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  1. JUL 7

    Armie Hammer Returns - From Rock Bottom to Redemption

    In this raw and hilarious episode of Painful Lessons, we cover: How Armie's PLP appearance sparked his comeback after 5 years False accusations, public scrutiny, and surviving a 2.5-year investigation Allegations against P. Diddy and disturbing internet rumors Why Sophie Cunningham body-slammed a player to protect Caitlin Clark Martial arts stories, street fights, and gym trauma at Jay Glazer’s Unbreakable Testosterone therapy, bench press PRs, and cautionary tales of hormone use Leaving AA for SLAA: a deeper dive into recovery and powerlessness Stalkers, obsessive fans, and the thin line between passion and pathology Paparazzi ethics: should celebrities have the right to fight back? Bring back bullying? Social media callouts and engagement farming Media-driven hate for Meghan Markle, Taylor Swift, Bethenny Frankel Why Tropic Thunder still holds up, and how Tom Cruise trained to hang off the Burj Khalifa Billy Bush, Matt Lauer, and the messy realities of cancel culture And yes… the legendary Tom Cruise coconut cake 00:00 – Introduction: The Pain of Public Mistakes02:15 – Facing Fear: His First Public Interview in 5 Years04:00 – Too Many Mistakes to Trust? Losing Credibility with Friends06:30 – Cancel Culture, False Allegations & Two Years of Investigation09:10 – Diddy Allegations, Viral Audio & the Line Between Fact and Fiction12:40 – Paparazzi Ethics: When Does Filming Cross the Line?15:05 – Women’s Basketball Gets Brutal: Sophie Cunningham’s Defense of Caitlin Clark17:50 – Hair-Pulling, Street Brawls & Martial Arts Flashbacks20:15 – Jay Glazer Gym Drama & Getting Beat Up by a Pro Athlete25:00 – Testosterone, Bench Press Goals & Hormone Replacement Risks28:40 – Why He Left AA for SLAA: A Different Recovery Journey32:30 – Addiction Isn’t Always Alcohol: Escaping Through Anything35:45 – Authenticity, Podcast Overshares & Concerned Friends38:00 – The Grindr Story That Went Viral—for the Right Reasons41:10 – Should Celebrities Be Allowed to Fight Back?44:00 – Stalkers, Parasocial Fans & Healthy Boundaries47:10 – Bethenny Frankel, Meghan Markle & Hate for Fun50:00 – Propaganda & the Prince Harry Syndrome52:20 – Tom Cruise’s Legendary Coconut Cake & Hanging Off the Burj Khalifa55:00 – Tropic Thunder, RDJ’s Blackface & Comedy That Lasts58:10 – Behind the Scenes: Tom Cruise vs. Guy Ritchie in a Pull-Up Contest1:01:00 – Mark Wahlberg’s Golf Gear Empire & Real Passion Projects1:04:00 – Billy Bush’s Cancellation: Laughing at the Wrong Time1:06:10 – Matt Lauer’s Disappearance & Media Redemption Arcs1:08:00 – Why the 1950s Rule ‘Talk Shit, Get Hit’ Might Still Work1:11:00 – Katy Perry’s Stalker, Bieber’s Breakdown & the Tabloid Machine1:13:00 – Squatting, Shoplifting & Exploiting Legal Loopholes1:15:00 – Celebrity Hate Obsession as a Mental Health Issue1:17:00 – Final Reflections: Mistakes, Recovery & Moving Forward

