The Detachment Circle - The Journey to Self Realisation

Siddharth Das
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Detachment isn’t about walking away, it’s about staying present without losing yourself. I'm Siddharth Das, an ICF-certified Identity coach and TEDx speaker, and this is where I share what I've learned about karma, attachment, relationships, the ego and self-realisation through Advaita Vedanta and psychology. Deep insights, hard truths and your own questions answered.

  1. 2d ago

    Why Do You Keep Attracting the Same Person?

    Different face. Different name. Sometimes a different city. And six months in, you are having the same argument you had five years ago with someone else. When I asked what kind of people keep repeating in your life, almost every single person used the same word. Attract. As if they arrive like weather. Nobody wrote that they chose, or that they stayed. This one is about the other half of that story: why the wrong person feels familiar, why a steady person can feel flat, and the role you keep playing that needs them to be exactly who they are. Then underneath it, ahankar, and karma as a mechanism rather than a punishment. There is a story about a man and a flock of crows at the centre of this episode. I also share my own pattern, and the sentence I carried for years before I could put it down. Nobody here deserved what was done to them. This is about the one part that is yours. Stay aware, stay free, and stay true to yourself.

  2. Sep 5

    Why Are You Waiting to Be Rescued? Sid's Satsang

    Somewhere in you there is a date. You never wrote it down, but it exists. A day when the right person comes, when the money arrives, when the pattern finally breaks. And until then you are waiting. You would not call it waiting. You would call it healing, or divine timing, or trusting the process. This episode is about the wait, and what it costs you. Which is time, the one thing you cannot earn back. We look at surrender that quietly means doing nothing, at manifestation reduced to asking, and at the Gita, wrapped in cloth on the highest shelf and never opened. It does not begin in a temple. It begins on a battlefield with a man collapsing. Krishna does not tell Arjuna to rest. He tells him to pick up the bow. Krishna did not pick up the bow. The bow was Arjuna's. Karma means action. The loop was never your karma. The not-doing was. I also share the years I spent waiting for a sign before I finally started. First episode of Sid's Satsang, a shorter series inside The Detachment Circle. Stay aware, stay free, and stay true to yourself.

  3. Aug 21

    Why Do You Lose Yourself in Love?

    You did not leave. You just slowly stopped showing up as yourself. This episode sits in the real thing first: self-abandonment, anxious attachment, codependence, the roles you took on to keep the peace. Then it asks the harder question. If you understand your pattern completely, why hasn't it freed you? Because pattern recognition is not pattern breaking. From there we go into Vedanta, the two birds of the Mundaka Upanishad, and what in you never disappeared in any relationship you have ever been in. I also share how I read Rumi wrong for years, and what it cost me. The Wisdom Circle and The Karmic Cleanse are both linked in the show notes. Stay aware, stay free, and stay true to yourself. Apply to work with me - https://www.awareandbeyond.com/training/apply Join the community - https://www.awareandbeyond.com/wisdomcircle

  4. Jun 25

    Why Do We Never Feel Enough? | The End of Becoming Better

    You wake up planning to become better, and you sleep having failed a little. This is not self-improvement. It is a treadmill, and in this episode we step off it. A discourse on the endless chase to become someone you are not yet, where it comes from, and the true nature that is already whole beneath all of it. Rooted in Vedanta, lived in the ordinary day. This one is personal too. I share my own becoming, and why I am stepping out of the cell I built. The Wisdom Circle, where this becomes daily practice, is linked in the show notes. Stay aware, stay free, and stay true to yourself.

  5. Apr 8

    Why Love Turns Into Fear? | Attachment, Insecurity & the Loss of Self

    Why does love feel peaceful at first… and then become anxious, heavy, and fearful? In this episode, we explore how fear enters love through attachment, insecurity, identity, and the need to secure what cannot be controlled. We talk about: love vs fear attachment and anxious love why you start losing yourself in relationships fear of abandonment, betrayal, and choosing wrong what real love actually looks like and how to stop confusing fear with depth This is a deep conversation on love, self-loss, and emotional truth. Stay aware. Stay free. Stay true to yourself.

  6. Feb 21

    Desire, Wanting & Inner Emptiness – Why Fulfillment Never Lasts

    Why does wanting never stop? In this episode, we explore desire, inner emptiness, and why fulfillment fades even after success, love, or validation. From a Vedantic lens, we examine: • Why achievement still feels hollow • The addiction to being chosen • Healthy desire vs compulsive craving • How inner emptiness is created • What true fulfillment actually is This is not about killing desire. It’s about understanding it. Because happiness is not produced by objects. It is revealed when craving quiets. Stay aware. Stay free. Stay true to yourself.

  7. Jan 22

    Vairagya: Why Attachment Isn’t Love and Detachment Isn’t Coldness

    Join the Wisdom Circle - https://siddharthdas.circle.so/the-wisdom-circleMost people believe their suffering comes from loving too deeply.Vedanta says something very different.In this episode of The Detachment Circle, we go deep into Vairāgya — not as renunciation or emotional distance, but as inner freedom from Raag, the attachment that quietly binds us in relationships, family, and life.We explore: • What Raag actually is and how it disguises itself as love • Why awareness alone doesn’t dissolve attachment • How spirituality and “energy language” can unknowingly justify dependency • The Vedantic truth behind Vairāgya as a way of living, not escaping • How detachment makes love cleaner, calmer, and more honest • Why fear of abandonment, validation-seeking, and over-giving persist • And how Vairāgya transforms relationships without making you cold or withdrawnThis episode is not about leaving people.It’s about leaving unconscious clinging.It’s for those who are tired of emotional exhaustion, confused love narratives, and spiritual bypassing — and are ready to understand freedom at the root.Listen slowly.Not to agree.But to see clearly.

  8. 11/25/2025

    Divine Union - Is It Destiny… or Just Another Illusion of Attachment?

    What is Divine Union really?Not fantasy. Not intensity. Not obsession dressed as destiny. In Vedanta, divine union is the meeting of two people from awareness, not ego; from wholeness, not hunger. In this episode, we explore: • Atman, Brahman & the true meaning of divine connection• Why every relationship is divine, even the painful ones• How ego creates illusions of destiny• Why twin-flame ideology keeps people stuck• Signs of karmic patterns• How detachment purifies love• Q&A on intuition, destiny, karmic bonds & inner union If this episode expands your clarity, follow me on Instagram to receive the link and join my channel where you can share your questions. Stay aware, stay free, stay true to yourself.

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Detachment isn’t about walking away, it’s about staying present without losing yourself. I'm Siddharth Das, an ICF-certified Identity coach and TEDx speaker, and this is where I share what I've learned about karma, attachment, relationships, the ego and self-realisation through Advaita Vedanta and psychology. Deep insights, hard truths and your own questions answered.

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