Joy of Missing Out (JOMO)

Chloe Shih and Eric Wei

Spent our 20s working for other people and are now living our 30s betting on ourselves. This is the *joy* of missing out. A podcast starring Chloe Shih and Eric Wei. ๐—–๐—ต๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ต - IG: @chloe.shih tech product manager making educational videos to elevate your career and life! ๐—˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ถ - IG: @erictway co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances

  1. JAN 26

    How Modern Dating Works in 2026 ft. iGumdrop

    today is all about unpacking modern dating, attraction, identity, and energy ft. our very own professional cutie pie jaime / @igumdrop !! in this episode, we cover:1) Jaime decoding how dating actually works (energy, connection, 7 seduction types, and why creators date differently)2) Chloe trying to give dating advice despite having no current dating experience ๐Ÿซ 3) Eric navigating male dating psychology, timing, vulnerability, and self-worth we explore how people connect today, knowing that we're all just so tired of checklists, tactics, and swiping. hope you enjoy this heartfelt chit chat about love! - chloe & eric๐™๐™ƒ๐™€ ๐™…๐™Š๐™ˆ๐™Š ๐™ƒ๐™Š๐™Ž๐™๐™Ž ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ๐—˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ถ IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictwayco-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances @trykarat ๐—–๐—ต๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ต โ IG: https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/tech pm turned creator making videos on career, personal growth, and life in your 20s/30s. ๐™Ž๐™Š๐˜พ๐™„๐˜ผ๐™‡๐™Ž ๐ŸŒธโˆ™ instagram โ†’ https://www.instagram.com/jomo.podโˆ™ spotify โ†’ https://open.spotify.com/show/0sJAtVorz8TsYDzzyM04cq?si=9c913d3e0f2947beโˆ™ apple podcasts โ†’ https://bit.ly/jomo-appleโˆ™ tiktok โ†’ https://www.tiktok.com/@jomopodโˆ™ discord โ†’ https://discord.gg/udRmVpf3Xvโˆ™ patreon โ†’ https://www.patreon.com/jomopod๐˜พ๐™ƒ๐˜ผ๐™‹๐™๐™€๐™๐™Ž ๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ“ง business: jomo.chat@gmail.com#jomopod #joyofmissingout #chloeshih #ericwei #careerpodcast #businesspodcast #corporatecreatives

    1h 30m
  2. I gained 1M followersโ€ฆbut lost friends

    JAN 19

    I gained 1M followersโ€ฆbut lost friends

    Today, we're unpacking all the angsty stuff about burnout, success, insecurity, and friendship.The entire episode runs on two parallel arcs:1. Chloe hitting 1 million followers and dealing with the fallout2. Eric trying to keep up emotionally, creatively, and personallyWe discuss how friendships evolve when one friend takes off career-wise, how to stay emotionally grounded, and how to stay connected despite chaos.This is sincerely my favorite episode so far. It's incredibly nuanced, a scary conversation to have, and such an interesting behind-the-scenes deep talk of our inner worlds. Hope you enjoy! love, chloe + eric ๐™๐™ƒ๐™€ ๐™…๐™Š๐™ˆ๐™Š ๐™ƒ๐™Š๐™Ž๐™๐™Ž ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ ๐—˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ถ IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictway co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances ๐—–๐—ต๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ต โ IG: https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/ tech pm turned creator making videos on career, personal growth, and life in your 20s/30s. ๐™Ž๐™Š๐˜พ๐™„๐˜ผ๐™‡๐™Ž ๐ŸŒธ โˆ™ instagram โ†’ https://www.instagram.com/jomo.pod โˆ™ spotify โ†’ https://spoti.fi/466BRP3 โˆ™ apple podcasts โ†’ https://bit.ly/jomo-apple โˆ™ tiktok โ†’ https://www.tiktok.com/@jomopod โˆ™ discord โ†’ https://discord.gg/udRmVpf3Xv โˆ™ patreon โ†’ https://www.patreon.com/jomopod ๐Ÿ“ง business: jomo.chat@gmail.com #jomopod #joyofmissingout #chloeshih #ericwei #careerpodcast #businesspodcast #corporatecreatives

