Social Skills Coaching

Patrick King
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While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now... Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.

  1. 1d ago

    Why Conversations Die (And the Simple Pattern That Keeps Them Alive)

    You're mid-conversation and suddenly hit dead air. You scramble for the next thing to say, and the whole interaction feels forced. The FOOFAAE acronym breaks down the seven types of contributions that maintain conversation flow and keep things engaging naturally. Learn how each element works, why some conversations die while others thrive, understand the conversation dynamics at play, and how to stay present without overthinking every exchange. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:15 Topic Name Revisited 5:43 Autobiographical Comments 6:39 Conversational Lifeboat 8:29 Adjusting for Flow 10:52 Flexibility in Communication 17:01 Open-Ended Questions 19:16 Leading Statements Dynamics 23:20 Specific Questions Benefits In this episode, Patrick King dives into the art of keeping a conversation flowing smoothly with tips on how to maintain that perfect conversation flow and stay present in every interaction. From small talk to deeper discussions, learn FOOFAAE and other flexible conversation techniques to keep your chats engaging and dynamic—perfect for anyone looking to improve their social skills and conversation dynamics. Hear it Here - https://www.audible.com/pd/B0D6S1FHJ1/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-402704&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_402704_pd_us Check it out at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D2DBNHS6 Hear it Here - https://www.audible.com/pd/B08TK96H1S/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-235620&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_235620_pd_us Check it out at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08RY4HMHX https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWFnONPWH9KovyVXBsGSB-g

    Why Conversations Die (And the Simple Pattern That Keeps Them Alive)

  2. Sep 10

    Why Nobody Finds You Interesting (And How Curiosity Fixes It)

    Do you struggle with small talk and feel like you never have anything interesting to say? Patrick King reveals the key habit that turns curiosity into a powerful social skill. Learn how asking one simple question every day can make you more engaging and likable in conversations. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 1:49 Training Aliveness and Noticing More 2:59 The Power of Curiosity 5:50 Replacing Judgment with Curiosity 8:43 Separating Fact from Fiction in Conversations 13:42 Asking Questions Out Loud 17:09 Building Confidence Through Humility 20:29 Influences and Unspoken Thoughts 22:44 The Importance of Being Curious 25:00 Engaging Conversation Partners Effectively 30:21 First Contact and Follow-Up Questions If you're looking to boost your conversation skills and become more interesting in daily interactions, stick around! Patrick King shares tips on how to develop the daily question habit to cultivate genuine curiosity and engage others in small talk that feels natural and meaningful. From improving your likeability through better body language to building self-confidence and charisma, every episode is packed with practical advice to help you master social skills and communication.

    Why Nobody Finds You Interesting (And How Curiosity Fixes It)

  3. Sep 4

    You're Not Sorry — You're Scared (The Over-Apology Habit)

    Do you find yourself apologizing when it's not your fault—constantly, even for things outside your control? Over-apologizing is often rooted in social anxiety, people-pleasing patterns, codependent tendencies, and a fear of conflict. In this video, Patrick King breaks down the psychology behind the apologizing habit, why you default to saying sorry, and practical steps to break it. You'll learn how this pattern tanks your self-respect and low self-esteem, and how to start setting boundaries without the guilt. If you're tired of saying sorry too much and want to break that over apologizing habit, stay tuned! In this video, Patrick King dives into why we apologize so frequently—whether it's due to people pleasing, low self-esteem, or fear of conflict—and shares insights from psychology on how to stop saying sorry when it’s not your fault. Join us as we explore setting boundaries and building better social skills and communication for a healthier emotional intelligence and stronger self-respect.

    You're Not Sorry — You're Scared (The Over-Apology Habit)

  4. Aug 28

    What to Say When Your Brain Goes Blank

    Nervous about starting conversations? Social anxiety and conversation anxiety can lock you up, but there's a simple move that works. Patrick King shares an exact technique to calm your mind and build confidence to take the first step—talk to strangers, join groups, or approach someone at a party without the overwhelm. By shrinking the task down to one honest sentence, you sidestep the spiral and actually connect. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:19 Think Back to Kind Strangers 3:52 Reminding Yourself to Join Conversations 5:37 Storytelling in Conversation: Part One - The Setup 8:25 Importance of Delivery in Conversational Dynamics 11:10 Being Controversial for Impact 14:22 Crafting a 30-Second Story for Conversations If you're nervous about starting a conversation or feel anxious in social settings, Patrick King's channel is here to help. From mastering small talk tips to using the one sentence technique for ice breakers, you'll find valuable insights on building confidence and calming your nerves when talking to strangers or networking. Don't miss out on these essential communication skills for personal development!