    1h 17m
  2. Danny Goler: DMT, Divine Code & the Hidden Physics of Consciousness

    JUN 30

    Danny Goler: DMT, Divine Code & the Hidden Physics of Consciousness

    In this episode of the Painful Lessons Podcast, Danny Goler, psychonaut and founder of Code of Reality Inc., reveals his shocking discovery: a self-executing, animated code that becomes visible when DMT is combined with fractal laser projection. With thousands of verified replications, Danny's work challenges everything we think we know about reality, consciousness, and divinity. Topics include: How DMT users see the same geometric code Consciousness as the foundation of physical reality Jesus, suffering, and divine incarnation The "substrate" of existence and matrix-like implications Why science and spirituality are merging 📽️ Trailer for Danny’s documentary The Discovery at: Dango Thoughts on YouTube 🌐 Learn more at: codeofreality.com Intro – Meet Danny Goler & the discovery that started it all The Experiment – What happens when DMT meets laser projection Group Hallucination? – How 2,000+ people saw the same code What Is Cognitive Physics? – A new approach to the hard problem Matrix or Metaphor? – The code as substrate of reality Jesus, God & the Big Picture – A layered cosmology beyond Gaia Are We Prophets? – Messages from another realm Personal Faith & Raw Dogging Reality – Reconciling sobriety and psychedelics The Feminine Creator & Cosmic Hierarchy – What Danny saw How to Learn More – Danny’s film, nonprofit, and next steps Danny Goler, DMT experiment, psychedelic podcast, fractal laser code, Code of Reality, Painful Lessons Podcast, spiritual science, ayahuasca, God molecule, consciousness theory, multidimensional experience, Jesus and psychedelics, matrix reality theory, Terrence McKenna, mystical experiences, high dose LSD, spiritual awakening

    1h 3m

  3. JUN 23

    Noah Weiland on Recovery, Rock Royalty, and Reclaiming His Voice

    Musician Noah Weiland—son of late Stone Temple Pilots and Velvet Revolver frontman Scott Weiland—joins the Painful Lessons Podcast for an unfiltered, emotional conversation. Noah opens up about growing up in the shadow of rock stardom, losing his father at 15, addiction battles, being kicked out of Suspect208, discovering his unique voice, and becoming a new dad. He also shares how faith and music helped him find direction, and discusses his upcoming album Call Jesus. 🎤 Topics: Fentanyl addiction and relapse Mental health and 2E (twice exceptional) The legacy of Scott Weiland Finding identity in music and faith Fatherhood and redemption 🔔 Follow Painful Lessons Podcast for more raw conversations. Noah Weiland, Scott Weiland, Painful Lessons Podcast, addiction recovery, rock music legacy, Suspect208, Call Jesus album, sober living, mental health, 2E diagnosis, music and trauma, second generation musician, fatherhood and addiction, fentanyl recovery, autism and musicians, faith and sobriety. 00:00 – Welcome Noah Weiland 01:00 – Life as Scott Weiland’s son 03:45 – Noah's early music career 07:15 – Stage diving and performance stories 10:10 – Dealing with grief and trauma 13:30 – Fentanyl addiction & relapse 17:40 – Getting kicked out of Suspect208 22:10 – Mental health & feeling different 26:30 – Fatherhood and naming his son Anakin 30:45 – Faith, Kanye West & artistic inspiration 35:10 – Don’t meet your heroes: wild celebrity stories 41:00 – Sober living, relapse, and recovery honesty 47:30 – A wild drug dealer story 50:10 – Announcing his new album: *Call Jesus* 53:20 – Finding God, finding purpose 56:00 – Closing thoughts on forgiveness and growth

    1h 14m

  4. JUN 16

    Claire Hoffman on Cults, Faith & the Scandal That Shaped American Religion

    Journalist and author Claire Hoffman joins Painful Lessons to explore faith, scandal, and survival. From growing up in the Transcendental Meditation movement to writing Sister Sinner, Claire shares the incredible true story of Amy Semple McPherson, the most famous woman in 1920s America—who vanished into the ocean and reappeared in the desert 35 days later. She and host Tyler Ramsey also dive into spirituality, modern cult dynamics, Claire’s investigation into abuse in media empires, and her deeply personal moments around death, doubt, and redemption. 🔸 Topics covered: Surviving a spiritual movement Writing Sister Sinner The disappearance of Amy Semple McPherson Religion and media in Los Angeles Trauma, belief, and transformation Final moments with Claire's father Dangers of binary morality #ClaireHoffman #GirlsGoneWild #JoeFrancis #SisterSinner #AmySempleMcPherson #PainfulLessonsPodcast #ReligiousScandals #TMmovement #CultSurvivor #JournalismMatters #UntoldHistory #AuthorInterview

