The Influence Exchange

J.V.
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Hosted by J.V. The Influence Exchange is a leadership driven motivational podcast designed to help you grow personally, professionally, and intentionally. Each episode breaks down the mindset, habits, and real-life stories that shape true influence, not the kind measured by titles or followers, but the kind built through character, consistency, and impact. Through authentic conversations, personal experiences, and research-backed insights, J.V. explores topics like mindset, legacy, showing up daily, emotional resilience, and becoming the person others can rely on.  Whether you're leading a team, raising a family, building a career, or working on becoming the best version of yourself, this podcast will help you stay focused, stay grounded, and stay inspired. Here, influence isn’t about being impressive, it’s about being impactful, and every conversation is designed to help you show up with purpose, courage, and clarity. New episodes weekly! Stay curious. Stay consistent. Keep influencing others. 

  1. You’re Not Stuck, You’re Afraid of Being Judged, with Robin Clare

    9H AGO

    You’re Not Stuck, You’re Afraid of Being Judged, with Robin Clare

    Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. What if the real reason you’re not moving forward has nothing to do with your ability and everything to do with the fear of being judged? In episode 28 of The Influence Exchange, we dive into a conversation that hits deeper than most people are willing to admit, Fear of judgment. Not just from others, but the pressure, the expectations, and the self-doubt that quietly hold you back from showing up fully. In This Episode, We Talk About: Why fear of judgment is more powerful than failure How judgment shows up in your life (without you realizing it) The difference between real judgment and someone’s opinion Why waiting for approval keeps you stuck The internal vs external version of yourself (and why alignment matters) How self-leadership and awareness change everything Letting go of perfection and learning to show up anyway Buy Robin book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/0iEw3RMr Robin's website: https://www.robinhclare.com/ Robin's Akashic Harmony Message: https://www.robinhclare.com/akashicharmonymessage Support the show Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms.  Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@theinfluenceexchange?si=GRWCJS5qhiu7aAwG Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_influence_exchange?igsh=bDRzb2NwNjJyaXQ1&utm_source=qr Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_influence_exchange?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Ot1k669Nu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1F2h4hbGNL/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    50 min
  2. Bonus Episode: Spending to Feel Better and What It’s Really Costing You.

    5D AGO

    Bonus Episode: Spending to Feel Better and What It’s Really Costing You.

    Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In episode 27 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. breaks down a pattern most people don’t talk about, emotional spending. This isn’t about budgeting apps, cutting up credit cards, or extreme saving. This is about understanding why we spend in the first place. Because the truth is most overspending isn’t about money. It’s about avoiding something deeper. In this episode, we explore: Why spending feels good in the moment, but doesn’t last The emotional cycle behind impulse purchases What you’re actually “buying” when you click add to cart How short-term comfort can create long-term stress Simple, realistic ways to pause without feeling restricted Support the show Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms.  Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@theinfluenceexchange?si=GRWCJS5qhiu7aAwG Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_influence_exchange?igsh=bDRzb2NwNjJyaXQ1&utm_source=qr Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_influence_exchange?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Ot1k669Nu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1F2h4hbGNL/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    22 min
  3. From Loss to Reinvention: How You Rebuild When Life Breaks You, with Chanoa Inez

    APR 29

    From Loss to Reinvention: How You Rebuild When Life Breaks You, with Chanoa Inez

    Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. What if the hardest moment in your life wasn’t the end, but the beginning of who you’re meant to become? In episode 26 of The Influence Exchange, I sit down with Chanoa Inez, who shares a powerful and deeply personal journey through loss, grief, and rebuilding her life from the inside out. After experiencing an unexpected and life-altering loss, Chanoa found herself navigating not just grief, but identity, purpose, and the relationship she had with herself. What followed wasn’t a quick fix. It was years of reflection, growth, and learning how to truly rebuild. This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice. We talk about what it actually takes to move forward when life doesn’t go as planned and how self-love isn’t just a concept, but a foundation for everything. If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or unsure of your next step, this episode will speak to you. Chanoa’s website: https://www.chanoainez.com/ Buy Chanoa’s book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FCYF7DJ4 Support the show Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms.  Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@theinfluenceexchange?si=GRWCJS5qhiu7aAwG Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_influence_exchange?igsh=bDRzb2NwNjJyaXQ1&utm_source=qr Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_influence_exchange?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Ot1k669Nu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1F2h4hbGNL/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    34 min
  4. Danny Brassell: Why Storytelling Is the Secret to Leadership, Influence, and Growth