  5. Aug 13

    Read the Body, Then Read the Silence

    You're missing what people aren't saying—and it's costing you in conversations, negotiations, and relationships. Learn to read between the lines by spotting micro expressions and nonverbal signals that reveal hidden emotions. Patrick King breaks down how to detect deception, read anyone's true feelings, and decode the body language that contradicts their words. You're missing what people aren't saying out loud. Learn to read people by decoding their nonverbal cues—the body language, facial expressions, and micro-behaviors that reveal their true emotions and intentions without them saying a wo

  6. Aug 11

    Why Your Questions Keep Conversations Shallow

    Tired of small talk? Want to move past surface-level chats and actually connect with people? Learn how to ask better questions that make people feel valued and eager to share. Patrick King shares specific techniques for deep conversations that work with anyone—the same approach talk show hosts use to keep audiences engaged. Master conversations by leading with genuine curiosity instead of scripts. Are you tired of small talk and want to move past it? Learn how to talk deeper by asking curiosity questions that shift conversations from surface-level chats to genuine connection. Patrick King shares specific techniques for moving beyond small talk and mastering the art of meaningful dialogue with anyone. You're in a conversation and realize you're not actually interested—you're just waiting for your turn to talk. Here's how to become genuinely interested in others instead. Learn the specific techniques that shift your mindset from performing engagement to actually wondering about people, from asking questions that matter to building meaningful conversations and real emotional connection. By the end, you'll know how to cultivate curiosity naturally and connect more deeply. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:14 Two Methodologies for Deeper Connections 3:22 Fun Memories and Shared Interests 5:42 Unexpected Common Ground Through Questions 7:24 Ideal World Fantasies vs Realistic Goals 9:37 Digging Deep with Yourself and Others 11:16 Handy Acronyms for Conversation Topics 12:29 Importance of Being Curious About the Other Person 15:16 Elevating Energy Levels Through Interest 18:41 Cultivating a Mindset of Wonderment 20:58 Finding Common Ground and Shared Values If you're looking to enhance your social confidence and connect with people on a deeper level, then stay tuned! Patrick King shares tips on how to become more curious and genuinely interested in others, which is key for meaningful conversations and emotional connections. With his insights, you'll learn to cultivate curiosity and adopt an engagement mindset that fosters wonder about people around you. Don't miss out!

    Why Your Questions Keep Conversations Shallow

  7. Jul 16

    Awkward Silences Aren't the Problem — Running Out of Things to Say Is

    You're mid-conversation and suddenly—silence. If social anxiety creeps in when talk stalls, conversation threading fixes that. This is the practical technique for asking connected questions that keep conversation flowing naturally, without forcing it. You'll learn how to listen actively, respond with genuine interest, and build emotional connection with anyone. By the end, you'll have the conversation skills to deepen rapport and never feel stuck again. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:15 Interrogation vs Asking Questions 5:43 Using Questions for Rapport Building 9:31 Self-Revelation in Conversations 13:13 Avoiding Inappropriate Topics 17:23 Maintaining Conversation Energy 21:04 Simple Communication Strategies 25:12 Enhancing Conversational Skills 28:52 Redirecting the Conversation 32:27 Personal History and Experience In this channel, Patrick King shares his expertise on social skills and communication, helping you master conversation starters, small talk, and even how to keep conversations flowing naturally with anyone. From building rapport through active listening and reflective listening to creating emotional connections and managing social anxiety, learn how to never run out of things to say and maintain that engaging conversation energy throughout your interactions. Join us as we dive into the psychology behind effective communication with insights from Patrick King Consulting and Russell Newton. Conversation Skills Training https://www.audible.com/pd/B0CQDGKQ8V/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-380016&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_380016_pd_us https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNPHL9PC The Power of E.Q. https://www.audible.com/pd/B0C5RY88DL/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-353304&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_353304_pd_us https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C3CC2RM3

  8. Jul 1

    Follow-Up Questions That Make People Want to Keep Talking

    00:01:00 Chunking Up and Chunking Down 00:10:27 We’ve discussed a few methods 00:14:51 Let's summarize these with the primary takeaways from this episode. Behavioral Tells: Read the Hidden Signals Behind Every Action. What People Reveal Without Saying a Word. (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 46) By Patrick King https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DYKN5V6H Do you struggle to ask follow-up questions without making conversations awkward? Most people either ask surface-level questions or dig so deep they create tension. This video breaks down a simple conversation technique for asking better questions—one that lets you zoom in and out of topics naturally, understand what someone's really thinking, and keep momentum going instead of hitting dead air. Learn how to structure your questions using chunking so conversations feel like genuine exploration, not interrogation. Master the flow between light and deep questions to keep people engaged. Behavioral Tells: Read the Hidden Signals Behind Every Action. What People Reveal Without Saying a Word. (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 46) By Patrick King In this episode, Patrick King dives into the art of asking better questions to enhance your conversations and deepen connections with others. From mastering the chunking technique for smoother conversation flow to learning how to craft follow-up questions that lead to meaningful exchanges, you'll pick up valuable skills for improving communication and understanding people on a deeper level.

    Follow-Up Questions That Make People Want to Keep Talking
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While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now... Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.

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  • Creator
    Patrick King
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    254
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Patrick King
  • Show Website
    Social Skills Coaching

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