I was waiting for them to talk about the other side of disruption, disrupting others’ efforts which seems to be a nasty reflex in the culture today born of narcissism and tolerance for hypocrisy; trashing what others have built, dismissing or questioning historical achievements or attitudes blinded by exclusively “presentist” lens.
Also, imho - lacked a female perspective; fathers in the group epically failed to point out the most obvious disruption of anyone’s life is often having children. A common theme around that, “there’s never a great time to have kids” but the time you have kids is great; grows you in ways you could not imagine and teaches all the things they discussed, finding what you’re good at, being flexible, identifying others who might be better, embracing change, caring enough to assess and reassess continually…..
I guess you can’t talk about everything but what they did touch on was pretty common sense and could be applied to most lives, because just like stories, the plot twists are what makes it all interesting -
Finally, we all have an admittedly challenging manual regarding how to live a “good life”in the Bible for anyone who cares to disrupt the habit of doing what’s right in your own eyes, and consider that the creator of the universe might have it figured out beyond your own capability to consider it.
Unstated, but true, God can and does use all things ( even evil, negative or unwanted disruptions) for ultimate good for those who are called to His purpose and love Him.