Babes in Bookland

Alex Frnka - Bookclub Host

Babes in Bookland is the book club podcast for women who love women's stories. We read the memoirs, dissect the narratives, and celebrate the writers brave enough to put it all on the page. Great books, honest conversation, and a whole lot of love for women's voices in literature. Think of us as your most well-read friend who always knows exactly which book you need next. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  1. 1d ago

    BSB: Isabel Klee's Memoir "Dogs, Boys, and Other Things I've Cried About"

    What happens when a book gives you everything you want on the surface and still leaves you wanting more underneath? I'm back with a mini review of Dogs, Boys, and Other Things I've Cried About, the debut memoir from Isabel Klee, the writer and content creator behind the dog-rescue account @simonsits. The book chronicles Isabel's twenties in New York City: a string of complicated boyfriends, a tight community of women figuring life out alongside her, and a parade of foster dogs she helped rehabilitate and rehome, including her first true love, a rescued pup named Simon. I dig into what worked and what didn't, and along the way, I share my own dog story, adopting my scrappy one-eared rescue terrier during my first stretch of living alone, and make the case for solo living as one of the most underrated things you can do for yourself in your twenties, lease restrictions and all. Share this conversation with someone who has a rescue dog story of their own. Please rate and review the show and share this conversation with someone who grew up in the church and is still working out which parts of their faith are actually theirs. "Love and patience could heal a broken dog, but, most of the time, it wasn't going to heal a broken man." - Isabel Klee Connect with Isabel Klee: @simonsits on instagram Books Referenced: Dogs, Boys, and Other Things I've Cried About by Isabel Klee Support the show: Buy us a book Buy cute merch on Patreon Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Substack This episode is produced, recorded, and its content edited by me.  Xx, Alex Connect with us and suggest a great memoir! Follow us on instagram! @babesinbooklandpod  xx, Alex Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    BSB: Isabel Klee's Memoir "Dogs, Boys, and Other Things I've Cried About"
  2. 4d ago

    AUTHOR CHAT: Ariel Fitz-Patrick's Memoir "Imma See for Myself"

    What happens when you finally stop believing something just because you were told to, and start asking if it's actually true? TikTok creator, singer, and now memoirist Ariel Fitz-Patrick joins me on Babes in Bookland to talk about her new memoir I See for Myself, which takes her viral catchphrase and turns it into a full reckoning with faith, family, and growing up in a strict Pentecostal household. Ariel opens up about being raised by Caribbean immigrant parents in Quebec, the birthday party she wasn't allowed to fully attend, being thrown into a French-language school with zero support at fourteen, and the moment at twelve years old when she realized she didn't actually know God, she just knew of him. This conversation moves through doubt, poverty, spiritual warfare, and what it actually means to build a faith that's yours instead of one you inherited. Please rate and review the show and share this conversation with someone who grew up in the church and is still working out which parts of their faith are actually theirs. "I'm telling you to be intentional about how you trust to help you walk through this difficult, confusing, frustrating, maddening thing we call life." - Ariel Fitz-Patrick Connect with Ariel Fitz-Patrick: @arielfitz.patrick @Ariel.fitz (tik tok) Books Referenced: Imma See for Myself by Ariel Fitz-Patrick Support the show: Buy us a book Buy cute merch on Patreon Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Substack This episode is produced, recorded, and its content edited by me.  Xx, Alex Connect with us and suggest a great memoir! Follow us on instagram! @babesinbooklandpod  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    AUTHOR CHAT: Ariel Fitz-Patrick's Memoir "Imma See for Myself"
  3. Aug 12

    Women Taking Care of Women // Dr. Mary Fariba Afsari's Memoir "Labor"