    1 hr
  5. Nicole Aimee Schreiber on Love, Loss, and Lessons Learned

    JUN 11

    Nicole Aimee Schreiber on Love, Loss, and Lessons Learned

    Comedian Nicole Aimee Schreiber joins host Tyler Ramsey to talk about the raw side of love, stand-up comedy, and life’s most painful lessons. From her emotional breakup with a guy who stayed close with his ex “because of the dog,” to being the comedic outsider who rose through LA’s toughest rooms, Nicole brings unfiltered humor and wisdom. They discuss addiction, recovery, toxic relationships, and finding your voice in comedy—even when life feels like a slow-motion train wreck. Plus, Nicole shares behind-the-scenes stories about working on Kevin Hart’s animated series, surviving the chaos of roommates, and why she’s no longer into gory Reddit videos. 👉 If you’ve ever laughed through the pain, this one’s for you. #NicoleAimeeSchreiber #PainfulLessons #ComedianInterview #BreakupRecovery #FemaleComedians #ComedyStoreLA #AddictionRecovery #ToxicLove #StandupComedy #FunnyAndReal [00:00] BBQ & Cannibal Jokes [00:45] Owning Your Mistakes with Humor [02:00] Nicole’s Comedy Origins [03:40] Getting Her Name on the Wall at the Comedy Store [05:00] Why She’s Not Chasing Fame Like Nikki or Whitney [07:30] Naturally Funny People vs. Stand-Ups [09:00] Voice Acting on Kevin Hart’s ‘Lil Kev’ [10:45] Mountain Dew, Crackers & White People Jokes [13:30] Roommate Life with Catherine Blanford [14:50] The Breakup: Love, Lies & the Dog [17:10] Emotional Cheating and the Notebook [20:00] Red Flags, Self-Gaslighting & The Ex [22:45] Lessons from Snooping and Making Amends [25:00] Addiction, Al-Anon, and Boundaries [27:00] Toxic Podcast Stories & Shenanigans [30:00] Armie Hammer & Podcast Drama [34:00] Delusion, Accountability & Addiction Recovery [38:00] Justice Porn & Dash Cam Obsessions [42:00] Reddit Rabbit Holes & Real Death Footage [45:00] Experiencing Grief & Watching People Die [47:00] Nicole’s Favorite Comics Right Now [50:00] Skincare, Botox Mistakes & Aging Naturally [54:00] Sunscreen, Scars & Vanity Culture [56:00] Comedy Cliques and Room for Everyone [58:00] Ethiopian Food, Jewish Jokes, and Open Mics [01:01:00] Kanye, Voting, and Unfiltered Opinions [01:03:00] Ending on a Banger: Justice, Comedy, and Closure

    1h 3m
  6. Oliver Trevena: Surviving Trauma, Building Brands, and Staying Sober in Hollywood

    JUN 2

    Oliver Trevena: Surviving Trauma, Building Brands, and Staying Sober in Hollywood

    Oliver Trevena joins the Painful Lessons Podcast to share how he turned near-death trauma into triumph. The actor, producer, and Caliwater co-founder opens up about being beaten into a coma, rebuilding his face, and reclaiming his life through sobriety and entrepreneurship. From working with Vanessa Hudgens and Gerard Butler to launching wellness brands and indie films, Oliver’s journey is one of resilience, humility, and relentless hustle. This candid episode covers: Rebuilding after brutal physical trauma Gerard Butler’s hilarious role in a tooth-related dating disaster The voice that tells creatives they're never enough How sobriety transformed his success and peace Starting Caliwater with Vanessa Hudgens & top investors Parenting, forgiveness, and emotional maturity A raw and inspiring conversation for anyone walking the line between ambition and authenticity. Intro & Oliver’s Outlook on Humor and Pain The Gerard Butler “tooth” story Beaten into a coma at 22 — and what came after Winning Best Breakout Actor at 43 The hustle of an actor/producer Mental patterns & battling the “not enough” voice Learning to pause and live in the now Sobriety, shame, and reclaiming joy Parenting, forgiveness, and self-compassion From ballet shoes to boardrooms Launching Caliwater with Vanessa Hudgens Brand integrity: product before celebrity New ventures: hot sauce, ice cream, and red light therapy Relationship building over networking Final reflections: living from the inside out

