Get Your Goal Body

Hilary Carver

Ready to lose the weight and keep it off - once and for all? Welcome to Get Your Goal Body. I'm Hilary & I lost 100 pounds naturally over a decade ago, kept it off, and I have degrees in Nutrition and Psychology to back it up. More than that, I know the real work is about who you become, not just what you lose. Get Your Goal Body is for high-achieving women who are done playing small and ready to do this differently. Here, we talk about the stuff nobody else does: identity shifts, mindset upgrades, and the actual process of making your dream body - and life - your new normal. If you want permission to want more, to stop negotiating with yourself, and to live as the version of you who finishes what she starts, you’re in the right place. You’ll get unfiltered stories, practical truth bombs, and a totally new way to think about results - straight from someone who’s walked it, studied it, and coached thousands through it. No more waiting for the “right” time. No more shrinking to fit someone else’s plan. This is your invitation to step all the way in. Let's get YOU your Goal Body!

  1. 1d ago

    193. the invisible ceiling keeping you at the same weight is in your head, not your metabolism

    🚨 GOAL BODY ACADEMY MEMBERSHIP — DOORS OPEN NOW (LIMITED TIME) The fall enrollment window for our membership is officially OPEN. Come get the Goal Body method, the community, and me in your corner while doors are still open. This window closes fast. 👉 Join HERE     ❤️‍🔥 APPLY FOR GOAL BODY COACHING — THE HIGHEST LEVEL OF SUPPORT WITH ME For the woman who wants me in her corner every single day, a plan built for HER, and real-time coaching from me all the way through. what's inside:  ↳ daily access to me in the coaching chat  ↳ a custom Goal Body Plan built for YOUR life, your kids, your calendar  ↳ progress check-ins where I review YOUR data and tell you what to adjust, give you private coaching feedback ↳ live group coaching calls ↳ the full Goal Body Method — diet AND mindset — with me guiding you through it  ↳ 6 months together, application required 👉 apply HERE   🔥 free Goal Body Natural Weight Loss program HERE   You've hit the same number 100 times. You lose the weight, you gain it back, and you've been blaming your metabolism, your genetics, your hormones. It's not any of those things. The ceiling keeping you at the same weight is in your head — and today I'm breaking down the self-concept thermostat that's been running your results without you knowing.   In this episode: Why you've hit the same weight 100 times (it's not your metabolism)The self-concept thermostat — the house analogy that changes everythingWhy you sabotage RIGHT when it starts working (and how to catch it)Why compliments feel weird when you're losing weightThe 4 moves to raise your set point for goodWhy you become HER first, THEN the body follows (not the other way around)  Timestamps:  00:00 — Goal Body Academy doors are OPEN (grab this while it's here)  03:03 — why you feel stuck (spoiler: it's not your metabolism)  05:20 — the self-concept thermostat that's been running your results  08:56 — how you sabotage RIGHT when it starts working  12:43 — how to raise the thermostat for good  14:09 — the evidence file every woman in Goal Body builds  17:13 — start making decisions as HER (before you've earned it)  18:44 — why the weird feeling means it's actually working  25:25 — you become HER first, then the body follows   💋Connect with me: YouTube | YoutubeHilary Carver | FAT LOSS EXPERT FOR WOMEN Instagram | @goalbodybyhilary TikTok | @goalbodybyhilary Substack | READ MY BLOG HERE Website | goalbodybyhilary.com

