The Mother Wound: Covert Narcissistic Mothers & Female Relational Aggression

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Covert narcissistic abuse from mothers and female relational aggression—two of the least-named forms of psychological harm. Licensed therapist and survivor Amy Murray offers a grounded look at maternal narcissistic abuse, covert narcissism, and the quiet cruelties that shape identity for decades—especially for those never allowed to name what happened. For men and women who grew up walking on eggshells, feeling humiliated or "too much." Topics: covert narcissistic mothers, maternal emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse recovery, daughters and sons of narcissistic mothers, the mother wound, shame

Episodes

  1. 12/16/2025

    Is My Mother a Covert Narcissist? How to Finally Name What Happened

    Is your mother a covert narcissist? If you've spent years questioning your own reality, being told you're "too sensitive," or wondering why no therapist ever named what you experienced—this episode is for you. Amy Murray, a licensed therapist and survivor of maternal covert narcissistic abuse, breaks open the emotional injuries we're taught to ignore: covert narcissistic abuse from mothers, maternal shame, and female relational aggression. In this first episode, Amy shares her own story: Thirty years of therapy. Dozens of therapists. Not one ever said the sentence that would have changed everything: "Your mother is emotionally abusing you." She explains why this pattern of covert narcissism goes unnamed—especially for men—and offers the clinical language survivors need to finally recognize what happened. You'll learn: What covert narcissistic abuse actually is (and why it's so hard to see)Why therapists miss it—even trauma-informed onesHow maternal narcissism shapes your identity from childhood into adulthoodThe specific patterns: criticism disguised as concern, love offered only when you shrink, approval withheld when you shineWhy both women and men struggle to name this harmThe critical difference between a "difficult mother" and covert narcissistic abuseWhy shame is the core wound, especially for menHow this abuse creates hypervigilance, constant apologizing, and the feeling that you're "too much"This episode is for anyone who: Grew up walking on eggshalls, monitoring her moods like weather patternsWas told they were making up a "false narrative" when they tried to speak the truthFeels humiliated, silenced, diminished, or like they don't trust their own realityHas been gaslit by the very people who were supposed to help them healWondered if they were imagining the emotional cruelty because it left no bruisesIf you've ever wondered if your mother was a covert narcissist, or if you've struggled with shame you can't quite explain, this episode gives you the framework to understand your experience. You're not imagining it. You're not alone. And it's never too late to finally name what happened.

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Covert narcissistic abuse from mothers and female relational aggression—two of the least-named forms of psychological harm. Licensed therapist and survivor Amy Murray offers a grounded look at maternal narcissistic abuse, covert narcissism, and the quiet cruelties that shape identity for decades—especially for those never allowed to name what happened. For men and women who grew up walking on eggshells, feeling humiliated or "too much." Topics: covert narcissistic mothers, maternal emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse recovery, daughters and sons of narcissistic mothers, the mother wound, shame

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