Addiction Unlimited Podcast

Angela Pugh
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Are you ready to ditch daily drinking, reclaim your confidence, and create a life of freedom? Each week, Angela combines no-nonsense advice, personal stories, and science-backed strategies to tackle the challenges of sobriety. Angela Pugh is a globally-ranked Life Coach and podcast host, a professional Interventionist, and entrepreneur with more than 18 years of personal sobriety, helping people rebuild their lives since 2008. From navigating relationships to managing triggers, you’ll discover practical tools, empowering insights, and real-world solutions to thrive in sobriety. It’s time to stop feeling stuck and start feeling unlimited. Listen now for the inspiration, tools, and support you need to live a sober, confident, and happy life.

  1. 6D AGO

    Why Everything Feels So Intense When You Quit Drinking

    Early sobriety can feel like your emotions are turned up to 100 — and if you don’t understand what’s happening in your nervous system, it can feel overwhelming fast. One of the biggest mistakes people make in recovery is assuming every uncomfortable feeling is the same thing. We call it anxiety, we try to breathe through it, journal through it, or just push through it… and when that doesn’t work, we feel like we’re failing. But the truth is, not all emotional activation is the same — and different states require different tools. In this episode, I’m breaking down four common types of emotional dysregulation that show up in sobriety and the practical tools that actually help regulate each one. Because staying sober isn’t just about willpower. It’s about learning how to regulate your nervous system without alcohol. You’ll hear about: Why early sobriety emotions can feel so intense • The difference between rumination, attachment activation, shame spirals, and under-stimulation • Why trying to “think your way out” of dysregulation rarely works • The reason alcohol felt like it solved everything — and what to replace it with • Practical tools you can use when your nervous system is activated If you’ve ever felt like your brain is spinning, your emotions are overwhelming, or you’re reacting to things in ways you don’t fully understand — this episode will help you make sense of what’s happening and give you tools that actually work. Because the goal of recovery isn’t just quitting drinking. It’s learning how to live in your own nervous system without needing alcohol to regulate it.   Links Mentioned in This Episode Ready to get support and build a clear recovery plan? Book a call with Angela: https://addictionunlimited.com/call Want a structured path to long-term sobriety? Learn more about the Recovery Accelerator Group: https://addictionunlimited.com/accelerator Listen to this related episode: 6 Sobriety Traps That Trigger Relapse in Early Recovery https://addictionunlimited.com/6-sobriety-traps-that-trigger-relapse-in-early-recovery/ Join our free sober community: Addiction Unlimited Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/addictionunlimited Follow along for daily recovery insights: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/addictionunlimited/

    26 min

  2. FEB 25

    What Living in Recovery Actually Looks Like

    You know recovery is supposed to be more than just not drinking, but the day still feels like you’re mostly just getting through it. You might just be missing the foundation that makes recovery actually feel like something. Here’s what I know to be true: sobriety removes the alcohol. Recovery heals the patterns underneath it. And those are two very different things. But understanding the difference is one thing — living it on an ordinary Tuesday is another. In this episode, I’m walking you through a full recovery-focused day — hour by hour — and showing you exactly what living in recovery looks like in practice. We’re grounding it all in the three things addiction needs to thrive, and what you can do every single day to take them away from it. Not a perfect day. An intentional one. If you’ve ever wondered what recovery is actually supposed to look like — or you’ve been sober for a while and still feel like something’s missing — this one’s for you, my friend.   IN THIS EPISODE: The real difference between sobriety and recovery — and why it changes everything about how you approach your day The three things addiction needs to survive — and how recovery dismantles all three of them Why emotional isolation is just as dangerous as physical isolation — even if your calendar is full Why 99% of recovery — especially early on — is nervous system regulation, and what that actually looks like in your morning The eye contact story — and how breaking anxiety down into tiny pieces changed everything for me What active participation really means — and how to tell the difference between showing up and actually doing the work Why avoidance and procrastination aren’t laziness — they’re emotion regulation, and what to do about it instead How to close your day with honesty and intention — without the shame spiral This is the episode I wish I’d had when I first got sober. Hit play, my friend — let’s walk through the day together.   RESOURCES & LINKS MENTIONED: Episode 420 — Why You’re Sober But Still Have the Same Problems Episode 421 — Overwhelmed by Sobriety Advice? Here’s How to Actually Start Episode 418 — Presence Is Not Participation Recovery Accelerator — 4-Week Group Coaching Program: addictionunlimited.com/accelerator Book a Call with Angela: addictionunlimited.com/call   CONNECT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/addictionunlimited/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/addictionunlimited

