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Courtney Andersen-Sobriety Coach & Author
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Hey, Friend! Welcome to the Sober Vibes podcast, where sobriety meets empowerment. I’m Courtney Andersen, your host, a sober coach, author, and mom. I’ve been living an alcohol-free life since 8/18/2012. I know firsthand what it’s like to be a binge/grey area drinker, spending four years stuck in the moderation cycle before finally quitting for good.The Sober Vibes podcast is your go-to space for real talk, proven strategies, expert guidance, and inspiring stories from people who are redefining what it means to live without alcohol.Each week, we dive deep into the topics that matter most—from how to quit drinking alcohol, managing cravings, and navigating social situations to rebuilding confidence, emotional sobriety, and finding joy in sobriety.Whether you’re newly sober, in long-term recovery, or just sober curious about alcohol-free living, Sober Vibes offers the support, insights, resources, and encouragement you need.Join a like-minded community and discover how sobriety can unlock a healthier, happier, and more fulfilling life. Don’t just quit drinking, let’s have fun on this sobriety journey together!Grab my Free 30-Day Sober Not Boring CalendarCheck out my Website Connect on Instagram

  1. 2d ago

    Sobriety and Grief How to Stay Sober, Manage Drinking Triggers, and Cope Without Alcohol Part 2

    In Part 2 of this two-part conversation, I get into the coaching side of sobriety and grief: what to do when loss becomes a drinking trigger, and your brain starts looking for a way to escape the pain. Grief can bring intense emotions, and when alcohol has been your go-to coping mechanism, those feelings can create powerful alcohol cravings and urges to drink. This episode breaks down how to recognize what's happening and begin building new ways to cope without alcohol. In This Episode, You’ll Learn:Why grief can become a powerful drinking triggerWhy alcohol may feel tempting when you're overwhelmed or hurtingHow to identify what you're actually needing underneath the urge to drinkHow to ride out an alcohol urge without acting on itWhy building your tolerance for discomfort is an important part of emotional sobrietyHow to stay sober when life gets hard instead of automatically reaching for alcoholYou don't have to eliminate grief, stress, or painful emotions to stay sober. You can learn to experience those feelings without immediately escaping them and build the self-trust to know you can handle hard moments without alcohol. Grab Your Free Gift:30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review.Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  2. 6d ago

    National Sober Day 3 Ways to Celebrate Your Sobriety and Alcohol-Free Life

    National Sober Day is September 14th, and it’s the perfect opportunity to celebrate your sobriety and the life you're creating without alcohol. Whether you're newly sober or have been staying sober for years, this episode is a reminder that an alcohol-free life isn't something you have to constantly feel deprived of. Your sober living journey deserves celebration, and there are plenty of ways to make sobriety fun, meaningful, and personal. In this episode, I share 3 simple ways to celebrate National Sober Day and recognize what your decision to quit drinking has given you. In This Episode, You’ll Learn:How to celebrate how far you've come in your sobrietyFun ways to celebrate your alcohol-free life without alcoholHow celebrating with your sober community can make the journey more meaningfulWhy you don't need a specific number of sober days or a perfect recovery story to celebrateHow helping someone else can be one of the most powerful ways to honor your sobrietyWhether you're thinking about quitting drinking, newly sober, or years into your alcohol-free life, take National Sober Day as a reminder to celebrate the freedom, self-trust, and life you're building without alcohol. 30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review-Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  3. Sep 12

    Sobriety and Grief Losing My Dad and Staying Sober Through Loss(Part 1)

    This episode is deeply personal. I share my experience of losing my dad and the emotional fallout that followed, including what it has been like to navigate grief while staying sober. Grief can change everything. It can bring sadness, anger, exhaustion, loneliness, and emotions you weren't prepared for. And when you're sober, you experience those feelings without alcohol as an escape or a way to numb the pain. In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, I share my story of loss and what grief has taught me about sobriety, emotional drinking, and staying present through painful seasons of life. In This Episode, You’ll Learn:What losing my dad has been like and the emotional fallout that followedHow grief can affect your emotions, routines, and everyday lifeWhat it means to experience grief without using alcohol to numb the painWhy sobriety doesn't make painful experiences easier but allows you to be present for themHow grief has deepened my understanding of emotional sobriety and self-trustIf you're grieving a loss while navigating sobriety, you don't have to have it all figured out. Sometimes the first step is simply allowing yourself to feel what you're feeling without judging it or trying to make it disappear. Grab Your Free Gift:30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review.Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  4. Sep 4

