Awakening Women Podcast

Leanne Oaten
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Discussing all topics related to holistic health, alternative health, spirituality, psychology, marriage, and personal development.

  1. 2h ago

    Friday Quickie: Love Isn't a Life Plan

    We are conditioned to believe that we are supposed to put our partner's needs ahead of our own and to be 'the selfless one', the one who's always thinking of others first. This is conditioned into us as little girls. We're brainwashed into not being selfish when we're considering our own desires and needs; we're taught early on that it's selfish to think of others first, and so we bring this into our adult romantic relationships, even when it is detrimental. Read the full Substack:  Love is Not a Life Plan

  2. 2h ago ·  Bonus

    You Might Also Like: The Oprah Podcast

    Introducing Inner Excellence: Train Your Mind for the Best Possible Life with Oprah and Jim Murphy from The Oprah Podcast. Follow the show: The Oprah Podcast BUY THE BOOK! Inner Excellence by Jim Murphy https://amzn.to/4rhK0ul Performance coach and bestselling author Jim Murphy’s book Inner Excellence took the world by storm and rocketed to #1 after NFL wide receiver A.J. Brown was spotted reading it during a playoff game. Seemingly overnight the book became a New York Times bestseller, resonating far beyond the world of sports. Drawing from the powerful lessons in Inner Excellence Jim shares the mental tools you can cultivate to help manage your mind, unlock your potential and expand what's possible in your life. He also discusses his transformative new book, The Best Possible Life, revealing how you can cultivate greater peace, purpose and fulfillment. 00:00:00 - Welcome Jim Murphy, author of Inner Excellence 00:04:40 - Jim’s path to inner excellence 00:07:40 - The pursuit of joy  00:11:40 - How to manage our minds  00:13:20 - 5 questions to clear a mental block 00:15:30 - 2 paths in life  00:18:40 - Post sports identity 00:21:30 - The definition of Zoe  00:24:10 - Jim’s advice to those on the journey  00:27:00 - How to figure out what matters  00:30:30 - How to detach from the outcome of your goals  00:35:50 - Power of intention  00:39:55 - We are all human  00:41:20 - Keeping our ego in check  00:47:55 - The pursuit of success   Follow Oprah Winfrey on Social: https://www.instagram.com/oprahpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/oprahwinfrey/ Listen to the full podcast:  https://open.spotify.com/show/0tEVrfNp92a7lbjDe6GMLI https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-oprah-podcast/id1782960381 DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to team@podroll.fm.

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  3. 1d ago

    Holding On To YOU in Relationships - How to Have Your Own Back

    What do you do when the life you've worked so hard to build is successful, but doesn't actually feel like yours? Welcome to a new season of Awakening Women and a deeper evolution of the work. For years, we've talked about relationships, narcissistic abuse, emotional addiction, boundaries, breaking patterns, leaving, staying and learning to recognize what is really happening beneath the surface of our relationships. But I've come to see that the relationship with a man is often the mirror, not the whole story. Because you can be successful, educated, capable and completely independent in the world and still be outsourcing your authority in your most intimate relationships and in the decisions that shape your life. You can run a business and still question whether you're allowed to want more. You can make your own money and still give someone else a say over what you feel entitled to do with it. You can be the woman everyone relies on and still struggle to ask yourself the most important question: "What do I actually want?" And sometimes the hardest part isn't knowing the answer. It's being willing to live according to it. In this episode, I introduce the Modern Autonomous Woman. Not a woman who doesn't need anyone. Not a woman who has to do everything herself. Not a woman who has become so independent that she no longer allows herself to receive, love or be supported. The autonomous woman is a woman who can remain connected to herself while being connected to others. She doesn't hand over her authority in exchange for love, approval, belonging or security. And she understands that autonomy isn't something you either have or don't have. It's a practice. In this episode, we explore: Why being highly capable doesn't necessarily mean you're autonomous The difference between external success and internal autonomy How women learn to adapt, perform and anticipate everyone else's needs Why the question "What do I actually want?" can be so confronting How your relationship with a man can mirror your relationship with yourself Why the man cannot remain the centre of the story What it means to become self-sourced rather than approval-sourced Why midlife can become a powerful reckoning with the life you've built Why financial autonomy is about much more than having your own bank account Why this work goes far beyond relationships What it means to stop waiting for permission to become the fullest expression of yourself A question to sit with As you move through your day, your relationship, your work and your life, ask yourself: Where am I still waiting for permission? Permission to want more. Permission to change. Permission to disappoint someone. Permission to take up space. Permission to make money. Permission to leave. Permission to stay. Permission to become someone your old life may no longer recognize. And then ask yourself: What would I choose if I trusted myself enough to stop asking for permission? That is where autonomy begins. This season is about coming back to yourself. We're going into the shadow and the light. We're talking about relationships, but also money, business, sexuality, the body, motherhood, divorce, energy, ambition, identity, midlife and the future you're building for yourself. Because I don't want you to simply leave a toxic relationship. I want you to understand the deeper pattern of self-abandonment so you don't recreate it somewhere else. I don't want you to simply become more independent. I want you to become self-sourced. And ultimately, I want you to become a woman who knows: I belong to me.   Work with me If this episode is speaking to something you're currently navigating, explore the ways you can work with me through the links in the show notes. And if this new direction of Awakening Women resonates with you, follow the podcast so you don't miss what comes next. If this episode touched something you've been silencing, take a moment to leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your review helps more women find this conversation. The next chapter isn't about becoming a better woman. It's about becoming your own woman.