  2. Aug 11

    192. Why “changing everything” isn’t changing your body

    📋 GOAL BODY ACADEMY MEMBERSHIP WAITLIST — DOORS OPEN THIS MONTH Fall enrollment window is short. Add your name to the waitlist to know the second doors open (and grab any early bonuses). 👉 Waitlist HERE     ❤️‍🔥 READY TO STOP FIGURING THIS OUT ALONE? If this podcast keeps hitting and you're ready to actually LIVE it instead of just listen to it... Goal Body Coaching is where you belong. what you get inside:  ↳ daily access to me in your phone for the days it gets hard  ↳ a custom goal body plan built for YOUR life, your kids, your calendar  ↳ the full Goal Body Method, diet AND mindset ↳ six months together to get you all the way through 👉 apply HERE   🔥 free calorie + protein calculator HERE   You're changing everything and your body isn't changing. I hear this from women constantly and I believe you — I know you're trying. I'm walking you through 6 things to actually look at.   In this episode: The parrot story that explains why "changing everything" isn't workingWhy "information constipation" is blocking your results before you even startHow much you're actually eating (and why "I know I'm not eating that much" is a lie)Your calorie target, your consistency rate, and how you're measuring progressHow much time has actually passed (of real consistency, not just "starting")The mindset piece that's the foundation under all 5 of the others  Timestamps:  00:00 — the parrot story + why nothing's changing  04:57 — information overload (block the noise)  06:52 — academy waitlist update  09:36 — Check #1: your calories  13:51 — Check #2: your calorie target  15:53 — Check #3: consistency  18:18 — Check #4: measuring progress  20:48 — Check #5: give it time  22:53 — Check #6: mindset  27:43 — the close + how to join   💋Connect with me: YouTube | YoutubeHilary Carver | FAT LOSS EXPERT FOR WOMEN Instagram | @goalbodybyhilary TikTok | @goalbodybyhilary Substack | READ MY BLOG HERE Website | goalbodybyhilary.com

  3. Aug 4

    191. 5 areas of self-awareness that will change everything about your weight loss (do this and never gain it back)

    📖 READ THE FULL BREAKDOWN ON SUBSTACK The Substack version of this episode has all 5 categories, every journal prompt in full, and the deeper pen-and-paper work you can sit with. If today's episode hit, that's where you go next.  👉 Read it HERE     ❤️‍🔥 READY TO STOP FIGURING THIS OUT ALONE? If this podcast keeps hitting and you're ready to actually LIVE it instead of just listen to it... Goal Body Coaching is where you belong. what you get inside:  ↳ daily access to me in your phone for the days it gets hard  ↳ a custom goal body plan built for YOUR life, your kids, your calendar  ↳ the full Goal Body Method, diet AND mindset ↳ six months together to get you all the way through 👉 apply HERE     You've been told losing weight is about calories, workouts, and willpower. It's not. After a decade of coaching thousands of women, I can tell you the ONE thing every woman who actually lost the weight AND kept it off had in common. Self-awareness. Today I'm walking you through the 5 areas you need to audit, the 3 mistakes I see women make trying to, and the prompts you can start with today.     In this episode: Why "I know what to do, I just don't do it" is the biggest lie you've been telling yourselfThe 3 mistakes women make when they try to build self-awareness (mistake #1 is why you've been listening to podcasts for years without moving)The 5 exact areas of self-awareness you need to audit & build — food behavior, patterns, lifestyle, identity, and excusesWhy you need a pen and paper for this episode (and where to grab the full prompt library)What to do next if you're ready to stop diagnosing yourself alone  Timestamps:  00:00 — welcome back + why this episode is dropping now  04:27 — the Substack companion guide (grab it before you go deeper)  09:10 — what self-awareness actually is  11:15 — why it matters more than any diet  24:22 — the 3 mistakes women make with self-awareness  35:06 — grab the notebook (this is where it starts)  40:51 — Category 1: food behavior awareness  49:19 — Category 2: pattern loop awareness (you're not failing randomly)  53:43 — Category 3: lifestyle factors driving your eating  57:55 — Category 4: identity stories holding you back  01:02:29 — Category 5: excuse inventory (which one is your go-to?)  01:06:19 — do the work + get the support   💋Connect with me: YouTube | YoutubeHilary Carver | FAT LOSS EXPERT FOR WOMEN Instagram | @goalbodybyhilary TikTok | @goalbodybyhilary Substack | READ MY BLOG HERE Website | goalbodybyhilary.com