    14 Years Sober: 5 Lessons I’ve Learned About Sobriety

    Fourteen years ago, I made the decision to quit drinking, and while that decision changed everything, sobriety has continued to teach me lessons I never could have learned while alcohol was still running the show. In this episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, I’m sharing five of the biggest lessons I’ve learned from 14 years of sobriety. From rebuilding self-trust to learning how to navigate life without alcohol, this is an honest conversation about what it really means to stay sober long-term. In This Episode, You’ll Learnwhy sobriety is about so much more than simply quitting drinkinghow rebuilding self-trust happens one decision at a timewhy difficult days and thoughts about alcohol don't mean you're failingthe unexpected gifts that come with long-term sobrietywhy protecting your sobriety still matters, no matter how much time you haveAfter 14 years sober, one thing I know for sure is this: you don't need to have your entire alcohol-free future figured out today. You just need to keep taking the next right step. And every alcohol-free decision you make is helping you build a life you no longer want to escape from. Grab Your Free Gift:30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review.Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  5. Sep 3

    Why Alcohol Feels Like Your Best Friend: Understanding Emotional Drinking and Quitting Drinking

    Have you ever felt like alcohol was always there for you? After a stressful day, during celebrations, through heartbreak, or whenever you needed to unwind? If so, you're not alone. In this episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, I explore why alcohol can feel like a trusted friend, why letting go can feel like a loss, and how emotional drinking keeps us believing alcohol is meeting our needs when it's actually keeping us stuck. In This Episode, You'll Learn  why alcohol can feel like your best friend during difficult seasons  how emotional drinking becomes your go-to coping strategy  what you're really grieving when you decide to quit drinking  why alcohol creates the illusion of comfort, confidence, and connection  practical ways to meet your emotional needs without alcohol  how sobriety helps you build real peace, confidence, and self-trust Quitting drinking isn't just about giving up alcohol; it's about discovering healthier ways to find comfort, connection, and relief. When you begin meeting those needs without alcohol, you'll realize you were never losing your best friend; you were finding yourself. Mentioned in episode: My Reading List  Podcast Survey Grab Your Free Gift:30 Day Calendar  Day & Night RoutineReady for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over ProgramPerfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety CircleFor the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober CoachingFor the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program) The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review.Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free!Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  6. Jul 17

    How to Stay Sober on the Weekends Break the Weekend Drinking Cycle and Beat Alcohol Cravings

    REPLAY EPISODE Weekends can be one of the biggest challenges when you're quitting drinking. If Friday afternoon automatically signals it's time to drink, you're not alone.  In this episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, I share how to break free from the weekend drinking cycle, navigate alcohol cravings, and build alcohol-free weekends that leave you feeling energized instead of anxious on Monday morning.   In This Episode, You'll Learn   why weekends trigger drinking through habit, culture, and the reward mindset  what to expect during your first five sober weekends, including discomfort and FOMO  how to build weekend structure with a simple morning routine  ways to choose activities that support sober living and help you stay sober the benefits of alcohol-free weekends, including more confidence, more time, and peaceful Monday mornings The first few sober weekends might feel different, but they won't feel difficult forever. Every alcohol-free weekend builds confidence, strengthens your self-trust, and reminds you that you don't need alcohol to enjoy your life. Grab Your Free Gift: 30 Day Calendar  Day & Night Routine Ready for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over Program Perfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety Circle For the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober Coaching For the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program)  The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review- Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free! Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  7. Jul 10

    The #1 Reason to Quit Drinking Today: Why Moderation Doesn't Work and Sobriety Gets Better