  4. 2d ago

    START HERE: The Modern Autonomous Woman

    Awakening Women: A New Chapter The woman you're evolving into doesn't need permission to be MORE of you; she needs you to stop abandoning who you truly are. Welcome to the new era of Awakening Women. This is a podcast for the successful, independent woman who is ready to stop living from only one dimension of herself. Because life is never just one thing. There is grief and joy. There are endings and beginnings. There is softness and power. There are seasons of expansion and seasons of rest. There are moments to speak and moments to listen. Times to push forward and times to pause, reflect and regroup. We don't have to choose between the dark and the light, we can learn to hold it all. This next chapter of Awakening Women is about the Modern Autonomous Woman: a woman who knows how to stay connected to herself while being deeply connected to life, love, herself and other people. We're going beyond relationships to explore the woman at the centre of it all: Relationships. Money. Business. Success. Sexuality. The body. Motherhood. Divorce. Energy. Ambition. Identity. Midlife. Grief. Pleasure. Power. And the future. Autonomy isn't about needing no one, or banishing all men; it's about no longer abandoning yourself because you need someone. It's knowing when to say yes and when to say no. When to speak and when silence is more powerful. When to act and when to wait. When to begin again and when to stop trying to change what is asking to be integrated. When to allow yourself to grieve and when to strengthen your mind and choose to keep moving forward. This is not about becoming harder. It's about becoming whole. It's about developing the discernment to know what this moment is asking of you—and the self-trust to listen. THIS IS YOUR INVITATION If you've spent years becoming successful, capable, independent, strong and everything everyone else needed you to be... This is the space to ask: What do I actually want now? What is mine? What have I outgrown? Where am I still waiting for permission? And perhaps the deepest question: What would my life look like if I stopped abandoning myself to be loved, accepted, successful or understood? Welcome to the next chapter. Welcome to Awakening Women. You don't need permission to become the woman you were born to be. You are the woman who owns herself. STAY CONNECTED   ✦ THE AWAKENING WEEKLY LETTER A weekly dispatch for the woman who is learning to own herself. Expect a deeper thought, a perspective shift, a question to sit with, and something you can actually take into your life that week. [JOIN THE AWAKENING WEEKLY LETTER]   ✦ WORK WITH ME PRIVATELY If you're ready to take this work out of the podcast and into your actual life, you can apply for private coaching. This is for the woman who knows she's ready for something to change—and wants support navigating the relationships, decisions, identity shifts and next chapter that come with becoming more fully her own woman. [APPLY FOR PRIVATE COACHING] ✦ FOLLOW AWAKENING WOMEN Come behind the scenes, join the conversation, and stay connected between episodes. Instagram: instagram.com/awakeningwomenofficial/ YouTube: youtube.com/@awakeningwomenofficial   THE AWAKENING WOMEN COMMUNITY The podcast is the conversation. The letter is the weekly reminder. The Autonomous Woman private mentorship or Signature Program vault is where we take it much deeper.

  5. 3d ago

    [NEW SEASON] How Independent Women Lose Themselves in Relationships (And How to Become an Autonomous Woman)