  4. Jul 20

    190. The 4 mindset blocks costing you your goal body (which one is yours?)

    💌 GRAB THE FREE SHIFT GUIDE Diagnose the exact mindset block standing between you and your goal body. All 8 mindsets, plus what to do about each one. 👉 DM me "SHIFT" on Instagram @goalbodybyhilary (or email me if you're not on IG)   ❤️‍🔥 READY TO STOP FIGURING THIS OUT ALONE? If this podcast keeps hitting and you're ready to actually LIVE it instead of just listen to it... Goal Body Coaching is where you belong. what you get inside:  ↳ daily access to me in your phone for the days it gets hard  ↳ a custom goal body plan built for YOUR life, your kids, your calendar  ↳ the full Goal Body Method, diet AND mindset ↳ six months together to get you all the way through 👉 apply HERE   🔥 free calorie + protein calculator HERE   Real talk... every single woman I've coached in 10 years who is stuck on her weight has ONE thing in common. It's not her calories. It's not her workout. It's not her hormones. It's a mindset block. Today I'm walking you through the 4 I see the most (at least one of these IS you) and how to know which one is yours.   In this episode: Why what's ACTUALLY keeping you stuck is not your calories, workout, or hormonesMindset Block #1: The All-or-Nothing mindset (perfectionists, this one is you)Mindset Block #2: The Half In mindset (foot in, foot out — the most expensive one on the list)Mindset Block #3: The Free-for-All mindset (why "balance" is costing you your body)Mindset Block #4: The "I'm Broken" mindset (the protective story that sabotages you from the start)How to diagnose which one is YOU (plus how to grab the free SHIFT guide with all 8)  Timestamps:  00:00 — episode 190 hello (200 is coming... send me your celebration ideas)  02:25 — the new free SHIFT guide (and how to grab it, no opt-in required)  06:47 — why every "weight loss problem" is actually a mindset problem  08:37 — mindset #1: the all-or-nothing trap (the most common one on the list)  14:25 — mindset #2: the half in commitment (more problematic than not doing it at all)  21:30 — mindset #3: the free-for-all "balance" trap (when balance is costing you)  27:55 — mindset #4: the "I'm broken" belief (the story that sabotages you from the start)  33:26 — how to grab the full 8 mindsets (DM "SHIFT" on Instagram)  34:46 — final wrap and where to connect   💋Connect with me: YouTube | YoutubeHilary Carver | FAT LOSS EXPERT FOR WOMEN Instagram | @goalbodybyhilary TikTok | @goalbodybyhilary Substack | READ MY BLOG HERE Website | goalbodybyhilary.com

  5. Jul 13

    189. You need to become UNRECOGNIZABLE to get your goal body

    🎁 DOWNLOAD "THE MID-YEAR EDIT" — FREE 18-PAGE GUIDE Because the woman you're becoming deserves an intentional second half. Body. Mind. Life. The full guide walks you through all three. 👉 Grab it HERE   ❤️‍🔥 READY TO STOP FIGURING THIS OUT ALONE? If this podcast keeps hitting and you're ready to actually LIVE it instead of just listen to it... Goal Body Coaching is where you belong. what you get inside:  ↳ daily access to me in your phone for the days it gets hard  ↳ a custom goal body plan built for YOUR life, your kids, your calendar  ↳ the full Goal Body Method, diet AND mindset ↳ six months together to get you all the way through 👉 apply HERE   🔥 free calorie + protein calculator HERE   Everyone acts like a complete rebrand of yourself is some sort of terrible thing. Like editing your identity means you're abandoning yourself. Real talk? I've hated this messaging for YEARS. Today I'm calling BS. Becoming unrecognizable isn't the villain of your story...it's literally the whole point.   In this episode: Why "don't lose yourself" is the worst weight loss advice out thereWhich version of you are you ACTUALLY afraid to lose? (the 9pm DoorDash one? the three safe outfits one?)The toxic relationship analogy that's going to change how you look at your habits foreverWhy becoming unrecognizable isn't abandoning yourself — it's saving herEvery meaningful life change is a rebrand (weight loss is no different)The 3 areas to edit right now (straight from The Mid-Year Edit guide)  Timestamps: 00:00 — hello you guys + summer catch up (and why this one is going to fire me up)  03:24 — the Mid-Year Edit guide (grab it before we get into the meat)  04:14 — stop fearing the edit (change is not the villain of your story)  06:27 — "don't lose yourself" is the worst weight loss advice you've ever taken  13:42 — the toxic habits reframe (your habits are DATING you and they are TRASH)  16:48 — becoming unrecognizable IS the whole point  20:09 — when other people start to notice you're becoming HER (yes, this can get uncomfortable)  23:00 — rebrand your identity (you don't need anyone's permission)  28:03 — walking through the Mid-Year Edit guide (body, mind, life)  32:51 — the coaching close (the room where the rebrand actually happens)   💋Connect with me: YouTube | YoutubeHilary Carver | FAT LOSS EXPERT FOR WOMEN Instagram | @goalbodybyhilary TikTok | @goalbodybyhilary Substack | READ MY BLOG HERE Website | goalbodybyhilary.com