    What is your ripple effect? This week I'm joined by bookstagrammer and journalist Ashley Kritzer (@ashleykrtizer on instagram!) to talk about LABOR by Dr. Mary Afsari, a memoir Ashley championed hard-- and once I read it, I understood exactly why. In under 200 pages, Mary tells two intertwined stories: her own path as an OBGYN pushed to the edge by burnout, policy, and the overturning of Roe v. Wade, and her search for the truth about her grandmother's death in Iran. The result is a book that is medically intense without ever being gratuitous, and that manages to be both deeply personal and urgently political. Ashley and I dig into what makes the memoir work: its restraint, its refusal to wander into subplots that don't serve the story, and the dual timeline that lets Mary's family history illuminate her present-day fight for women's healthcare. We talk about the hardest case in the book, a child patient whose story exposes how broken the systems meant to protect her really are. We talk about Mary's decision to build a mobile OBGYN practice out of an RV, entirely self-funded, because the traditional system wasn't serving the women who needed her most. And we talk about the eerie, direct line she draws between the crackdown on women's rights in 1979 Iran and what's happening in America right now. We land, as we always seem to, on the same idea: women taking care of women is one of the most beautiful things. Grab a copy of LABOR by Dr. Mary Fariba Afsari, then come back and listen. Share this conversation with someone who needs the reminder that women taking care of women is still one of the most powerful things in the world. "My belief that we were doing the right thing as the right time is what kept me going." - Dr. Mary Fariba Asfari Connect with Dr. Mary Fariba Asfari: @maryfaribapdx Connect with Ashley Kritzer: @ashleykritzer Ashley Kritzer's Substack Books Referenced: LABOR by Dr. Mary Fariba Asfari Support the show: Buy us a book Buy cute merch on Patreon Subscribe on Apple Subscribe on Substack This episode is produced, recorded, and its content edited by me.  Xx, Alex Connect with us and suggest a great memoir! Follow us on instagram! @babesinbooklandpod  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Women Taking Care of Women // Dr. Mary Fariba Afsari's Memoir "Labor"
  4. Aug 11 ·  Bonus • Subscribers Only

    SUBSCRIBER EDITON: Dr. Mary Fariba Afsari's "Labor"

    What is your ripple effect? This week I'm joined by bookstagrammer and journalist Ashley Kritzer (@ashleykrtizer on instagram!) to talk about LABOR by Dr. Mary Fariba Afsari, a memoir Ashley championed hard-- and once I read it, I understood exactly why. In under 200 pages, Mary tells two intertwined stories: her own path as an OBGYN pushed to the edge by burnout, policy, and the overturning of Roe v. Wade, and her search for the truth about her grandmother's death in Iran. The result is a book that is medically intense without ever being gratuitous, and that manages to be both deeply personal and urgently political. Ashley and I dig into what makes the memoir work: its restraint, its refusal to wander into subplots that don't serve the story, and the dual timeline that lets Mary's family history illuminate her present-day fight for women's healthcare. We talk about the hardest case in the book, a child patient whose story exposes how broken the systems meant to protect her really are. We talk about Mary's decision to build a mobile OBGYN practice out of an RV, entirely self-funded, because the traditional system wasn't serving the women who needed her most. And we talk about the eerie, direct line she draws between the crackdown on women's rights in 1979 Iran and what's happening in America right now. We land, as we always seem to, on the same idea: women taking care of women is one of the most beautiful things. Grab a copy of LABOR by Dr. Mary Afsari, then come back and listen. Share this conversation with someone who needs the reminder that women taking care of women is still one of the most powerful things in the world. Thank you for supporting the podcast! xx, Alex

  5. Aug 4

    AUTHOR CHAT: Claire Stapleton's Memoir "Don't Be Evil"

    What happens when the company that promises to change the world asks you to disappear into it? Claire Stapleton spent twelve years at Google, first as the internal voice known as the company's Bard, then as one of the organizers of the 20,000-person walkout that made international headlines. In this episode, we dig into her new memoir, Don't Be Evil, tracing her journey from true believer to whistleblower, and what it actually cost her to tell the truth about a company that built its entire identity on a promise it couldn't keep. Claire opens up about the corporate language that slowly ate her own voice, the manager who pushed her off her team while she was pregnant, and the strange psychological architecture of a workplace designed to feel like a religion. She talks candidly about grief, motherhood, and the brother she lost early in her career, whose old Gchat messages became some of her most important source material while writing this book. It's a conversation about power, complicity, and what happens when a woman decides she's done playing the good girl. Send this episode to the friend who still can't quite explain why she left her dream job, or the one who's trying to figure out how to keep her voice inside a company that would rather she didn't have one. Connect with Claire Stapleton: @clairewaves Support the show: Buy us a book Buy cute merch on Patreon Subscribe on Apple This episode is produced, recorded, and its content edited by me.  Xx, Alex Connect with us and suggest a great memoir! Follow us on instagram! @babesinbooklandpod  Books Referenced: Don't Be Evil by Claire Stapleton Complaint! by Sara Ahmed Careless People  Empire of AI by Karen Hao The Managed Heart by Arlie Hochschild Work Rules! Laszlo Bock Other Links: Claire's Substack CNN Business — "One year after the Google walkout, key organizers reflect on the risk to their careers" https://www.cnn.com/2019/11/01/tech/google-walkout-one-year-later-risk-takers The Guardian (via Yahoo News) — "Demoted and sidelined: Google walkout organizers say company retaliated" https://news.yahoo.com/culture-retaliation-google-employees-punished-222552257.html Gulf News / AFP — "Google walkout organiser quits, citing retaliation fear" https://gulfnews.com/amp/story/world%2Famericas%2Fgoogle-walkout-organiser-quits-citing-retaliation-fear-1.1559966090539 CNBC — "Former Google activist Claire Stapleton is starting an advice newsletter for frustrated tech workers" https://www.cnbc.com/2020/05/28/ex-google-activist-claire-stapleton-starts-advice-newsletter.html Mashable (via Yahoo News) — "Google employees reveal the hidden costs of speaking out" https://news.yahoo.com/google-employees-reveal-hidden-costs-195821971.html Grokipedia — bio/timeline overview (useful for quick-reference dates and the full organizer list, though not a traditional outlet, so worth double-checking against primary sources) https://grokipedia.com/page/claire_stapleton Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    AUTHOR CHAT: Claire Stapleton's Memoir "Don't Be Evil"
  6. Jul 31

