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Don't Listen To Us with Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody

Don’t Listen to Us is an advice show for advice-skeptics and wisdom-lovers, hosted by Mandy Patinkin, Kathryn Grody, and their son Gideon. Legendary actor Mandy (The Princess Bride, Homeland, Criminal Minds) is the consummate entertainer who shoots from the hip, stage actress Kathryn is the thoughtful connector who sees all the nuance, and Gideon is the brave soul keeping them on track (or at least trying). Together, Mandy and Kathryn have 40+ years of marriage, 140+ years of life experience, and a series of viral social media posts where Gideon interviews them and watches both chaos and wisdom ensue. They don’t always agree on what advice to give—in fact, they rarely do. But they draw from their highs and lows as artists, parents, lovers, and humans, to give their unique take on real dilemmas submitted by you -- the listeners. Hang out with this family and you’ll walk away with insights you didn’t expect, stories you’ll want to repeat, and comfort knowing that you’re not alone in figuring out how to survive this fakakta world.

  1. 4d ago

    TOMS Founder Blake Mycoskie Tells Michael Pollan How Success Broke Him

    New series sneak peek! No Magic Pill is hosted by TOMS Shoes founder Blake Mycoskie, who fell apart after building and selling one of the most recognized brands on the planet. After a years-long journey through every therapy and treatment imaginable, Blake is finally talking honestly about the dark side of success and the reality of mental health. In No Magic Pill, Blake travels the country to sit down with survivors, experts, and cultural icons who have looked into the darkness and found a way out. These aren’t stories of quick fixes; they are honest conversations about the daily choices, big and small, that create a path forward. When Blake was at the lowest point in his life, a small dose of a psychoactive cacti called San Pedro showed him the truth underneath everything. He recorded the session and in this episode he shares certain moments with journalist Michael Pollan (author of How to Change Your Mind) to break down what happened. They discuss the power of pairing psychedelics with meditation, the breakthroughs that can come with ego disillusion, and the misguided assumption that’s driving the belief that AI can become conscious. Plus, how Michael’s experiencing gardening while on mushrooms inspired the opening chapter of his new book, A World Appears. In this conversation you’ll learn: Why psychedelics are unlike any other drug The importance of set and setting when taking plant medicine  Why light doses are often more effective than heavier doses How to break the pattern of ruminating thoughts The critical period after a psychedelic experience The opportunities and dangers of AI therapy Enough Foundation's mission is to spread reminders in every form — bracelets, messages, actions, community — until feeling ENOUGH becomes the cultural default. To learn more, visit weareenough.co. Stay up to date with Lemonada on X, Facebook, and Instagram. For a list of current sponsors and discount codes for this and every other Lemonada show, go to lemonadamedia.com/sponsors. Joining Lemonada Premium is a great way to support our show and get bonus content. Subscribe today at lemonadapremium.com. Disclaimer: This episode is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical questions or concerns you may have Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 4m
  2. Death Doula Answers What Happens When We Die

