Oh That's Deep: Black Women Conversations

Mean Ole Lion Media
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We are Black women!!! We LOVE being Black women. Because Black women are ambitious. Black women are confident. Black women are diligent. We are tenacious! We walk out of hour houses “PUT TOGETHER”. We are many shades and personalities of FABULOUS! Black Women Love to Talk!!! But…we, as Black women, aren't often provided the space to talk about our dilemmas, current events, and what affects us. Join us as we talk through everything from current events and memes, to news and our personal lives. We may even throw in a story or two about our friends (with their permission of course.) Although our focus is Black Women, We invite everyone (regardless of gender or ethnicity)to join the conversation. We created this podcast as a way to laugh together…cry together…and have an open conversation about life as a Black woman.

  1. 1d ago

    Raising Vs. Birthing: Will the Real Mom Please Stand Up!

    What happens when loving a child, raising a child, and being recognized as that child’s mother don’t all belong to the same person? This week, Janine and Nicole catch up on life, exhaustion, upcoming surgery, birthdays—and why sometimes getting a little rest feels like an accomplishment all by itself. The conversation also opens the door to a future discussion about Janine’s journey with fibroids and the importance of women advocating for their health. Then, in What’s on Our Timeline?, the ladies unpack a viral video involving a stepmother confronting her young stepson after he asks to spend Mother’s Day with his biological mother. What begins as a conversation about appreciation quickly becomes something much deeper: abandonment, blended-family dynamics, privacy, a child’s right to love both a biological parent and a stepparent, and whether adults sometimes expect children to meet emotional needs they were never responsible for carrying. In Letters From Our Listeners, a stepmother who has helped raise her husband’s daughter since she was three admits she's beginning to resent watching the teenager continue to seek love and approval from an inconsistent biological mother. After years of showing up, sacrificing and caring for her stepdaughter, she asks a difficult question: Is she wrong for wanting to be seen? Janine and Nicole have thoughts—and, as usual, they don't completely agree on how much a stepparent should sacrifice. Finally, the Motivational Moment is for everyone who has ever quietly poured into others without receiving the recognition they deserve: being overlooked doesn't make you unimportant, and your consistency, sacrifice and presence matter more than you may ever know. Because sometimes the deepest conversations aren't about choosing sides. They're about remembering who needs protecting most—and understanding that love isn't a competition. Until we meet again… Pray. Work. Slay. And show off your melanated excellence. Find more shows like this on the Mean Ole Lion app.

  2. Aug 13

    This Isn't What I Signed Up For

    This week on *Oh That’s Deep: Black Women Conversations*, Janine and Nicole step into an uncomfortable but necessary conversation about motherhood, regret, identity, and the pressure women—especially Black women—can feel to simply be strong and make it work. First, the ladies catch up on life, from Nicole’s adventures at sea to Janine’s ongoing health journey—and a little disagreement over whether Janine should be anywhere near Nicole’s upcoming bachelorette festivities. Then, **What’s on Our Timeline?** takes the conversation much deeper. A mother admits that although she loves her children, if she could do it all over again, she wouldn’t become a mother. Can you love your children and still regret motherhood? Janine and Nicole unpack pregnancy, postpartum emotions, identity, sacrifice, the expectations placed on Black women, and why we need to make room for women to say what they’re really feeling—even when it makes us uncomfortable. In **Letters From Our Listeners**, Adam writes in with an emotional dilemma of his own. He believes his wife regrets becoming a mother—and he fears their children are beginning to feel her emotional distance. What do you do when you love your spouse, love your children, and aren't sure everyone wants the same life anymore? Janine and Nicole weigh counseling, building a stronger village, bringing in additional support, protecting the marriage and, above all, making sure the children have what they need. Finally, in the **Motivational Moment**, the words of Zora Neale Hurston offer the perfect reflection for this conversation: *“There are years that ask questions and years that answer.”* Sometimes the answers about who we are—and who we want to become—don't arrive when we expect them to. It’s honest. It’s complicated. It may even make you uncomfortable. But that’s exactly why we need to talk about it. Until we meet again… **Pray. Work. Slay. And show off your melanated excellence.** Find more shows like this on the Mean Ole Lion app. Follow, rate, comment, and share.

  3. Aug 6

    "Monogamish"

    After catching up on a week filled with unexpected twists—from work frustrations to car mishaps—Janine and Nicole dive into a relationship trend that's taking over social media: "monogamish." In this week's What's on Our Timeline?, the ladies unpack the growing conversation around relationships that blur the lines between monogamy and open partnerships. Is "monogamish" simply honesty replacing secrecy, or is it just infidelity with better branding? Janine and Nicole explore the importance of communication, boundaries, emotional intimacy, and whether some relationship arrangements create more complications than clarity. The conversation takes an even deeper turn when they read a heartfelt listener letter from a woman questioning whether the relationship structure she agreed to is slowly costing her the love—and the sense of self—she's worked so hard to build. As her partner develops an emotional connection with someone outside of their relationship, the hosts offer candid, compassionate advice about self-worth, intuition, healthy boundaries, and recognizing when compromise becomes self-abandonment. Drawing from Nicole's perspective as an OB/GYN and Janine's faith-centered approach to relationships, this episode tackles everything from emotional attachment and trust to sexual health, commitment, and the courage it takes to choose yourself. The episode closes with a powerful Motivational Moment from James Baldwin: "Love takes off the mask that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within." It's a reminder that real love requires honesty, vulnerability, and the courage to show up as your authentic self—even when the truth is uncomfortable. Until next time... Pray. Work. Slay. And show off your melanated excellence. Find more shows like this on the Mean Ole Lion Media app. Follow, rate, comment, and share!

