The High Achieving Woman with Ashleigh Mayfield

Ashleigh Mayfield

Join Ashleigh Mayfield as she pushes high-achieving women to become the confident leader their success requires.

  1. 2d ago

    Winning at Work, Losing at Home: How High-Achieving Women Can Stop Sacrificing Family for the Hustle

    Ashleigh Mayfield opens up about the cost of being addicted to the grind — and the season when her ambition quietly pushed her husband and daughters to the back burner. This is an honest conversation about why "work-life balance" is the wrong target, and what to aim for instead. You'll hear the moment that woke her up (her husband holding a full conversation while she never looked up from her phone), why impacting millions of women means nothing if she isn't present for the two daughters at home, and the three habits that turned it around: scheduling your family as a non-negotiable, being present where your feet are, and bringing your family on the journey with you. If you're a driven woman who loves the chase but doesn't want to become a stranger to the people you're working for, this episode gives you both the honesty and the practical steps. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction 00:30 Addicted to the hustle and grind 01:37 Why work-life balance is an illusion 02:39 How compromising family starts small 03:54 The phone problem: never looking up 05:05 When work takes priority over family 08:25 What's the point of the kingdom without your king? 10:35 Rebuilding trust with her daughters 11:56 Why kids need you most in middle school 13:29 Habit 1: Schedule your family 16:40 Habit 2: Be present where your feet are 18:30 Presence beats presents 20:43 Habit 3: Bring your family on the journey 24:00 Letting your kids see you work 26:29 One day your calendar will be empty

  2. Jul 27

    God Is Faithful in Every Season

    "Elijah knew the brook was just a resource and that God was his source." In 1 Kings 17, Elijah walks in on the most evil king Israel has known, announces a drought, and is immediately sent into hiding at the Kerith Ravine. Ravens bring him bread and meat morning and evening. He drinks from the brook. And then the text says something that goes by so fast you'll miss it — sometime later, the brook dried up. Then the word of the Lord came to him. Not before. After. Ashleigh Mayfield teaches this passage in three movements. God is faithful to provide — the ravens and the brook were in place before Elijah ever felt the need, the same way the ram was already caught in the thicket before Abraham climbed the mountain. God is faithful to develop you — Kerith in Hebrew means to cut off, and God hid Elijah at the exact moment he looked most ready to be used, because what happened at the brook was the catalyst for every miracle that came after it. And God is faithful to direct you — but sometimes the direction only comes after the provision is completely gone. She tells it through her own story. In 2014 she and her husband were asked to leave a church over a pastor's affair that wasn't theirs, with two kids under five and no income. She drove 45 minutes to interview for a nine-dollar-an-hour job she didn't want to take, and left with a forty-thousand-dollar salary she hadn't applied for. Nine and a half years later, running a business that had made her the fifteenth-highest income earner in her company, she watched her commissions fall month after month while every door she knocked on stayed shut and God stayed silent. Three weeks of crying. Not released. Staying anyway. If you're in a season where the thing that sustained you is visibly running out and heaven hasn't spoken yet, this one is for you. At some point our faith has to be greater than our feelings — and we have to stop evaluating God's faithfulness by our circumstances and start evaluating our circumstances by God's faithfulness. Scripture — 1 Kings 17.1-7, 1 Samuel 17.37, Genesis 22.13, James 5.17-18, Ephesians 6.12-17, 1 Kings 18.20-40 00:00 Welcome — Turn to 1 Kings 17 00:50 David, Goliath, and the List in My Notes App 03:07 The Big Idea — God Is Faithful in Every Season 04:04 Scripture Reading and Prayer — 1 Kings 17.1-7 05:20 King Ahab, Jezebel, and the God of the Rain 06:41 Point 1 — God Is Faithful to Provide 07:28 2014 — When the Rug Got Pulled Out 09:35 The Nine-Dollar Interview That Wasn't 12:28 Abraham and the Ram — Genesis 22 13:12 Fear, the What-Ifs, and Doing God's Job for Him 14:10 Point 2 — God Is Faithful to Develop You 14:47 Three and a Half Years of Drought — James 5 15:55 Why God Hid Him Instead of Using Him 17:24 The Secret Place — Worship, the Word, and Prayer 19:24 Can You Pray for Seven Minutes? 20:26 Deep Roots, the Oak Tree, and What Kerith Means 21:16 The Armor of God — Ephesians 6 22:28 The Miracles That Came After the Brook 23:39 Your Pastor Isn't Your Main Source of Development 24:41 Point 3 — God Is Faithful to Direct You 25:37 When My Own Brook Started Drying Up 27:36 April and May — Watching the Numbers Fall 29:44 Three Weeks of Crying and Waiting 30:43 The Lord Released Me — Resigning 31:25 Are You Sitting Down? — The Call 32:36 Where the Power of God Actually Was 33:31 The Last Scoops — He Never Complained 34:44 Faith Greater Than Feelings 35:36 Provide, Develop, Direct — The Three Points 35:58 Closing Prayer