    TEASER: Almost a Reckoning // Hayden Panettiere's "This Is Me"

    What happens when a memoir promises a reckoning but delivers armor instead? In this Babes in Bookland bonus episode, I'm joined by my friend Lizzie to dig into Hayden Panettiere's memoir, This Is Me: A Reckoning. Lizzie listened to the audiobook first, and warned me it was painful, so I braced for a gutting, Christina Applegate style read, and came out with a completely different experience of the same book. That gap between the two of us became the real story of this episode. Hayden rose to fame before she was old enough to understand what fame meant, from Remember the Titans to Heroes to two Golden Globe nominated seasons of Nashville, all while quietly carrying the pressure of being Hollywood's It Girl. Her memoir promises postpartum depression, addiction, domestic abuse, and loss, and we both went in rooting for her. What we found instead was a book that kept circling its own most painful moments without ever landing on them, a codependent relationship with her mother that never gets fully named, and a custody decision that's never quite explained. We talk through what worked, why the cover and author photo tell you almost everything you need to know before you even open the book, and why they both think the deeper, more vulnerable version of this memoir is still a few years away. Listen to the full episode to hear us work through it, and let us know: would you recommend this one, or wait for the sequel? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    TEASER: Almost a Reckoning // Hayden Panettiere's "This Is Me"
  7. Jul 25

    BSB: Janet Fash's Memoir "Lifeguard: A Love Story"

    What happens when the person hired to keep you safe is fighting a system that would rather look the other way? This week's bite-sized episode dives into Lifeguard, A Love Story, the memoir from Janet Fash, one of the first female lifeguard chiefs in New York City history, co-written with Cleo Chang. I read through Janet's decades on Rockaway Beach, from her start as a hazed rookie lifeguard in the debauchery-soaked 1970s to her years-long battle against entrenched union corruption at the top of the Parks Department. It's part coming of age story, part exposé, and I break down where each half succeeds and where the blend gets uneven, plus why that slow first third might test even the most patient reader. I also gets into the harder threads running through the book: the tragedies Janet survives along the way, the sexism and harassment she faces climbing the ranks, and the quietly devastating stakes of what happens when a beach safety system is run for power instead of people. It's a messy, imperfect memoir about what it actually costs to be the one person willing to keep pushing when everyone else has made peace with looking away. Give this one a listen, then let us know if you made it past that first third. Like, review, and share Babes in Bookland with a friend who needs a stubborn woman in their life this summer. Links: Book: Lifeguard: A Love Story Support the show: Buy us a book Buy cute merch on Patreon Subscribe on Apple This episode is produced, recorded, and its content edited by me.  Xx, Alex Connect with us and suggest a great memoir! Follow us on instagram! @babesinbooklandpod  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    BSB: Janet Fash's Memoir "Lifeguard: A Love Story"
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Babes in Bookland is the book club podcast for women who love women's stories. We read the memoirs, dissect the narratives, and celebrate the writers brave enough to put it all on the page. Great books, honest conversation, and a whole lot of love for women's voices in literature. Think of us as your most well-read friend who always knows exactly which book you need next. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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