  4. Jul 30

    Setting Family Boundaries

    In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. Nicole shares wedding planning updates, balancing work and motherhood, while Janine catches us up on life, work, and everything in between. For Let's Talk Through It we have a letter from one of our friends. She loves her husband, but she no longer wants herself or their children spending time with his side of the family because of their behavior and the example she believes it sets for their kids. Is she protecting her family, or creating a bigger divide? We talk through the challenges of marriage, family loyalty, boundaries, and putting your children's well-being first. Be sure to listen to hear your weekly motivation for the week to come. Until we meet again... Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

  5. Jul 23

    How's Your 2 Years Been

    After a much-needed break, Janine and Nicole return to the mic for one of their most personal and heartfelt conversations yet. In this deeply honest episode of Oh... That's Deep! Black Women Conversations, the hosts reconnect with one another—and with their listeners—to share the life experiences that led to their time away. Janine opens up about the heartbreaking loss of her mother and her beloved dog, reflecting on the grief, healing, and unexpected moments of grace that followed. She also shares how Nicole's unwavering friendship became a source of strength during one of the most difficult seasons of her life. Nicole reveals her own journey through loss while celebrating an exciting new chapter—her recent engagement. Together, they discuss how life's highest highs and lowest lows often arrive at the same time, reminding us of the importance of leaning on community, embracing change, and choosing joy even in the midst of uncertainty. This episode is a reminder that healing isn't linear, resilience is built one day at a time, and every season—no matter how difficult—has the power to shape us into stronger, wiser versions of ourselves. Whether you've been navigating grief, celebrating new beginnings, or simply trying to find your footing, this conversation will remind you that you're never alone. Find more shows like this on the Mean Ole Lion app.

  6. Jul 20

    We're Back! | You Asked……..We Listened.

    After taking some unexpected time away, Janine and Nicole return to the microphone to reconnect with the incredible community that has supported them every step of the way. In this special episode, they share heartfelt messages from listeners who checked in, sent love, and reminded them just how much this podcast means to so many people. From weekly routines that felt incomplete to households eagerly waiting for a new episode, the outpouring of encouragement was overwhelming. Janine and Nicole take time to read listener messages, laugh together, and thank everyone who continued to support them during the break. Most importantly, they want you to know: they're back, they're doing well, and they're excited for everything that's ahead. If you've missed the conversations, the laughs, and the real talk, this episode is for you. Be sure to subscribe, share the show with a friend, and stay tuned—because this is just the beginning of the next chapter.

  7. 08/21/2025

    The Cost of Leveling Up

    In our opening chatter we talk about what's been happening since we last recorded. What’s on Our Timeline? This week's timeline is courtesy of Morgan Sandiego on TikTok. And it features a woman that says if you are not already in a committed relationship with good communication, respect and boundaries before you start nursing school don’t do it! Let’s Talk Through It One of our male friends is working to better himself on his job but it requires studying and a test. Well it seems as if his girlfriend is sabotaging his dreams by doing things to keep him from studying for the test that could change his career and life. One of our Birmingham friends has been dating her man for 5 years. She was ready to break it off when he started talking about marriage. Recently she started to focus on her dream of passing the bar and being an in-house counsel for a company and he started to complain that she was too focused on her dream and not enough on their relationship. Be sure to listen to hear what we learned this week and be motivated for the week to come. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

  8. 06/21/2024

    Let's Talk Through It

    This week it's a Best Of Let’s Talk Through It. Enjoy some of the best letters of Season 4. Until we meet again. Pray! Work! Slay! And Show Off Your Melanated Excellence!

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We are Black women!!! We LOVE being Black women. Because Black women are ambitious. Black women are confident. Black women are diligent. We are tenacious! We walk out of hour houses “PUT TOGETHER”. We are many shades and personalities of FABULOUS! Black Women Love to Talk!!! But…we, as Black women, aren't often provided the space to talk about our dilemmas, current events, and what affects us. Join us as we talk through everything from current events and memes, to news and our personal lives. We may even throw in a story or two about our friends (with their permission of course.) Although our focus is Black Women, We invite everyone (regardless of gender or ethnicity)to join the conversation. We created this podcast as a way to laugh together…cry together…and have an open conversation about life as a Black woman.

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