    APR 22

    Danny Brassell: Why Storytelling Is the Secret to Leadership, Influence, and Growth

    Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In episode 25 of The Influence Exchange, I sit down with Danny Brassell, highly sought-after speaker, trainer, coach, co-founder of Well-Crafted Story, and author of more than 20 books including Leadership Begins with Motivation and Misfits and Crackpots. Danny has delivered presentations to more than 3,500 audiences worldwide, but what makes this conversation powerful is not just his experience, it’s his perspective on leadership, communication, motivation, and the real power of storytelling. In this conversation, we talk about: Danny’s mission to bring more joy back into education and the workplace How losing everything financially became a turning point in his life Why storytelling is one of the most effective tools leaders and entrepreneurs can use The 5 Cs framework for creating presentations that connect and move people to action Why great speakers don’t just tell stories. they tell stories with intention The biggest mistakes entrepreneurs make when presenting Why people connect more with your failures than your bragging How Danny wrote more than 20 books and what motivates his work Danny also shares practical insights for: CEOs and leaders who want to communicate more effectively Entrepreneurs trying to clarify their message Anyone looking to become more confident on stage Creators who want to use their personal story to serve, inspire, and grow their business Danny also shared a free resource for listeners: Visit -  http://freestoryguide.com/ to get his complimentary Well-Crafted Story Blueprint. The Well-Crafted Story Website: https://wellcraftedstoryworkshop.com/workshop Support the show Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms.  Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@theinfluenceexchange?si=GRWCJS5qhiu7aAwG Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_influence_exchange?igsh=bDRzb2NwNjJyaXQ1&utm_source=qr Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_influence_exchange?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Ot1k669Nu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1F2h4hbGNL/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    40 min
  5. Kristen Crabtree: Remembering Who You Really Are

    APR 15

    Kristen Crabtree: Remembering Who You Really Are

    Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this deeply honest episode 24 of The Influence Exchange, I sit down with Kristen Crabtree, author of Be the You That’s More You Than You’ve Ever Been and creator of Paramour Paradox, to talk about identity, healing, truth, and the journey of becoming yourself again. Kristen shares how her work was born not from business plans or strategy, but from lived experience after surviving years of deep internal disconnection, including a 22-year psychologically abusive marriage. After leaving in a fog, with no real sense of who she was, she began the difficult process of rebuilding her life and rediscovering her voice. In this conversation, we talk about: What Paramour Paradox really is and how it helps people reconnect with their true identity How thoughts shape emotions, emotions shape behavior, and how many of us live in survival patterns that no longer serve us Why transformation is less about becoming someone new and more about remembering who you already are The idea that we only see a tiny fraction of reality through our mental “filter” Why motivation and discipline become easier when you’re finally in alignment with your truth The difference between surviving life and actually feeling real in it again Kristen also opens up about what it means to leave without clarity, to rebuild from the ground up, and to discover that peace, truth, and self-worth are still possible — even after years of feeling lost. Buy Kristen’s book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Thats-More-Than-Youve-Ever/dp/B0G1S19489/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0 Connect with Kristen: https://www.you2point0.com/ Kristen’s website: https://www.paramourparadox.com/ Support the show Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms.  Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@theinfluenceexchange?si=GRWCJS5qhiu7aAwG Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_influence_exchange?igsh=bDRzb2NwNjJyaXQ1&utm_source=qr Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_influence_exchange?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Ot1k669Nu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1F2h4hbGNL/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    42 min
  6. If It Is to Be, It Is Up to Me: Jay Setchell’s Story

