Social Skills Coaching

Patrick King

While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now... Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.

  1. Oct 19 ·  Bonus

    BECOME ONE OF ONE | Audiobook Preview | How a Proof-of-Stack Page Can Land You Your Next Job - Voice over Work - An Audiobook Sampler

    In this chapter, we delve into how creating a Proof-of-Stack Page can transform your job search. This page is designed to show the outcome of two or more skills you combine to achieve something tangible and valuable. It's not just about listing your skills but proving their effectiveness through concrete examples that potential employers can see and appreciate. We discuss how visible results, whether in a photo gallery, client testimonials, or measurable outcomes, are much more compelling than vague descriptions. The key is to identify one skill you can demonstrate clearly, like Carmen’s quick drawings explaining medical procedures for frightened ICU families, or Mira’s packaging design that helps bakeries sell their products better. Creating such proof doesn’t always require complex setups; it could be as simple as documenting the success of a project you’ve worked on. This approach also benefits from feedback and validation by others who can vouch for your results. By positioning yourself correctly with these proofs, you make a stronger case for why hiring you would benefit them. For those in sensitive fields like healthcare or finance where confidentiality is key, we offer strategies to still create visible proof without breaching privacy. Building the page result-first ensures that people can immediately see what value they'd receive from your work. As a challenge, try building your own Proof-of-Stack Page based on one of your recent projects and share it with potential clients or employers. This practical step helps you refine how you present yourself and may even lead to better job opportunities. Chapters: 0:00 Intro 0:12 Chapter 7: Ability Doesn’t Signal Itself 2:59 Being Good and Being Seen Are Two Different Jobs 4:11 The Experiment That Put a Price on Proof 8:06 Most Proof Sits a Rung Lower Than You Think 10:30 Price the Next Job From the Last Result 12:16 The Night Carmen Counted 15:14 One Page That Shows the Whole Stack 18:07 Make the Category Smaller 21:03 When Nobody Needs It 24:13 Chapter Summary 25:10 Try This Week 27:07 Outro You don't have to be the best at one thing. You become rare by combining a handful of solid skills. This book lays out a four-step method for doing it: See It, Stack It, Build It, Prove It. Become One of One by Peter Hollins: Chapter 7, an audiobook preview. The release date will be announced. This preview is shared with permission and is available on this channel for a limited time. It will come down when the audiobook is released. Audiobook details: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0HM2TLJRZ #ProofofStackPage #jobsearch #freelancework

    BECOME ONE OF ONE | Audiobook Preview | How a Proof-of-Stack Page Can Land You Your Next Job - Voice over Work - An Audiobook Sampler

  2. Oct 1

    Why Your Questions Kill Conversations (And How the Funnel Technique Fixes It)

    Ever killed a conversation by asking too much, too soon? Learn the funnel questions conversation technique to keep dialogue flowing smoothly without making others feel interrogated. Patrick King breaks down how to ask better questions, guide deeper conversations, and use paraphrasing technique to actually listen—so people want to keep talking to you. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:16 Funnel Questions Overview 5:06 Using Funnel Questions in Various Scenarios 8:05 Post-Game Interviews and Question Techniques 13:02 Avoiding Generic Questions for Meaningful Conversations 18:43 Assisting People's Stories in Conversations 22:02 Patrick King’s Approach to Eliciting Stories In this episode, Patrick King shares his expertise on enhancing your social skills and communication through powerful questioning techniques like funnel questions and therapeutic questioning. Learn how to master effective questioning and improve your conversational flow with tips on asking better questions, paraphrasing technique, and more, all aimed at helping you have deeper conversations that showcase your emotional intelligence in every interaction. Hear it Here - https://www.audible.com/pd/B0C34FDBS4/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-349819&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_349819_pd_us Check it out at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C1BLRSW6 Hear it Here - https://www.audible.com/pd/B08GY3TBVX/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-214119&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_214119_pd_us Check it out at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08FHXMWV4 Hear it Here - https://www.audible.com/pd/B097TWC37W/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-265965&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_265965_pd_us Check it out at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0976S4RGT https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWFnONPWH9KovyVXBsGSB-g

    Why Your Questions Kill Conversations (And How the Funnel Technique Fixes It)

  3. Sep 20

    Why Conversations Die (And the Simple Pattern That Keeps Them Alive)

    You're mid-conversation and suddenly hit dead air. You scramble for the next thing to say, and the whole interaction feels forced. The FOOFAAE acronym breaks down the seven types of contributions that maintain conversation flow and keep things engaging naturally. Learn how each element works, why some conversations die while others thrive, understand the conversation dynamics at play, and how to stay present without overthinking every exchange. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:15 Topic Name Revisited 5:43 Autobiographical Comments 6:39 Conversational Lifeboat 8:29 Adjusting for Flow 10:52 Flexibility in Communication 17:01 Open-Ended Questions 19:16 Leading Statements Dynamics 23:20 Specific Questions Benefits In this episode, Patrick King dives into the art of keeping a conversation flowing smoothly with tips on how to maintain that perfect conversation flow and stay present in every interaction. From small talk to deeper discussions, learn FOOFAAE and other flexible conversation techniques to keep your chats engaging and dynamic—perfect for anyone looking to improve their social skills and conversation dynamics. Hear it Here - https://www.audible.com/pd/B0D6S1FHJ1/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-402704&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_402704_pd_us Check it out at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D2DBNHS6 Hear it Here - https://www.audible.com/pd/B08TK96H1S/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-235620&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_235620_pd_us Check it out at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08RY4HMHX https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWFnONPWH9KovyVXBsGSB-g