    1h 15m
  3. JAN 12

    A Hater's Guide to Networking

    Today is about all networking, introversion, power dynamics, and how relationships actually form in professional spaces - especially when you *hate* networking, but know it matters. Both Eric and I have wildly different personalities navigating the same high-power ecosystems, from Cannes Lions to Vidcon, and we get into what it really feels like to move through rooms full of important people, big egos, and invisible social rules.We talk about:โœจ how to exist in elite spaces without burning outโœจ introvert exhaustion & social hangoversโœจ imposter syndrome in rooms you โ€œdonโ€™t belongโ€ inโœจ the cringe of self-promotionโœจ and the tension between being really good at what you doโ€ฆ and being seen for itIf networking has ever made you feel awkward, small, or like youโ€™re playing a game you never learned the rules to - youโ€™re not alone.Sometimes we walk into rooms that werenโ€™t built for us.But we still have to decide how we show up anyway. ๐Ÿ’Œ๐™๐™ƒ๐™€ ๐™…๐™Š๐™ˆ๐™Š ๐™ƒ๐™Š๐™Ž๐™๐™Ž ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ๐—˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ถ - IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictwayco-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances๐—–๐—ต๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ต - IG: https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/tech pm turned creator making videos on career, personal growth, and life in your 20s/30s. ๐™Ž๐™Š๐˜พ๐™„๐˜ผ๐™‡๐™Ž ๐ŸŒธโˆ™ instagram โ†’ https://www.instagram.com/jomo.podโˆ™ spotify โ†’ https://spoti.fi/466BRP3โˆ™ apple podcasts โ†’ https://bit.ly/jomo-appleโˆ™ tiktok โ†’ https://www.tiktok.com/@jomopodโˆ™ discord โ†’ https://discord.gg/udRmVpf3Xvโˆ™ patreon โ†’ https://www.patreon.com/jomopod๐˜พ๐™ƒ๐˜ผ๐™‹๐™๐™€๐™๐™Ž ๐Ÿ“š0:00 ๐Ÿ“ง business: jomo.chat@gmail.com#jomopod #joyofmissingout #chloeshih #ericwei #careerpodcast #businesspodcast #corporatecreatives

    1h 8m
  4. JAN 5

    My Honest Feelings about Chloeโ€™s Wedding... | Season 2 Premiere

    Welcome back to SEASON 2 of the Joy of Missing Out podcast! After a 1 year hiatus, we are finally back. Tysm for your patience. We also did receive plenty of angy comments about why we didn't come back in 2025 ๐Ÿ˜… but just remember, it's just us doing it from my living room o___o (yes, this is Chloe). Podcasting looks so chill, but the production ops is a monster to do right. I also changed careers, joined a new agency, got married, worked a BUNCH, and tried to produce this pod. I vowed to myself that if it wasn't good, it's not going out. I finally think it's ready to release! Eric and I decided to kick off the first episode with THE WEDDING โœจ This episode is about my wild, overwhelming year (wedding, career explosion, burnout) and Eric's personal chaos (broken foot, heartbreak, startup pressure, loneliness). ChatGPT says: Together, Eric and Chloe talk about friendship under pressure, how distance tests connection, and what it means to come back together after a year that nearly broke both of us. (HAHA wow so dramatic) Hope you enjoy our S2 premiere! Love, Chloe & Eric๐™๐™ƒ๐™€ ๐™…๐™Š๐™ˆ๐™Š ๐™ƒ๐™Š๐™Ž๐™๐™Ž ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ๐—˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ถ - IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictwayco-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances๐—–๐—ต๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ต - IG: https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/tech pm turned creator making videos on career, personal growth, and life in your 20s/30s. ๐™Ž๐™Š๐˜พ๐™„๐˜ผ๐™‡๐™Ž ๐ŸŒธโˆ™ instagram โ†’ https://www.instagram.com/jomo.podโˆ™ spotify โ†’ https://spoti.fi/466BRP3โˆ™ apple podcasts โ†’ https://bit.ly/jomo-appleโˆ™ tiktok โ†’ https://www.tiktok.com/@jomopodโˆ™ discord โ†’ https://discord.gg/udRmVpf3Xvโˆ™ patreon โ†’ https://www.patreon.com/jomopod ๐Ÿ“ง business: jomo.chat@gmail.com#jomopod #joyofmissingout #chloeshih #ericwei #careerpodcast #businesspodcast #corporatecreatives

