IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

Ben Pugh
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This podcast will help parents of teens keep life's struggles as a teen, and as a parent of a teen, in perspective. Parents will learn real tools to help them help their teens. They will learn how to build a rock solid relationship with their teen so they will have a powerful impact and a positive influence on their teen's life.

  1. 5h ago

    Stop Trying to Control Your Teen. Start Leading Instead.

    "Send Ben a text" If you feel like you're always reminding, arguing, or trying to get your teen to make better choices, this episode is for you. Many parents think they need to control their teen to help them succeed. But the harder you try to control them, the more they often push back. In this episode, Ben shares five lessons he has learned from coaching football that can completely change the way you parent. You'll learn how to lead with confidence instead of reacting with frustration. You'll discover how to: Stop carrying responsibilities that belong to your teen.Set clear expectations before problems happen.Lead with calm confidence instead of fear.Build trust without giving up healthy boundaries.Focus on what you can control and let go of what you can't.Your teen doesn't need a parent who can control every choice they make. They need a parent who knows how to lead. If you're ready to stop the constant power struggles and start parenting from the inside out, this episode will give you practical tools you can use today. Take the free Parent Trap Quiz at benpughcoaching.com/quiz to discover the parenting pattern that may be keeping you stuck. Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

  2. Jul 9

    Why Most Parenting Advice Makes Teen Problems Worse

    "Send Ben a text" Most parenting advice sounds good. Be more consistent. Set better rules. Use better consequences. Say the right words. Stay calm. But what if the real problem is that most advice points you at the wrong person? In this episode, Ben talks about why so much parenting advice leaves moms feeling stuck, guilty, and more frustrated with their teen. You’ll learn why your teen’s success is not your parenting report card, why trying harder may not be helping, and how to stop parenting from fear, guilt, and control. If you’re tired of nagging, reminding, lecturing, or feeling like your teen’s choices decide whether you’re a good mom, this episode will help. You’ll learn: Why good parents still feel like they’re failingWhy your teen’s grades, chores, and attitude are not your report cardThe problem with common parenting success checklistsWhy control creates more stressHow to start parenting from the inside outHow to lead with more calm, clarity, and confidenceYour teen does not need a perfect parent. They need a parent who can see the pattern, calm down, and lead from the inside out. Take the free Parent Trap Quiz: https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

  3. Jul 2

    How This Teen Rebuilt Trust With His Parents

    "Send Ben a text" What do you do when your teen wants more freedom, but the trust is broken? In this episode, I talk with Brayden, a teen I’ve coached who went from almost no trust with his parents to earning more freedom, more peace, and a much better relationship at home. Brayden shares what it was like to feel watched, questioned, and not trusted. He also talks about the work he had to do to rebuild that trust. We talk about: Why trust is not just “given back” How Brayden learned to accept “no” without arguing Why more freedom has to come with more responsibility How getting up on time, doing schoolwork, and helping at home changed things Why parents and teens both have work to do How fewer arguments helped rebuild connection This episode is a powerful look at parenting from the teen’s side. And if you’re a mom who feels like your teen is always arguing, pushing back, or asking for freedom they haven’t earned yet, this conversation will give you hope and direction. Your teen can change. But most of the time, change starts with you leading differently. Listen in to hear how Brayden rebuilt trust with his parents, one choice at a time. Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

  4. Jun 25

    How to Stop Reacting and Start Enjoying Your Teen Again

    "Send Ben a text" Do you feel like you are always reacting to your teen? You ask a question. They push back. You get frustrated. They shut down. Then you feel guilty. In this episode, I talk with Sarah Mueller, a mom of four boys and the founder of The Decluttering Club. Sarah shares how coaching helped her feel more calm, clear, and equipped as a parent. She talks about what changed in her home, why she feels more connected to her kids, and how she started enjoying parenting again. We also talk about one of her favorite tools: the Wheel of Life. This tool helps parents see that hard moments do not mean they are failing. Hard moments can show us what we need to practice. If you are an overwhelmed mom of a teen boy, this episode will help you see that you do not have to wait for your teen to change before you start showing up differently. You can lead with more calm. You can connect with your teen. You can stop reacting so much. And you can enjoy your teen again. Take the Parent Trap Quiz: https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz Learn more about Sarah and Decluttering Club Live: https://lv.thedeclutteringclub.com/dc-live-2026 Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