    Why Conversations Die (And the Simple Pattern That Keeps Them Alive)

  4. Sep 10

    Why Nobody Finds You Interesting (And How Curiosity Fixes It)

    Do you struggle with small talk and feel like you never have anything interesting to say? Patrick King reveals the key habit that turns curiosity into a powerful social skill. Learn how asking one simple question every day can make you more engaging and likable in conversations. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 1:49 Training Aliveness and Noticing More 2:59 The Power of Curiosity 5:50 Replacing Judgment with Curiosity 8:43 Separating Fact from Fiction in Conversations 13:42 Asking Questions Out Loud 17:09 Building Confidence Through Humility 20:29 Influences and Unspoken Thoughts 22:44 The Importance of Being Curious 25:00 Engaging Conversation Partners Effectively 30:21 First Contact and Follow-Up Questions If you're looking to boost your conversation skills and become more interesting in daily interactions, stick around! Patrick King shares tips on how to develop the daily question habit to cultivate genuine curiosity and engage others in small talk that feels natural and meaningful. From improving your likeability through better body language to building self-confidence and charisma, every episode is packed with practical advice to help you master social skills and communication.

    Why Nobody Finds You Interesting (And How Curiosity Fixes It)

  5. Sep 4

    You're Not Sorry — You're Scared (The Over-Apology Habit)

    Do you find yourself apologizing when it's not your fault—constantly, even for things outside your control? Over-apologizing is often rooted in social anxiety, people-pleasing patterns, codependent tendencies, and a fear of conflict. In this video, Patrick King breaks down the psychology behind the apologizing habit, why you default to saying sorry, and practical steps to break it. You'll learn how this pattern tanks your self-respect and low self-esteem, and how to start setting boundaries without the guilt. If you're tired of saying sorry too much and want to break that over apologizing habit, stay tuned! In this video, Patrick King dives into why we apologize so frequently—whether it's due to people pleasing, low self-esteem, or fear of conflict—and shares insights from psychology on how to stop saying sorry when it’s not your fault. Join us as we explore setting boundaries and building better social skills and communication for a healthier emotional intelligence and stronger self-respect.

    You're Not Sorry — You're Scared (The Over-Apology Habit)

  6. Aug 28

    What to Say When Your Brain Goes Blank

    Nervous about starting conversations? Social anxiety and conversation anxiety can lock you up, but there's a simple move that works. Patrick King shares an exact technique to calm your mind and build confidence to take the first step—talk to strangers, join groups, or approach someone at a party without the overwhelm. By shrinking the task down to one honest sentence, you sidestep the spiral and actually connect. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:19 Think Back to Kind Strangers 3:52 Reminding Yourself to Join Conversations 5:37 Storytelling in Conversation: Part One - The Setup 8:25 Importance of Delivery in Conversational Dynamics 11:10 Being Controversial for Impact 14:22 Crafting a 30-Second Story for Conversations If you're nervous about starting a conversation or feel anxious in social settings, Patrick King's channel is here to help. From mastering small talk tips to using the one sentence technique for ice breakers, you'll find valuable insights on building confidence and calming your nerves when talking to strangers or networking. Don't miss out on these essential communication skills for personal development!

  7. Aug 13

    Read the Body, Then Read the Silence

    You're missing what people aren't saying—and it's costing you in conversations, negotiations, and relationships. Learn to read between the lines by spotting micro expressions and nonverbal signals that reveal hidden emotions. Patrick King breaks down how to detect deception, read anyone's true feelings, and decode the body language that contradicts their words. You're missing what people aren't saying out loud. Learn to read people by decoding their nonverbal cues—the body language, facial expressions, and micro-behaviors that reveal their true emotions and intentions without them saying a wo

  8. Aug 11

    Why Your Questions Keep Conversations Shallow

    Tired of small talk? Want to move past surface-level chats and actually connect with people? Learn how to ask better questions that make people feel valued and eager to share. Patrick King shares specific techniques for deep conversations that work with anyone—the same approach talk show hosts use to keep audiences engaged. Master conversations by leading with genuine curiosity instead of scripts. Are you tired of small talk and want to move past it? Learn how to talk deeper by asking curiosity questions that shift conversations from surface-level chats to genuine connection. Patrick King shares specific techniques for moving beyond small talk and mastering the art of meaningful dialogue with anyone. You're in a conversation and realize you're not actually interested—you're just waiting for your turn to talk. Here's how to become genuinely interested in others instead. Learn the specific techniques that shift your mindset from performing engagement to actually wondering about people, from asking questions that matter to building meaningful conversations and real emotional connection. By the end, you'll know how to cultivate curiosity naturally and connect more deeply. ⏱ CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro 2:14 Two Methodologies for Deeper Connections 3:22 Fun Memories and Shared Interests 5:42 Unexpected Common Ground Through Questions 7:24 Ideal World Fantasies vs Realistic Goals 9:37 Digging Deep with Yourself and Others 11:16 Handy Acronyms for Conversation Topics 12:29 Importance of Being Curious About the Other Person 15:16 Elevating Energy Levels Through Interest 18:41 Cultivating a Mindset of Wonderment 20:58 Finding Common Ground and Shared Values If you're looking to enhance your social confidence and connect with people on a deeper level, then stay tuned! Patrick King shares tips on how to become more curious and genuinely interested in others, which is key for meaningful conversations and emotional connections. With his insights, you'll learn to cultivate curiosity and adopt an engagement mindset that fosters wonder about people around you. Don't miss out!

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While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now... Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships. He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.

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  • Creator
    Patrick King
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2026
  • Episodes
    254
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Patrick King
  • Show Website
    Social Skills Coaching

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