    30 min

  3. FEB 18

    What Am I Doing Wrong?" (6 Non-Negotiables for Real Change)

    If you keep asking yourself “What am I doing wrong?” — this episode is for you. Most people relapse dozens of times before they actually get it right. And if that’s you, I know how exhausting that cycle is. But here’s the truth: There’s nothing wrong with you. It’s not that you don’t want it badly enough. It’s that the answer you need isn’t about actions and distractions. It’s about the mindset shifts that create real, lasting change. Today, I’m giving you the 6 non-negotiables that separate people who actually change from people who keep starting over. This isn’t a checklist. This isn’t about doing more things. This is about shifting how you think, how you show up, and who you become. These 6 principles apply to recovery — but they also apply to life. Career. Relationships. Health. Any major transformation. This is your personal code of conduct for real change. In this episode, you’ll learn: – 2:43: Why discomfort doesn’t mean bad — it just means you’re working a new muscle – 5:07: The real sacrifices recovery requires (and the ones you conveniently forget you already made) – 7:11: How to stop controlling what other people think and start prioritizing what you know – 9:17: Why brutal honesty is the only way forward — and how ego keeps you stuck – 10:53: What willingness actually looks like (hint: your feelings can’t run the show) – 13:15: Why you have to grow the f**k up — whether you feel like it or not – 14:00: The bear analogy that will change how you think about your alcoholism Listen in and decide: Are you ready to stop doing busy work and start doing the real work? Because that’s where actual change happens.   LINKS MENTIONED: – Recovery Starter Kit – Book a Free Consultation Call: addictionunlimited.com/call – Related Episode: Why You’re Sober But Still Have the Same Problems – Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/addictionunlimited

    20 min

  4. FEB 11

    The 4-Stage Recovery Roadmap and What to Work on at Each Stage

    The 4-Stage Recovery Roadmap and What to Work on at Each Stage If you’re feeling stuck or confused about where you are in your sobriety and what you should actually be working on, this episode is for you. I see it all the time: people trying to fix everything at once, or trying to skip ahead to the deep emotional work when they haven’t even built a stable foundation yet. And then they relapse. Or they burn out. Or they just stay stuck in the same patterns. Today, I’m breaking down the four stages of recovery—what you should be focusing on at each stage, and why you can’t skip ahead. Here’s the thing: the timelines I’m giving you are general guidelines. They’re not rules. For me, I spent way more time in Stage 2. I needed that time. But Stage 3 went faster for me because I loved that part of my process —it was hands down my favorite part of the steps. So don’t get hung up on the timeline. What matters is that you’re doing the work required in each stage before you move on to the next one. You get out of this exactly what you put into it. In this episode, you’ll learn: –>  3:17: What Stage 1 actually looks like—and why the only goal is “don’t drink today” –>  6:03: How to navigate Stage 2 when you’re asking “Who am I without alcohol?” –>  11:05: Why Stage 3 is about rebuilding what matters and letting go of what doesn’t –>  14:11: What it means to shift from surviving to thriving in Stage 4 –>  16:50: Why you absolutely cannot skip stages—and what happens when you try Listen in and figure out where you are right now. Then focus on the work that actually matters at this stage—so you can build a life so powerful, so clear, so good that you’ll never want to leave it.   LINKS MENTIONED: Recovery Starter Kit Book a Free Consultation Call: addictionunlimited.com/call Episode 421 – Overwhelmed by Sobriety Advice, Here’s How to Actually Start Cozy Earth – Use code ANGELA for 20% off