    51 min
  7. Steve Zacharias: Revenge of the Nerds, Hollywood Stories & the Redemption of His Son

    MAY 26

    Steve Zacharias: Revenge of the Nerds, Hollywood Stories & the Redemption of His Son

    Legendary comedy writer Steve Zacharias, best known for Revenge of the Nerds, joins Tyler Ramsey to share his rollercoaster ride through Hollywood, fatherhood, and recovery. In this candid conversation, Steve reveals: How Revenge of the Nerds was born from real college life Writing All in the Family at just 23 and meeting Norman Lear The unfiltered truth about the industry’s ups and downs His son's intense battle with addiction—and how Robert Downey Jr. helped save his life His wild new project, Revenge of the Nudes His brutally honest memoir: The Poster Boy for Erectile Dysfunction It’s hilarious, heartfelt, and brutally human. A must-listen for fans of storytelling, screenwriting, and redemption arcs. Steve Zacharias, Revenge of the Nerds, Comedy Writer, Hollywood Stories, Screenwriting Journey, Addiction Recovery, Robert Downey Jr, Celebrity Redemption, 80s Comedy, Substance Abuse Recovery, Writing Process, Family and Fame, Nerd Culture, Creative Careers, Tyler Ramsey, Painful Lessons Podcast 00:00 – Intro & Steve’s Comedy Legacy 03:00 – Writing Revenge of the Nerds 07:30 – Frat House Origins at University of Wisconsin 10:30 – Nerds, Sex, and Social Shifts 16:30 – Early TV Career & Meeting Norman Lear 27:00 – The Lonely Life of a Writer 43:30 – The Cost of Rejection in Hollywood 76:30 – The Rise of Revenge of the Nudes 84:00 – Creative Freedom Then vs. Now 90:00 – The Dove Bar Fortune & Family Backstory 130:30 – Watching His Son Spiral 190:30 – A Call to Robert Downey Jr. 198:00 – How RDJ Saved His Son’s Life 231:00 – Coming Full Circle: Finishing the Opus 235:30 – The Poster Boy for Erectile Dysfunction 247:30 – Disney, Legacy Projects & the Future

    54 min

  8. MAY 19

    Jeremy Jackson on Baywatch, Meth Addiction, Stabbing a Gang Member, and the $20K Shot That Changed Everything

    In this raw and revealing episode, Baywatch icon Jeremy Jackson opens up about the highs and hellish lows of fame, addiction, and ultimate transformation. Jeremy shares shocking stories from the peak of his Hollywood career—walking off the set of the most-watched TV show in the world, battling meth addiction, nearly dying, stabbing a gang member in self-defense, and finally… discovering the spiritual path that saved his life. We also get into: The truth behind his Baywatch departure Why he lost major roles to Leonardo DiCaprio and Jason Momoa His recovery journey and the Balanced Man Retreat in Costa Rica A wild $20,000 gene therapy shot that supercharged his body And the faith-based mindset that fuels his mission today If you're fascinated by redemption arcs, Hollywood secrets, or want to feel inspired to turn your own life around—this episode delivers. Follow Jeremy Jackson - https://www.instagram.com/jeremyjackson?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== 🎙️ Hosted by Tyler Ramsey, this is the Painful Lessons Podcast, where we own our mistakes and learn from the wreckage. Jeremy Jackson, Baywatch, addiction, recovery, celebrity redemption, gene therapy, biohacking, spiritual growth, breathwork, healing, David Hasselhoff, personal transformation, Hollywood podcast, inspirational interviews, painful lessons, mental health, sobriety stories, men’s retreat

    1h 7m
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    2024 - 2025
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