    1h 7m
  5. 10/29/2024

    This is the last episode

    Try Kittl today! โ†’ https://www.kittl.com/create?&utm_medium=collaboration&utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=chloeshih_22474512833_1 You can use our code JOMOPODYT for 25% off the first month or year of any paid plan (for new users only!) This is goodbye. For now. In this episode we answer your burning questions including: why we're stopping JOMO, what our future plans are, and how is Eric's romantic life going? As Eric said this isn't a period, this is a semicolon. We'll see you again for season 2 :) ๐™๐™ƒ๐™€ ๐™…๐™Š๐™ˆ๐™Š ๐™ƒ๐™Š๐™Ž๐™๐™Ž ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ ๐—˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ถ (โ  @trykarat ) - IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictway co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances ๐—–๐—ต๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ต โ ( @chloeshih ) IG: https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/ tech product manager sharing perspectives on career, life advice, and living in your 30s. Editor: Jayna Benito ๐™Ž๐™Š๐˜พ๐™„๐˜ผ๐™‡๐™Ž ๐ŸŒธ โˆ™ instagram โ†’ https://www.instagram.com/jomo.pod โˆ™ spotify โ†’ https://spoti.fi/466BRP3 โˆ™ apple podcasts โ†’ https://bit.ly/jomo-apple โˆ™ tiktok โ†’ https://www.tiktok.com/@jomopod โˆ™ discord โ†’ https://discord.gg/udRmVpf3Xv โˆ™ patreon โ†’ https://www.patreon.com/jomopod ๐˜พ๐™ƒ๐˜ผ๐™‹๐™๐™€๐™๐™Ž ๐Ÿ“š 0:00 Eric is Chloe's biggest fan 3:21 find my iphone coming in clutch 4:33 you're the unstable one 7:36 it's fires after fires 8:18 why we are ending jomo 11:14 WE'RE 12TH ON SPOTIFY BUSINESS PODCASTS WOOT WOOT 14:18 lauDIY during Eric's house into a home 15:33 a girl entered Eric's house and did not run away in fear 16:06 1. Is Eric back on his boo thang hunt? 17:50 first they were NPC friends 22:40 she's sitting there looking at ๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ“๐Ÿ“ 24:30 he KISSED her!!! 28:34 is Chloe feeling the jomo? 31:50 no Captain Eric :( 36:30 just vibing with some pickleball 39:15 Eric put on an A+ event 42:00 wonderous package ideas 45:08 showing face means so much 47:45 2. When's the next season starting? 48:34 3. What's the general direction for season 2? 51:19 4. What would we be doing during the break? 52:30 5. What were your favorite/least favorite episodes? 54:42 6. Do you have any plans for a meetup? 58:14 7. Can you give advice for people in their 20s? 59:09 *8. How do you become confident and overcome self-doubt? 59:48 find your weapon and abuse the f*** out of it 1:05:55 9. How do you balance being yourself and being professional? 1:08:45 we like Eric today 1:09:14 10. What made you ultimately decide to go to the creative route? 1:10:19 11. Any advice for someone trying to balance content with a 9-5? 1:12:38 12. What have you discovered about yourself/each other while doing JOMO? 1:16:24 One last goodbye :( 1:19:43 we'll still be around, so stay in touch!! JOMO out! ๐Ÿ“ง business: jomo.chat@gmail.com #jomopod #joyofmissingout #chloeshih #ericwei #careerpodcast #businesspodcast #corporatecreatives

    1h 22m
  6. 10/22/2024

    I was accused of clout chasing

    Try Kittl today! โ†’ https://www.kittl.com/create?&utm_medium=collaboration&utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=chloeshih_22474512833_1 You can use our code JOMOPODYT for 25% off the first month or year of any paid plan (for new users only!) What's the difference between networking and clout chasing? A lot of times you want to meet cool people. But then you get accused of clout chasing. Even though the two things have different intentions, from the outside they can look the same. It's a tricky thing to balance. ๐™๐™ƒ๐™€ ๐™…๐™Š๐™ˆ๐™Š ๐™ƒ๐™Š๐™Ž๐™๐™Ž ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ ๐—˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ถ (โ  @trykarat ) - IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictway co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances ๐—–๐—ต๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ต โ ( @chloeshih ) IG: https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/ tech product manager sharing perspectives on career, life advice, and living in your 30s. Editor: Jayna Benito ๐™Ž๐™Š๐˜พ๐™„๐˜ผ๐™‡๐™Ž ๐ŸŒธ โˆ™ instagram โ†’ https://www.instagram.com/jomo.pod โˆ™ spotify โ†’ https://spoti.fi/466BRP3 โˆ™ apple podcasts โ†’ https://bit.ly/jomo-apple โˆ™ tiktok โ†’ https://www.tiktok.com/@jomopod โˆ™ discord โ†’ https://discord.gg/udRmVpf3Xv โˆ™ patreon โ†’ https://www.patreon.com/jomopod ๐˜พ๐™ƒ๐˜ผ๐™‹๐™๐™€๐™๐™Ž ๐Ÿ“š 0:00 not the reddit clout chaser accusation 3:36 fake relationships for clout exist 7:15 haters are just projecting 9:28 Chloe in a content house? 12:05 nobody is big enough to be an a**hole 14:17 Kira's got called a clout chaser by her ex's friend 17:13 go network but don't pretend it's for friendship 20:55 chloe loves the community :) 24:25 you SHOULD surround yourself with people better than you 25:59 it's not a bad thing to meet cool people 27:11 unconditional love isn't real 29:00 conditional love is a good thing 31:55 unconditional love is reserved for family (some instances no) 35:35 the concept of grace 37:33 epigenetics mans 39:37 we call out behavior, not people 41:54 if you want a lasting relationship, don't ask for favors 43:54 Jomies in the wild tell us your background! 44:24 this is one of Eric's favorite podcast episodes! ๐Ÿ“ง business: jomo.chat@gmail.com #jomopod #joyofmissingout #chloeshih #ericwei #careerpodcast #businesspodcast #corporatecreatives