    May 20

    Death Doula Answers What Happens When We Die

    Are you ready for a sharp turn? One minute we’re debating love languages, pickleball etiquette, and loyalty to your barber. Next, we sit down with a death doula/soul midwife who shares what dying feels like in the room, how to navigate grief, and the emotional realities of end-of-life care. She helps Mandy with a pressing question and a listener who asks how to support a friend with a terminal illness. There’s laughter, awkwardness, surprising honesty, and a reminder that joy can still exist even in life’s hardest moments. Correction: The quote, "We're all here to walk each other home" is misattributed in our podcast. It’s by American spiritual teacher and author Ram Dass. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT  📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia  #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Chapters: 00:00 - Coming Up: Pickleball drama, love languages & talking about death. 00:44 - One of us is hyper. It’s Mandy Patinkin. Plus, O Susanna with spoons.  01:26 - What are the 5 love languages? 04:19 - Should you switch barbers or hairdressers? Where does loyalty come in? 09:55 - What are relationship pickleball rules when playing with your partner or spouse?  14:03 - One of Kathryn Grody’s favourite childhood memories about Gideon. 14:16 - Mind Bowling LIVE! 16:16 - What does a death doula do?  18:53 - How Elisabeth Kübler-Ross changed our thinking about dying and the stages of grief. 20:28 - Why we avoid talking about death — and why we shouldn’t. 22:05 - What are the biggest surprises about dying and end-of-life care?  23:29 - A difficult end-of-life decision Mandy struggles with. What should I do with my body?  29:17 - How can I support a friend with a terminal diagnosis? 33:33 - Why this conversation meant so much to Mandy. 35:18 - How does joy & humour play a role in death and end-of-life care? A moving story.  39:55 - What is NEDA? The National End-of-Life Doula Alliance explained. 43:30 - Send us your questions. Goodbye. Credits. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    47 min
  3. Time Slipping? Mandy Patinkin & Kathryn Grody on Aging

    May 13

    Time Slipping? Mandy Patinkin & Kathryn Grody on Aging

    A totally original, absolutely unhinged birthday song. Danielle writes in with a big question about feeling like time is moving too fast. And a round of Scary Not Scary tackles the burning question: what would you do if a baby bear showed up in your sink? Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT  📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia  #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs #LifeAdvice #Aging #BirthdaySong #TimeIsFlying Go to quince.com/dontlisten for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Chapters: 00:00 Anxiety About Time Moving Fast 00:45 Original Birthday Song! 00:59 New Toy Chaos 02:02 Fashion Tips (Not Really!) 03:30 Speaking Out in Dark Times 06:25 Encouraged by Community Activism 7:43 Why Mandy Uses His Voice 09:43 Quince Ad Break 11:43 Booking.com Sponsor 13:54 Listener Question Setup 14:12 Is Age a Barrier? 17:07 Age Is Just Number 20:55 Live Caller: Danielle 23:14 Why Does It Feel Like Time is Speeding Up? 26:19 Physics and Play 28:07 What the Pandemic Did to Time 29:56 Why Time Feels Faster with Age 30:57 Loss and Life Lessons 33:23 Slow Down to Live 36:07 Birthday Plans and Video Games 37:44 Happy Birthday Serenade 40:23 Scary Not Scary Game 41:31 Bear in the Sink? Now What? 44:36 Credits and Premium Plug Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    45 min
  4. How Do You Forgive Yourself?

    May 6

    How Do You Forgive Yourself?

    A listener asks about addiction and self-forgiveness. A family friend drops by for a moving discussion about sobriety, relapse, and learning to move forward. Plus, Kathryn judges Gideon’s beard rather harshly, and a story about a first kiss that changed everything.  Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT  📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia  #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Chapters: 00:00 Intro: Beards, Friendship & Forgiveness 01:16 Who Loves a Beard? 04:05 Boundaries & Emotional Limits 04:44 Surprise Guest Drops By! 07:49 Meet Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner Maureen Laffey 08:25 How We Met Good Friend Maureen 10:32 First Kiss Stories 11:32 The Secret to Long Friendships 12:39 Jack Hofsiss’ Story: Caregiving and Illness 14:07 The Ann-Margret Elevator Story 15:32 A Relationship Beyond Caregiver and Patient 16:56 Michael’s Voice Note About Addiction Struggles 18:18 Learning Self-Forgiveness 23:04 Letting Go of the “God Complex” 26:53 Different Paths to Sobriety 29:36 Medication and Recovery 32:24 One-Word Tributes to Old Friends 34:17 Saying Goodbye 35:37 Credits & Subscribe Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    39 min
  5. True NYC Stories We’ve Never Told (Until Now)

    Apr 29

    True NYC Stories We’ve Never Told (Until Now)