  3. Jul 23

    I Was Forced to Quit My Podcast: When Your Career Fights Your Calling

    Four years ago I was forced to quit this podcast. Not because I ran out of things to say — because the company I was earning multiple five figures a month with gave me an ultimatum: my career, or my calling. This is the full story. I launched the High Achievers Bootcamp in 2021, had 400 people show up to a free workshop, capped the program at 10 women, and watched a client close $15,000 in contracts within 24 hours of a one-on-one session. It was working. Then corporate came after me — private DMs, text messages, group chats with my husband in them, and meetings where my own content was subject to their approval. I chose the income. I stayed. It took four more years to walk away. I break down the three kinds of careers — the one that supports your calling, the one that funds it, and the one that fights it — and how to tell which one you're in. We talk about the difference between being frustrated at work and being genuinely trapped, why comfort and security carry a price tag most of us never calculate, and how to build your personal leadership before you make the leap. If there's something you've been told to keep quiet about — a business, a book, a brand, a promotion, a dream — this episode is for you. You do not need permission to live a big life. I don't regret quitting. I regret allowing someone else to decide how I use my voice. CHAPTERS 00:00 Back After Four Years 00:22 Why I Was Forced to Quit 00:49 The Three Kinds of Careers 01:48 Taking You Back to 2021 03:12 How This Podcast Started 04:26 Launching the High Achievers Bootcamp 05:57 Success, Then the Backlash 07:08 The Client Who Closed $15K 08:08 When the Company Came After Me 09:06 The Ultimatum 11:03 "We Built Your Platform" 11:53 Four Years to Walk Away 12:38 What Staying Is Costing You 15:31 Frustrated vs Actually Trapped 18:35 You Do Not Need Permission 20:26 Taking My Voice Back Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AshleighMayfield Follow along: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theashleighmayfield/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theashleighmayfield

  4. 10/30/2025

    Six Things Strong Leaders Do When They Feel Stuck in LifeI just

    Have you ever hit a season where everything just feels… stuck? You’re showing up. You’re doing “all the things.” But inside, it feels like nothing is moving?  In this episode, Ashleigh Mayfield opens up about what it really looks like to lead yourself through a stuck season — with honesty, vision, and grace. She shares six practical (and spiritual) things that strong leaders do when life feels heavy, including:  1️⃣ Getting honest without getting harsh  2️⃣ Revisiting the vision when the environment changes  3️⃣ Simplifying your focus so you can breathe again  4️⃣ Seeking counsel, not a crowd  5️⃣ Taking imperfect action even when you’re scared  6️⃣ Guarding your atmosphere so your character stays intact This one will remind you that you’re not broken — you’re just being rebuilt. Get ready to laugh, get convicted, and feel the fire again. Because God’s not done with you yet, friend. 💡 If this episode helps you, share it with another high-achieving woman who’s ready to get unstuck. ---- 📝 Episode Notes / Show Notes Six Things Strong Leaders Do When They Feel Stuck in Life with Ashleigh Mayfield Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro: Real talk about feeling stuck 02:45 – #1: Get honest without getting harsh 07:30 – #2: Revisit your vision 13:50 – #3: Simplify your focus 20:15 – #4: Seek counsel, not a crowd 26:00 – #5: Take imperfect action 32:40 – #6: Guard your atmosphere 38:00 – Final encouragement: God can bring dead things back to life Connect with Ashleigh: Instagram: @theashleighmayfield Facebook: Ashleigh Mayfield Website: www.ashleighmayfield.com

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