    46 min
  7. 10/15/2024

    I fell in love with my coworker

    Going into office can be tiring, but with an office crush it can make you look forward to going to work! With 43% of people married to someone they worked with, your future partner might just be awaiting you there (it's pretty statistically probable!) Some statistics about workplace romances according to Forbes: -43% have married someone they worked with -40% have cheated on their current partner with a coworker -50% report flirting with their co-workers (https://www.forbes.com/advisor/business/workplace-romance-statistics/) Try Kittl today! https://www.kittl.com/create?&utm_medium=collaboration&utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=chloeshih_22474512833_1 You can use our code JOMOPODYT for 25% off the first month or year of any paid plan (for new users only) ๐™๐™ƒ๐™€ ๐™…๐™Š๐™ˆ๐™Š ๐™ƒ๐™Š๐™Ž๐™๐™Ž ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ ๐—˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ถ (โ  @trykarat ) - IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictway co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances ๐—–๐—ต๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ต โ ( @chloeshih ) IG: https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/ tech product manager sharing perspectives on career, life advice, and living in your 30s. Editor: Jayna Benito ๐™Ž๐™Š๐˜พ๐™„๐˜ผ๐™‡๐™Ž ๐ŸŒธ โˆ™ instagram โ†’ https://www.instagram.com/jomo.pod โˆ™ spotify โ†’ https://spoti.fi/466BRP3 โˆ™ apple podcasts โ†’ https://bit.ly/jomo-apple โˆ™ tiktok โ†’ https://www.tiktok.com/@jomopod โˆ™ discord โ†’ https://discord.gg/udRmVpf3Xv โˆ™ patreon โ†’ https://www.patreon.com/jomopod ๐˜พ๐™ƒ๐˜ผ๐™‹๐™๐™€๐™๐™Ž ๐Ÿ“š 0:00 taking EXTRA good care of the daughter 0:45 we're not doing this forever 2:29 DON'T wear this to work 3:40 you gotta flirt to convert 4:44 what did we wear to work 6:49 men discriminate against hair colors 8:09 might find your new boo at work ;) 11:56 Eric's secret to pulling the ladies 12:26 Chloe got cheated on in the workplace 15:12 cheating is more common than you think 18:55 have you ever had a crush on your manager? 21:22 don't s*** where you eat 24:14 the ugly reality of office romances 27:02 Chloe's red hair makes a debut 31:33 it's hard being a girl 34:26 someone's trying to get promoted... to son in law 42:25 THIS is how you win a girl over 46:30 competence is sexy 49:00 he said WHAT?!? 52:02 would eric swipe on kira??? 55:20 can notice when someone is aesthetically not hideous 59:20 how Chloe would rizz up her office crush 1:02:37 the hunger games romance version 1:05:58 good thing Kira isn't a man 1:08:40 ANIME JOMO ๐Ÿ“ง business: jomo.chat@gmail.com #jomopod #joyofmissingout #chloeshih #ericwei #careerpodcast #businesspodcast #corporatecreatives

    1h 11m
4.8
out of 5
70 Ratings

About

Spent our 20s working for other people and are now living our 30s betting on ourselves. This is the *joy* of missing out. A podcast starring Chloe Shih and Eric Wei. ๐—–๐—ต๐—น๐—ผ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ต - IG: @chloe.shih tech product manager making educational videos to elevate your career and life! ๐—˜๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฐ ๐—ช๐—ฒ๐—ถ - IG: @erictway co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances

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