    This episode is a REPLAY! If you've been telling yourself, "Next time will be different," or "Maybe I can learn to drink in moderation," this episode is your reality check. In this episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, Courtney explains why alcohol problems rarely get better with time, why moderation keeps so many people stuck, and how quitting drinking opens the door to clarity, self-trust, and lasting freedom. If you're tired of negotiating with alcohol, this conversation will help you stop bargaining and start moving forward. In This Episode, You'll Learn  why moderation often fails once alcohol has become a problem  the hard truth about why alcohol doesn't get better with time  how sobriety helps rebuild self-trust and confidence  why your brain bargains at 60 days, 90 days, one year, and beyond  how alcohol intensifies stress, grief, and heartbreak instead of relieving them  why protecting your sobriety should come before trying to change everything else Sobriety isn't about giving something up. It's about getting your life back. Grab Your Free Gift: 30 Day Calendar  Day & Night Routine Ready for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over Program Perfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety Circle For the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober Coaching For the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program)  The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review- Gain access to my Masterclass by submitting a review on iTunes. Email me at sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free! Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  8. Jul 3

    I’m Just Trying to Figure Out My Relationship with Alcohol” (Why You Feel Stuck in the Moderation Cycle)

    If you’ve ever said, “I’m just trying to figure out my relationship with alcohol,” you’re not alone, and you’re not doing anything wrong. In this episode of the Sober Vibes Podcast, I break down why this common phrase often keeps women stuck in the moderation cycle longer than they realize. What sounds like curiosity is often actually uncertainty, emotional exhaustion, and years of trying to make drinking “work” in a way that no longer feels sustainable. In This Episode, You’ll Learn • why “figuring it out” can keep you stuck in the moderation cycle  • the difference between curiosity and avoidance  • why restarting rules and breaks rarely leads to lasting change  • better questions to ask instead of “Can I drink less?”  • how clarity begins when you stop negotiating with alcohol Instead of trying to figure out your relationship with alcohol forever, this episode will help you start getting honest about what’s actually happening—and what you want your life to look like instead. Grab Your Free Gift: 30 Day Calendar  Day & Night Routine Ready for Support? Here Are 4 Ways to Work With Me: Stop Starting Over Program Perfect for the self-guided woman who wants a step-by-step roadmap to quit drinking, break the moderation cycle, and build a strong sober foundation at her own pace. Sobriety Circle For the community girlie who thrives with accountability, connection, monthly coaching, and ongoing support from women who truly understand the journey. Use code "soberjuly" at checkout to save $10 off your first month. 1:1 Sober Coaching For the woman who wants personalized support, deeper transformation, and a customized plan to stop drinking, manage cravings, and build a sustainable alcohol-free life. The After (Emotional Sobriety Program)  The next chapter after quitting drinking. Once you've built your sober foundation, it's time to do the deeper work—healing emotional patterns, rebuilding your identity, strengthening self-trust, regulating your nervous system, and creating a life where you no longer need alcohol to cope. Grab My Masterclass: Free access to my $47 masterclass when you leave an Apple review- Gain access to my Masterclass when you submit a review on iTunes. Email me sobervibes@gmail.com with a screenshot of the review, and I will send you the code to unlock my Masterclass for free! Thank you for tuning in! Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, Reviewing, and/or Subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Thank you for listening! Help the show by Rating, reviewing, and/or subscribing to the Sober Vibes Podcast. Connect w/ Courtney: Instagram Join the Sobriety Circle Apply for 1:1 Coaching Order the Sober Vibes Book Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Hey, Friend! Welcome to the Sober Vibes podcast, where sobriety meets empowerment. I’m Courtney Andersen, your host, a sober coach, author, and mom. I’ve been living an alcohol-free life since 8/18/2012. I know firsthand what it’s like to be a binge/grey area drinker, spending four years stuck in the moderation cycle before finally quitting for good.The Sober Vibes podcast is your go-to space for real talk, proven strategies, expert guidance, and inspiring stories from people who are redefining what it means to live without alcohol.Each week, we dive deep into the topics that matter most—from how to quit drinking alcohol, managing cravings, and navigating social situations to rebuilding confidence, emotional sobriety, and finding joy in sobriety.Whether you’re newly sober, in long-term recovery, or just sober curious about alcohol-free living, Sober Vibes offers the support, insights, resources, and encouragement you need.Join a like-minded community and discover how sobriety can unlock a healthier, happier, and more fulfilling life. Don’t just quit drinking, let’s have fun on this sobriety journey together!Grab my Free 30-Day Sober Not Boring CalendarCheck out my Website Connect on Instagram

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