    19 min

  5. FEB 4

    Overwhelmed by Sobriety Advice? Here’s How to Actually Start

    You know what’s keeping you from getting sober? All the advice telling you how to get sober. Everyone’s got a different rulebook. The old-timers say meetings every day, get a sponsor immediately, work the steps to a tee. People like me say do it your way—you don’t have to follow the doctrine perfectly. And newer recovery voices are teaching completely different avenues to recovery. And you’re stuck in the middle, just trying to figure out how to get through today without a drink, paralyzed by all these options, wondering which path is “right.” Here’s the truth nobody’s telling you: There is no wrong way. I’m giving you the three universal foundations that every strong sobriety is built on, and showing you how to stop waiting for permission and just start. You’ll learn: Why success rates prove the program doesn’t decide—YOU do (and what recent research actually shows) The three universal foundations every strong sobriety is built on How to pick your path when everyone’s telling you something different What to actually DO today to start building your sobriety Remember, a program doesn’t determine your success. You do. A program doesn’t work or not work. YOU work. YOU show up, do the things, follow guidance… or you don’t. Your success is your decision. In this episode, I’m cutting through all the noise and breaking down exactly what you need to start your recovery journey today—no matter which path or program you choose. RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EISODE Free Download: Daily Plan → Recovery Starter Kit Step-by-step lessons, worksheets, checklists, and conversation starters for the hard talks. Walks you through building the three foundations with actual tools, not just concepts. Book a Call → addictionunlimited.com/call Not sure where you are or what level of support you need? Let’s talk. We’ll figure out what’s the right fit for you right now. Related Episode: Episode 418: You’re Not Doing the Work, You’re Just Watching Other People Do It

    34 min

  6. JAN 28

    Why You're Sober But Still Have the Same Problems

    You quit drinking. So why do you still have all the same problems? You quit drinking. That’s huge. But if you’re sitting there wondering why you still have all the same problems you had when you were drinking – I can tell you exactly why. Drinking was never the actual problem. It was a symptom. In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between sobriety (removing alcohol) and recovery (healing the patterns underneath the behavior). Because putting down the drink is just the starting line, not the finish line. We talk about why you’re still making the same s****y choices (just without alcohol), the patterns keeping you stuck that have nothing to do with drinking, how to identify what you’re actually feeling when emotions are totally foreign, and the one thing that separates people who heal from people who stay stuck. Here’s the truth: most people think quitting drinking is the finish line. It’s not. Sobriety removes alcohol. Recovery heals the patterns. If you quit drinking but you’re still people-pleasing, self-sabotaging, avoiding discomfort, or reacting emotionally to everything – you’re just living your drinking life without alcohol. Same patterns, same problems, just without the numbing agent. This one’s raw, real, and no fluff. Just the truth about what it actually takes to heal. In this episode, I share: 3:30: Why drinking is only a symptom of bigger problems 8:03: The patterns you need to heal (and how to identify them) 13:14: What to do when you can’t even recognize what you’re feeling 15:10: Why action – not information – is what actually changes your life Listen in, and if you’re ready to take big action and get big results, I have three coaching spots open this month. Book a call at addictionunlimited.com/call. And check out this episode about how presence is not equal to participation: You’re Not Doing the Work — You’re Just Watching Other People Do It