  5. Jun 18

    How to Give Your Teen a Voice Without Letting Him Run the House

    "Send Ben a text" Giving your teen a voice can feel risky. You want him to learn responsibility, but you also do not want him running the house. You want less pushback, but you do not want to become a pushover. In this episode, Ben talks about how to give your teen a voice without giving him the final say. You’ll learn why teens are more likely to take ownership when they help create the plan, how to ask better questions, and what to say when your teen gives an answer that does not work. You’ll also hear simple scripts you can use for chores, screens, curfew, homework, and other daily battles. The goal is not to control every move. The goal is to lead clearly, calmly, and consistently. Take the free Parent Trap Quiz here:  Benpughcoaching.com/ptquiz Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

  6. Jun 11

    When Your Teen Says “Later,” Ask This One Question

    "Send Ben a text" When your teen says, “I’ll do it later,” it can feel like they are ignoring you, avoiding responsibility, or trying to start a fight. But “later” does not have to turn into a power struggle. In this episode, I’ll show you one simple question to ask when your teen says “later”: “What time later?” This question helps your teen move from vague promises to a real plan. It gives them a voice without giving them control of the house. And it helps you stay calm, clear, and in charge without nagging, yelling, or giving in. You’ll learn why “later” triggers parents so much, why clamping down often makes things worse, and how to help your teen take more ownership. If chores, screens, homework, curfew, or bedtime keep turning into the same fight over and over, this episode will help you handle that moment in a better way. Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

  7. Jun 4

    7 Ways To Overcome Mom Fatigue With Your Teen

    "Send Ben a text" Summer with your teen should not feel like a full-time job. But if you are always reminding, chasing, checking, nagging, and managing everything, it is no wonder you feel worn out. In this episode, Ben talks about 7 ways to overcome mom fatigue with your teen by stepping out of the “summer police” role. You will learn why your teen may not be taking responsibility, how you may be carrying too much, and how to start giving responsibility back in a way that actually helps your teen grow. You will also learn how to stop managing every chore, screen time limit, bedtime, and attitude problem without giving up or letting your teen run the house. This episode will help you see:  Why reminding all day keeps you stuck  How to stop carrying your teen’s responsibility  Why your teen needs ownership, not more lectures  How to use clear expectations and consequences  One simple way to give responsibility back this week If you feel tired, resentful, or like you are the only one trying to keep summer from falling apart, this episode will help you take a deep breath and lead in a better way. Your teen does not need you to become the summer police.  They need you to help them become more responsible. Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

  8. May 28

    Why Your Boundaries Keep Turning Into Battles

    "Send Ben a text" Do your boundaries with your teen always turn into fights? You ask him to get off the game, do his chores, go to bed, or follow a summer rule… and suddenly you are in another battle. In this episode, Ben explains why this happens. A lot of parents think they are setting boundaries, but they are really reacting after things have already gone too far. And a reaction is not a boundary. You’ll learn why unclear rules, late conversations, and anger-based limits often lead to more pushback from your teen. Ben also shares how to set boundaries before the fight starts, so your teen knows what is expected and what will happen next. This episode will help you:  Understand why your teen pushes back  Stop setting rules when you are already mad  Create clearer summer expectations  Give your teen more responsibility  Set boundaries without yelling, begging, or giving in If every rule in your house turns into an argument, this episode will help you see the pattern and start changing it. Your teen does not need you to control every choice. He needs you to lead clearly, calmly, and consistently. Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

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This podcast will help parents of teens keep life's struggles as a teen, and as a parent of a teen, in perspective. Parents will learn real tools to help them help their teens. They will learn how to build a rock solid relationship with their teen so they will have a powerful impact and a positive influence on their teen's life.

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