    Roaches. Drug heists. Burglaries. Sandwiches. Welcome to New York. In this anything-goes episode, we pause your questions and dive into our unbelievable and sometimes oddly hilarious stories about life in NYC, including when we were young, struggling actors. Plus, a tale about Martin Sheen that goes nowhere. Oh, and an easter egg revealed that you haven’t noticed yet. Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com. 👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT  📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia  #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs Head over to Booking.com and start your listing today. Chapters: 00:00 This week on our podcast… 01:07 An enthused hello. Plus, Gideon’s first love(s).  02:32 The easter egg reveal. Did you catch it?  03:30 Travel, Venice and rats.  07:04 City living, nudity and bathroom windows. 13:51 Biking in New York City. Mandy confronts Gideon on not sharing stories about his life. 17:26 The legend of Peanuts.  20:48 Our first reference in this episode to the Martin Sheen story that goes nowhere.  21:26 Mandy reminisces on his early days as a struggling actor in NY and shares a wild story involving his mom. 28:38 Kathryn’s first cookie drug deal and her maybe, kind of close encounter with a drug heist.  33:09 When Kathrny’s dad visited her during her early days in NY. 35:10 Gideon tries to explain the sexual practice of sounding to his parents.  37:25 Becky serenades us! 38:05 Byebyes. Credits. Send us your questions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    42 min
  6. A 93-Year-Old Shares Secrets to a Creative Life

    Apr 22

    A 93-Year-Old Shares Secrets to a Creative Life

    What can a 93-year-old teach us about life, creativity, and happiness? Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody sit down with a 93-year-old artist to talk about aging, staying creative, and finding joy at every stage of life. They also answer a listener question about how to raise hopeful kids in difficult times, and a game of Would You Rather? takes an unexpected (and hilarious) turn. Have a question, story, or unspeakable thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or email askmandyandkathryn@gmail.com.  👉 Subscribe, so you don’t miss a new episode every week! 🎧 Listen on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT  📱 Follow: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia #MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs #LifeAdvice #Creativity #Parenting Chapters: 00:00 Coming Up: Life Advice From a 93-Year-Old 00:51 Mandy Gets Swallowed by a Whale 02:18 Listener Question: Parenting Kids in Dark Times 04:13 How to Raise Hopeful Kids Today 07:12 Why Activism and Community Matter 11:05 Using History to Stay Hopeful 14:30 Meet Doris Peltzman, Age 93 15:51 How Gideon Met Doris 20:33 How to Protect Your Creative Spark 22:19 Choosing Joy Every Day 23:15 How Creativity Changes With Age 24:19 Creativity Is Being Alive 26:05 Why Comparing Your Work Can Hurt Creativity 27:07 What Life Is Like in Your Nineties 28:54 Unexpected Kindness From Strangers 32:19 Advice From a 93-Year-Old: Keep Growing 34:38 Would You Rather? Game 38:19 Send Us Your Art! 38:50 Outro & Credits Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    43 min

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Don’t Listen to Us is an advice show for advice-skeptics and wisdom-lovers, hosted by Mandy Patinkin, Kathryn Grody, and their son Gideon. Legendary actor Mandy (The Princess Bride, Homeland, Criminal Minds) is the consummate entertainer who shoots from the hip, stage actress Kathryn is the thoughtful connector who sees all the nuance, and Gideon is the brave soul keeping them on track (or at least trying). Together, Mandy and Kathryn have 40+ years of marriage, 140+ years of life experience, and a series of viral social media posts where Gideon interviews them and watches both chaos and wisdom ensue. They don’t always agree on what advice to give—in fact, they rarely do. But they draw from their highs and lows as artists, parents, lovers, and humans, to give their unique take on real dilemmas submitted by you -- the listeners. Hang out with this family and you’ll walk away with insights you didn’t expect, stories you’ll want to repeat, and comfort knowing that you’re not alone in figuring out how to survive this fakakta world.

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