    16 min

  7. JAN 21

    Getting Sober vs. Being in Recovery

    Everything you need to know about why sobriety alone isn’t enough – and what real recovery actually looks like. Listen, I see this pattern ALL the time with the people I work with. They quit drinking, they think they’ve done the hard part, and then a few weeks or months in… they’re confused. They’re disappointed. They’re thinking, “Is THIS what the rest of my life is going to be like?” And the answer is: only if you stop here. Sobriety is quitting. Recovery is healing. And the only way to stay sober – the only way to actually build a life you love – is to do the healing work Most people quit drinking hoping sobriety won’t be too inconvenient. They want the same life. The same relationships. The same routines. Just… without alcohol. And at first, it works. You feel better. Clearer. Less foggy. But then — weeks or months in — the feelings come back. Anxiety. Overwhelm. Anger. Fear. All the things alcohol was quietly managing for you? They’re still there. And now they’re loud because you aren’t numbing them anymore. That doesn’t mean sobriety is failing. It means your nervous system is healing. Today, I’m sitting down with Michael Z, who has 30 years of sobriety. And let me tell you, this conversation is GOLD. Michael is old-school AA, incredibly honest, and he shares exactly what it was really like in early sobriety and what it takes to build a life you actually want to live long-term. Because recovery isn’t a destination — it’s a practice. If you’re newly sober and struggling – if you’re thinking “why is this so hard?” or “I thought things would be better by now” – you’re not doing it wrong. You’re just in the gap. The gap between sobriety and recovery. Grab your headphones, get comfortable, and let’s talk about what it really takes to stay sober. Trust me, this conversation is going to give you the clarity and the roadmap you need to move forward. If you’re done white-knuckling, overthinking, or feeling stuck in that miserable middle — and you want real support to build a solid recovery foundation — I can help. 👉 Book a call with me and let’s talk about what support would actually move you forward. Connect with me: Instagram:  @addictionunlimited Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/addictionunlimited Resources mentioned in this episode: Michael Z’s book: The Wisdom of the Rooms (daily recovery quotes and reflections) Michael Z’s book: The Twelve Steps of Modern Hero’s Journey (recovery through the hero’s journey framework) Joseph Campbell’s The Hero with a Thousand Faces If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who needs to hear it. Recovery doesn’t happen in isolation – and neither does healing.

    28 min

  8. JAN 14

    You're Not Doing the Work — You're Just Watching Other People Do It

    Reading about sobriety isn’t the same as doing the work to get sober. If you feel like you’re doing everything for your sobriety—but nothing is actually changing—this episode is for you. And trust me, there’s a huge difference! Here’s the thing: when I got sober, the landscape looked completely different. There were no podcasts, no endless library of quit lit books, no free challenges. But today? You can fill every spare moment with sobriety content. And while that’s amazing in so many ways, it’s also created something I see over and over: people who mistake presence for participation. They’re reading books, listening to podcasts, signing up for challenges, even showing up to meetings – but they’re not actually engaging. They’re just… there. And that’s how people stay stuck for years—busy, informed, and still drinking. So in this episode, I’m breaking down exactly what it means to shift from passive presence to active participation. Because that shift? That’s where real transformation happens. I dive into: 3:48 – Why passive sobriety feels like progress but quietly keeps you stuck 8:30 – The false comfort of other people’s stories vs. doing your own work 13:12 – How to tell if you’re participating… or just observing 17:36 – Why only showing up for celebration hurts your recovery (this one stings) 19:56 – What real participation looks like—and why the same people succeed 21:49 – Simple ways to start participating today, even if you’re uncomfortable Tune in and get ready to shift from being present in your recovery to actually participating in it. Because that’s where the magic happens, my friend. And I promise you’re capable of it – right now, exactly as you are. If you’re done consuming recovery content and ready to actually change, Sober Society is where that happens. Join us in Sober Society for just $27/month! We’ve got meetings throughout the week (and we’re adding more in February, including a meditation meeting!). This is a place where people actually show up, support each other, and do the work together. Find all the details at addictionunlimited.com/society Schedule a call to work with me at addictionunlimited.com/call

    29 min
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Are you ready to ditch daily drinking, reclaim your confidence, and create a life of freedom? Each week, Angela combines no-nonsense advice, personal stories, and science-backed strategies to tackle the challenges of sobriety. Angela Pugh is a globally-ranked Life Coach and podcast host, a professional Interventionist, and entrepreneur with more than 18 years of personal sobriety, helping people rebuild their lives since 2008. From navigating relationships to managing triggers, you’ll discover practical tools, empowering insights, and real-world solutions to thrive in sobriety. It’s time to stop feeling stuck and start feeling unlimited. Listen now for the inspiration, tools, and support you need to live a sober, confident, and happy life.

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  • Creator
    Angela Pugh
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2026
  • Episodes
    203
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Angela Pugh LLC 2024. All rights reserved.
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    Addiction Unlimited Podcast

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