP. 414: What's Feeding You, What's Costing You | Roxy Rewind

    In this rewind I walk you through four of my go-to journal prompts for checking in with your energy — your most valuable and finite resource. I share my own honest answers to each one, explain why judgment has no place in this kind of self-inquiry, and show how these simple questions can become a powerful weekly ritual for staying rooted in yourself. In this Roxy Rewind: Why energy, not time, is the resource that matters most The four prompts: what's inspiring me, what's challenging me, what's giving me energy, what's draining me Why self-judgment blocks real self-inquiry — approach it as the student, not the critic Reframing "problem" as "challenge" to open up growth instead of resistance Why naming what drains you is the first step to protecting your energy This episode was originally aired on 02/21/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

  5. Sep 15

    EP. 413: Christine Hassler: Why "Get in Your Feminine Energy" Is Bad Advice for Most Women

    This talk will make you rethink everything you've been taught about attracting real love.  In this special episode, down again with Christine Hassler—Spiritual Psychologist, Master Coach, Facilitator, Speaker, and a Best-selling Author who doesn't do surface-level—nor do I.  Together we get into why women get so exhausted searching for love, why being told you're 'too much in your masculine' almost always means something else entirely, and why desire itself was never the problem—attachment is. Christine breaks down her theory of magnetism, the difference between an expectation and a desire, the important connection between inner child work and relationships, and the real meaning of being called "intimidating."  We also get into her own love story, fawning as a hidden trauma response, and her upcoming Love Magnet workshop with her husband, Stefanos.  In This Episode: Why so many high-achieving women feel exhausted in their search for love The difference between being in your masculine and being in hypervigilance Why desire isn't the problem — attachment to outcome is How family of origin and inner child patterns shape who we're drawn to The difference between an expectation and a true desire What fawning looks like in relationships, and how to recognize it in yourself I loved every minute of this conversation with Christine.  I am so excited for you to listen to this one, AND if you feel called, come join her extraordinary FREE LIVE WORKSHOP with her husband, Stefanos Sifandos.  You never know what saying YES will offer your relationship with yourself—and to your love life. Believe✨ Claim Your Spot for Christine’s and Steph’s Free Workshop: LOVE MAGNET  ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS FIND CHRISTINE IG iTUNES 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

  6. Sep 11

    EP. 412: What Confident People Do Before They Feel Ready | Roxy Rewind

    In this rewind I break down five of my personal power moves for developing real, lasting self-confidence. I share the practices I've used throughout my life — from betting on myself with no real plan, to why my health habits directly shape my confidence — and how each one connects back to the relationship you have with your own word. In this Roxy Rewind: Why self-honesty is the non-negotiable starting point for real confidence "Competence creates confidence" — the role of preparation and repetition Betting on yourself in the face of uncertainty, even without a plan Why integrity — being fully of your word — fuels self-respect and self-trust How health and vitality directly shape your confidence and clarity This episode was originally aired on 02/14/2023. ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

    EP. 412: What Confident People Do Before They Feel Ready | Roxy Rewind
  7. Sep 8

    EP. 411: Why People-Pleasing Is Quietly Destroying Your Self-Respect.

    Self-betrayal doesn't always look like weakness — sometimes it looks like kindness, patience, or being a team player. Today I break down five common ways people betray themselves without even realizing it, from saying yes when you mean no to constantly outsourcing your own judgment. I get into why repeated self-betrayal turns into full self-abandonment, and how fear — not love — is usually running the show underneath it.  If the title of this episode caught your attention, there's probably a reason for that. In this episode: What self-betrayal actually is, and how it differs from self-abandonment Why saying yes when you mean no (or no when you mean yes) erodes self-trust How constantly seeking outside opinions hands your power away Why breaking promises to yourself quietly destroys your self-worth How minimizing your own feelings is a form of self-rejection How to start repatterning self-betrayal using your future self as an anchor ⭐️YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS: Please: Subscribe + leave 5⭐️Star rating +review HERE Enjoy!  xRx FIND ME ON: ️INSTAGRAM SUBSTACK YOUTUBE X THREADS 📘 BUY My Guided Illustrated Journal: https://www.roxannesaffaie.com/journal  FREE RESOURCES:  🌟 Download my FREE Decisive Woman Playbook to learn how to trust your intuition more + make sharper decisions you feel confident making: https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/next  🌟 Join my SUBSTACK for thought-provoking transmissions on all things Self-mastery + personal growth and Self-directed living, laced with Sensual Intellect + FEMININE edge: https://roxanneroxysaffaie.substack.com  🌟 Join my book launch waitlist to lock in your spot for an exclusive, intimate, transformative virtual event I’m hosting. https://roxannesaffaie.myflodesk.com/thewomanwhodoesntsettle

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DEEP. REAL. + DELICIOUSLY ALIVE. The most interesting part of a person is rarely the part you can Google. And that’s where The Roxanne Show likes to begin. Roxanne Saffaie, aka Roxy, sits down with world-class experts, artists, athletes, thinkers, founders + cultural voices—but the résumé is only the doorway. She wants to know the person behind it. What shaped them. What challenged them. What they risked, got wrong, figured out, mastered + had to live through to know what they know now. This is not an interview. It’s a real conversation between two people who genuinely want to be having it. The talks move fast, dive deep, hit hard, stay with you—and are never short on laughter. A Street Philosopher, artist, athlete + mystic, Roxy has plenty to say on her own. Her solos are part philosophy, part lived experience, part straight talk—the big ideas she can’t stop thinking about, the things she’s learning in real time + the truths she’s willing to say out loud. It’s like sitting across from your wise best friend who loves you enough to tell you the truth, make you laugh + give you a loving kick in the ass. There’s also a little bit —or a lot—of magic around here. Again + again, listeners tell Roxy the same thing: I needed to hear this today. Somehow, the words, the perspective, the reminder—or a sign—have a way of showing up right when they’re needed. If you’re reading this, it’s for a reason. Trust it. Hang out. There’s always something to learn, to question , to think deeper about, to take action on—to become. You don’t just hear The Roxanne Show. You feel it.

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