    APR 8

    If It Is to Be, It Is Up to Me: Jay Setchell’s Story

    Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this powerful episode 23 of The Influence Exchange, I sit down with Jay Setchell, a man whose life story is built on grit, faith, responsibility, and a refusal to quit. Jay was born and raised on a working farm, served in the Marine Corps, built ventures as an entrepreneur, worked in the corporate world, and carried one core belief through every season of life - never quit. Now in his mid-70s, mostly paralyzed, having survived multiple near-death experiences and endured 73 surgeries, Jay is still building, still believing, and still moving forward. This conversation goes far beyond motivation. We talk about The mindset behind Jay’s phrase: “Don’t ask why. Ask why not Why “If it is to be, it is up to me” became one of his guiding belief What 73 surgeries, severe trauma, and paralysis taught him about pain, time, and perspective Why attitude, grit, and responsibility matter more than excuses The lessons from growing up on a farm that still shape his decisions today His book, The Strength Within You: It’s Always Too Soon to Quit Jay doesn’t speak from theory, he speaks from lived experience. If you’ve ever been knocked down, questioned your strength, or needed a reminder to keep moving forward, this episode will stay with you. One of the biggest takeaways from this conversation: What lies behind us and what lies ahead of us are small matters compared to what lies within us. Buy Jay Setchell book on Amazon: The Strength Within You: It’s Always Too Soon to Quit!: Setchell, Jay: 9798892287814: Amazon.com: Books Support the show Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms.  Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@theinfluenceexchange?si=GRWCJS5qhiu7aAwG Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_influence_exchange?igsh=bDRzb2NwNjJyaXQ1&utm_source=qr Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_influence_exchange?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Ot1k669Nu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1F2h4hbGNL/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    46 min
  7. Listener Confessions: Let’s Talk About It

    APR 1

    Listener Confessions: Let’s Talk About It

    Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. In this community focused on episode 22 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. reads real, anonymous listener confessions, the kind of thoughts people carry quietly but rarely say out loud. Inside this episode, we unpack confessions like: I still check their social media, even though I know it doesn’t help me. I set a boundary and now I feel guilty. I miss them, but I don’t want them back. I’m afraid to outgrow my friends. I overthink every text I send. For each confession, we slow it down and explore: What’s really going on underneath The emotional pattern behind it The mindset driving it One simple shift you can apply in your own life This episode is about awareness, not shame. It’s about recognizing patterns, not judging yourself for them. And it’s about realizing you’re not alone in what you’re navigating. Support the show Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms.  Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@theinfluenceexchange?si=GRWCJS5qhiu7aAwG Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_influence_exchange?igsh=bDRzb2NwNjJyaXQ1&utm_source=qr Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_influence_exchange?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Ot1k669Nu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1F2h4hbGNL/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    19 min
  8. You Don’t Miss People, You Miss Who You Were With Them

    MAR 25

    You Don’t Miss People, You Miss Who You Were With Them

    Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V. Have you ever missed someone, but also knew you didn’t actually want them back? You’re not trying to restart the relationship. You’re not reaching out. You’re not trying to rewind your life. But a memory hits, a song, a place, a random moment and suddenly you’re sitting there asking, “Why do I still feel this?” In episode 21 of The Influence Exchange, J.V. breaks down why that feeling can be so confusing, and why sometimes you’re not missing the person at all. You’re missing the version of you that existed in that chapter, the phase, the routine, the comfort, the identity. In this episode, we cover: Why memories often feel stronger than reality Why going back rarely feels the way you imagine What nostalgia is actually trying to tell you How to tell the difference between a memory and a door you should reopen How to move forward without pretending the past didn’t matter This isn’t about forgetting people. It’s about understanding what the memory represents and carrying the lesson without carrying the weight. Support the show Host J.V. Episodes released weekly! Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms.  Follow The Influence Exchange on social media. YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@theinfluenceexchange?si=GRWCJS5qhiu7aAwG Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_influence_exchange?igsh=bDRzb2NwNjJyaXQ1&utm_source=qr Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_influence_exchange?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Ot1k669Nu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/1F2h4hbGNL/?mibextid=wwXIfr

    22 min
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4.9
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30 Ratings

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Hosted by J.V. The Influence Exchange is a leadership driven motivational podcast designed to help you grow personally, professionally, and intentionally. Each episode breaks down the mindset, habits, and real-life stories that shape true influence, not the kind measured by titles or followers, but the kind built through character, consistency, and impact. Through authentic conversations, personal experiences, and research-backed insights, J.V. explores topics like mindset, legacy, showing up daily, emotional resilience, and becoming the person others can rely on.  Whether you're leading a team, raising a family, building a career, or working on becoming the best version of yourself, this podcast will help you stay focused, stay grounded, and stay inspired. Here, influence isn’t about being impressive, it’s about being impactful, and every conversation is designed to help you show up with purpose, courage, and clarity. New episodes weekly! Stay curious. Stay consistent. Keep influencing others. 

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  • Creator
    J.V.
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    28
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Influence Exchange
  • Show Website
    The Influence Exchange

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