    Welcome to a new era of Awakening Women. For years, we've talked about narcissistic relationships, emotional addiction, boundaries, breaking the cycle, leaving, staying, and learning to recognize what is happening inside unhealthy relationships. And we're not leaving that work behind. We're going deeper. Because eventually, the question stops being "What is wrong with him?" and becomes: "Where have I abandoned myself?" Your relationship with a man can be one of the most powerful mirrors of your relationship with yourself. It can reveal where you've stopped trusting your own knowing, where you've made someone else's needs more important than your own, and where you're still waiting for permission to be fully expressed. This season is about what happens when you stop waiting. When you stop outsourcing your authority. When you stop shrinking yourself to be accepted or to keep the peace. And when you begin building a relationship with yourself that no one else gets to control. Welcome to the Modern Autonomous Woman. Autonomy isn't about not needing anyone, becoming harder, colder or completely independent. It is about self-possession. Self-bonding. And having your own back. It is knowing what you think, what you want, what you value and what you will no longer betray yourself to have. This season, we're going beyond relationships and exploring the six dimensions of autonomy: mental, emotional, energetic, physical, spiritual and financial, and what it actually means to own yourself across your whole life. We'll go into the shadow as well as the light: anger, desire, ambition, money, sexuality, self-trust, discernment, relationships, identity and the parts of ourselves we've learned to suppress in order to belong. Becoming an autonomous woman isn't always pretty, sometimes it means disappointing people. Changing your mind. Getting angry. Wanting more. Leaving. Staying. Starting over. Or finally admitting that the life you've built no longer belongs to you. This is about becoming your own woman. And this is where we begin. In this episode, we explore: Why the relationship with a man is often a mirror of the relationship with yourself Why getting out of a toxic relationship isn't the end of the work What it really means to be an autonomous woman The difference between independence and autonomy How women learn to outsource their authority Why self-betrayal, not simply "bad relationships" is at the heart of this work The role of the shadow, anger, desire and ambition in becoming whole Why this new season goes far beyond relationships What the six dimensions of autonomy are and why they matter What it means to stop waiting for permission to become the fullest expression of yourself Your invitation As you listen, notice where you're still waiting for permission. Permission to want more. Permission to change. Permission to disappoint someone. Permission to take up space. Permission to make money. Permission to leave. Permission to stay. Permission to become someone your old life may not recognize. And then ask yourself: What would change if I stopped waiting? This is the beginning of a different kind of awakening. One where you don't become someone else. You come back to yourself. You belong to you.   Ready to go deeper? If you're recognizing yourself in this episode and you know there's a deeper pattern underneath what is happening in your relationship, this is the work I do with women. Explore ways to work with me below and find the level of support that feels right for where you are right now. And if this episode spoke to something you've been silencing, take a moment to leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. It helps more women find this conversation. Follow Awakening Women so you don't miss the next episode. And remember: You don't need permission to become the woman you were supposed to be. Get my free Relationship Pattern Discernment test to define the root issue of your ongoing relationship conflicts, and how to know if this relationship is capable of expanding with the woman you are becoming - or if it's time to work on your autonomous foundation to step into your next chapter solo

  6. Aug 13

    Emotional Quicksand: Why You Keep Talking When He Can't Hear You

    You know the conversation isn't going anywhere within the first ten minutes — and you keep having it anyway. Or, you may have found yourself not speaking up and going further into denial. This episode looks at what actually happens when you stop talking because he can't hear you: you don't just lose the conversation, you lose yourself in it. We break down why long, winding, unresolved conversations feel so hard to walk away from, the addictive pull underneath them, and what to do instead.    What You'll Learn Why you keep having the same unresolved conversation over and over, even when you know how it ends The addictive component of long, winding conversations — what you're actually chasing when you keep talking What "losing yourself" in a conversation looks like in real time, and how to catch it before it happens What to do instead of the long, winding conversation that goes nowhere How to recognize emotional quicksand before you're in it Key Ideas Covered The moment you lose yourself — talking stops being communication and becomes a bid for a response that isn't coming. That's the moment self-abandonment starts. The addictive pull— why the conversation feels compulsive, not optional. The near-miss of almost being heard keeps you coming back for one more round. Emotional quicksand — the more you explain, defend, and re-explain, the deeper you sink. Struggling harder doesn't get you out; it's what keeps you in. Unhealthy vs. healthy man — what actually changes when the man across from you is capable of hearing you: how he responds to being told something hard, whether the conversation resolves or repeats, and whether you leave the conversation more grounded or less. What to do instead — the alternative to over-explaining and re-litigating: naming the pattern, stating what you need once, and letting his response (or lack of one) be the information. Who This Episode Is For Women who find themselves having the same conversation on repeat, women who leave conversations with their partner feeling more depleted than resolved, and anyone trying to tell the difference between a man who's struggling to communicate and a man who simply isn't going to. Resources & Links Join The Whole Woman Private Coaching Waitlist  Connect Awakening Women | @awakeningwomenofficial

  7. Aug 6

    The Awakened Woman and The Unaccountable Man Dance: Why Knowing the Pattern Isn't Enough to Break It

