Overthinking Other People's Feelings? — Guided Meditation for People Pleasing & Anxious Thoughts | Natural Breathing Do you find yourself overthinking other people's feelings? A change in their voice, a short reply, or a silence that leaves you wondering whether you've done something wrong? This 10-minute guided meditation for people pleasing helps you let that checking settle, so you can care about the people in your life while making a little room for yourself. Hosted by clinical hypnotherapist and former paramedic Martin Hewlett. Martin's Anchored app gives you over 2,500 guided sessions, Books at Bedtime, the ambient night light and box breathing, all in your pocket whenever you need them. Download it on iPhone: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/anchored-panic-anxiety/id6785035669 and Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.martinhewlett.anchored. And try Thole, Martin's new whole body and mind app, at https://thole.app There's no breathing pattern to get right today. We simply notice the natural breath and drift into a gentle, trance-like state of relaxation. If you've been wondering how to stop overthinking what others think of you, you'll practise noticing when your attention moves into guessing, and letting go of the pressure to please everyone. You'll receive five affirmations for healthy boundaries and three daily caring tips. ⏱️ Time Chapters * 00:00 – Overthinking other people's feelings * 00:35 – Welcome from Martin * 00:53 – Anchored: 2,500+ sessions and more * 01:16 – Finding your comfy place * 01:39 – Natural breathing, nothing to get right * 02:37 – Drifting into a gentle trance * 03:00 – Naming the worry, returning to the breath * 03:27 – How to stop overthinking what others think * 04:06 – Letting go of the pressure to please * 04:43 – Five affirmations for healthy boundaries * 06:16 – Drifting deeper with self-compassion * 06:34 – Affirmations, once more * 07:41 – Your 3 daily caring tips * 08:49 – Gently returning to the room * 09:24 – Anchored and instant calm * 09:55 – Introducing Thole * 10:47 – Take care, and be kind 🌿 Today's Gentle Affirmations Visualise the words, then repeat them silently or out loud: * I can soften my overthinking, one breath at a time. * I can practise healthy boundaries with kindness. * I can notice people pleasing and give myself time to choose. * I can care for others while respecting my own needs. * I can let an anxious thought pass without treating it as a fact. 💡 3 Daily Caring Tips 1. Give yourself a little time: Before agreeing to something today, give yourself a little time. Try saying, "Let me check and get back to you." 2. Separate knowing from guessing: If you start interpreting someone's mood, ask, "What do I know, and what am I guessing?" 3. Ask what you need today: Ask yourself, "What do I need today?" Choose one manageable act of care: a quiet cup of tea, a short walk or a few minutes away from the messages. 📱 Take Calming Anxiety With You Anywhere You can return to your day with care for others and a little more kindness towards yourself. For more guided meditations for anxiety and day-to-day stress, and the free instant calm features for moments like this, download Anchored: iPhone: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/anchored-panic-anxiety/id6785035669 Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.martinhewlett.anchored Or visit https://calminganxiety.org/anchored 🌱 Coming in December: Thole, Martin's whole body and mind app, blending food, diet, training plans, a barcode scanner and this podcast for when you're stressed. It's free to try now, and your feedback helps iron out the bugs: https://thole.app If this helped, please share it with someone who's always looking after everyone else, and leave a 30-second review on Apple Podcasts. Take care, my friend. This is about you discovering your best self. Have a lovely day, and to your soul, be kind. Rate & Review: Leave a 5-star review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to help us reach more listeners! YouTube: Watch all episodes at https://www.youtube.com/c/calminganxiety?sub_confirmation=1 Social Media Support: For younger listeners struggling with social media stress, visit https://www.icanhelp.net/ Music: All music by Chris Collins at Indie Music Box Ready for More Calm?Thank you for listening to the Calming Anxiety Podcast, featuring guided meditation, mindfulness, and sleep hypnosis sessions with Martin Hewlett. Our mission is to provide you with proven tools for anxiety relief, stress reduction, and a path toward deep relaxation. Use this episode anytime you need to calm your mind and feel more at ease.