    You've done the therapy. Read the books. Taken the courses. You can name the dynamic, diagnose the pattern, and explain exactly what's wrong — probably better than most professionals could. So why hasn't any of it changed your relationship? In this episode, we're getting honest about the gap between insight and action — the place where so many high-achieving women get stuck. Not because they lack awareness, but because awareness was never the thing that was going to save them. We're unpacking the "Rising Him" trap — why the same competence that built your career and your healing is the exact thing keeping you stuck in a relationship that isn't changing. We're talking about what's really underneath staying when you know better: not a lack of clarity, but a ceiling on what you believe you're allowed to have. And we're naming the part almost nobody says out loud — that some of you aren't addicted to him. You're addicted to the chaos. This one's for the woman doing everything right, holding it all together, and still watching nothing actually change — in herself or in her relationship. In This Episode: Why intellectual awareness of a relationship pattern doesn't equal freedom from it The "Raising Him" trap — how high-achieving women unconsciously turn their partner into the next project to complete The difference between knowing a pattern in your head vs. knowing it in your body Why the real question isn't "why do I understand this and still stay" but "what do I actually believe I'm allowed to have" The physiological addiction to chaos, adrenaline, and intensity — and why it has nothing to do with weakness or low self-worth How intermittent reinforcement keeps the cycle running, and why leaving can feel like withdrawal instead of relief What it actually takes to break the pattern — and why it's not more insight Quote to Sit With: "The pattern doesn't break at awareness. It breaks when you can tolerate what real peace feels like in your body long enough to stop mistaking calm for absence." Who This Episode Is For: The woman who's done the inner work, can recite her own patterns fluently, and still finds herself in the same relational dynamic — high-achieving, self-aware, exhausted from trying to rise someone else to her level while quietly wondering why none of it is landing as actual change. Follow @awakeningwomenoffical on Social Media Get the video binge list to help you break the emotional grip of unhealthy love: REGISTER HERE

    The Awakened Woman and The Unaccountable Man Dance: Why Knowing the Pattern Isn't Enough to Break It

  8. Jul 28

    Past Baggage, Kids, and Divorce: The Honest Conversation Before You Commit Again

    Episode Summary Love after divorce doesn't work the way it did the first time — and no one tells you that. This episode breaks down why midlife love isn't a fairytale, it's a negotiation. Why your partner isn't going to transform into someone new, he's going to become a more honest version of who he already is. And why real intimacy at this stage isn't about butterflies it's about honest and full disclosure. If you're navigating dating, partnership, or remarriage after divorce, this episode gives you the language for what you're actually building, and the questions you need to be asking before you commit again. What You'll Learn Why "falling in love" is a young-love concept — and what chooses its place in midlife The difference between accepting someone's baggage and accepting abuse (a critical line to draw) What actually needs to be on the table before you commit to someone again — the full disclosure conversation Why expecting a midlife partner to transform is a direct path to resentment The four things couples avoid naming until it's too late: kids, exes, co-parenting, finances How to grieve the young-love fantasy so you can access real, adult partnership Key Quotes "Love after divorce isn't falling. It's choosing." "You're not building a fairytale. You're negotiating a merger." "He's not going to become a different man. He's going to become a more honest version of the one standing in front of you." "Midlife love isn't blind. It's the first time you actually get to see clearly." "You don't get a blank slate at 45. You get a full ledger — and you sign it with your eyes open." "Young love says 'I hope you change.' Mature love says 'show me exactly who you are, baggage and all, and I'll decide.'" "The delusion isn't loving someone with a past. It's expecting the past not to show up." "Real intimacy at midlife isn't chemistry. It's disclosure." In This Episode The blank slate myth — why we keep expecting a fresh start at 45+, and why that expectation sets every midlife relationship up to fail Baggage vs. abuse — how to tell the difference between a partner with a past and a partner who is a risk, and why conflating the two keeps women stuck in the wrong direction on both ends The full disclosure conversation — what should actually be said out loud before you commit: expectations, non-negotiables, financial reality, co-parenting boundaries, what you want and don't want The grief nobody names — letting go of the young-love fantasy is its own loss, and skipping that grief is why so many people repeat the same pattern in a new relationship Choosing over falling — what it looks like to build a relationship on eyes-open acceptance instead of chemistry and hope Who This Episode Is For Women navigating dating or partnership after divorce, women in a serious relationship post-divorce trying to figure out if it's real, and anyone who has caught themselves waiting for a partner to become someone they're not. Resources & Links Get on the 1:1 Whole Woman Coaching waitlist Connect Awakening Women | @awakeningwomenofficial

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  • Creator
    Leanne Oaten
  • Years Active
    2016 - 2026
  • Episodes
    603
  • Rating
    Explicit
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