  6. Jun 29

    188. 45 pounds, size 10 to a 2-4, and the woman that was always there — Meghan's story [Goal Body Diaries]

    ❤️‍🔥 READY TO STOP FIGURING THIS OUT ALONE? If this podcast keeps hitting and you're ready to actually LIVE it instead of just listen to it... Goal Body Coaching is where you belong. what you get inside:  ↳ daily access to me in your phone for the days it gets hard  ↳ a custom goal body plan built for YOUR life, your kids, your calendar  ↳ the full Goal Body Method, diet AND mindset ↳ six months together to get you all the way through 👉 apply HERE   🔥 free calorie + protein calculator HERE   Okay, this is the one I have been waiting to share for SO long. Meghan's story is not just about a woman who lost 45 pounds (which she did). It is about a woman who got her ENTIRE life back. The body. The mind. The relationship. The career. The love. All of it. This one is going to inspire you in the best way.   In this episode: 45 lbs down, size 10 → 2-4, eating the food she actually enjoys (nothing off limits)the Meghan quote I screenshot every single timethe lie about food that was actually depriving her for years (and what changed)what she ACTUALLY did to lose it (no fads, just the basics done long enough)the relationship she left, the career she built, the love she found WHILE losing the weightstill maintaining years later, on her own (the durability proof you needed to see)3 takeaways to steal from her diary this week  Timestamps:  00:00 — welcome in (and a tease of the story I've been waiting to tell for so long)  01:46 — meet Meghan: 45 lbs, size 10 → 2-4, a whole new life (kicking off our "where are they now" series)  04:15 — how Meghan found me (and the og 28-day challenge she did with her mom)  06:21 — Meghan's before: no energy, no hope, deprivation on repeat  08:44 — the lie about food that was actually depriving her (her exact words... screenshot this)  11:40 — the habits that actually worked (no fads, just the basics done consistently)  19:50 — the results, the all-or-nothing reset, and the woman that was always there  22:28 — the life wins nobody is telling you about (the relationship, the career, the love)  25:15 — how she bounced back from a week of "overindulging a few times too many"  26:46 — your steal a page from her diary moment: 3 takeaways to copy  28:48 — the goal body coaching invite (the door is open if you're ready)  30:51 — final wrap and where to find me   💋Connect with me: YouTube | YoutubeHilary Carver | FAT LOSS EXPERT FOR WOMEN Instagram | @goalbodybyhilary TikTok | @goalbodybyhilary Substack | READ MY BLOG HERE Website | goalbodybyhilary.com

  7. Jun 22

    187. Future you is not coming to save you: the psychology of why you keep procrastinating

    ❤️‍🔥 READY TO STOP FIGURING THIS OUT ALONE? If this podcast keeps hitting and you're ready to actually LIVE it instead of just listen to it... goal body coaching is where you belong. what you get inside:  ↳ daily access to me in your phone for the days it gets hard  ↳ a custom goal body plan built for YOUR life, your kids, your calendar  ↳ the full Goal Body Method, diet AND mindset ↳ six months together to get you all the way through 👉 apply HERE   🔥 free calorie + protein calculator HERE   Real talk... you've been telling yourself "I'll just lock in later" for years. Maybe a decade. Today I'm naming the brain science behind why you keep doing it (spoiler: it's not laziness), the 5 exact patterns I see in every woman who's stuck on her body, and what's actually being stolen from you every week you wait. This one is going to wake you up.   In this episode: The truth about procrastination: it's not a discipline problem, it's a BRAIN problem (and the moment you see it, you can finally break it)Why your brain keeps picking comfort over your goal body (the "comfort button" explained)The intention-action gap keeping you stuck even though you "already know what to do"A recent moment I caught MYSELF procrastinating (yes, I do it too)The 5 exact patterns I see in every woman who's stuck (you'll recognize at least 2 of these)The time math: how much "I'll start later" has actually cost you (this one is going to hurt)The one move that breaks the pattern TODAY — not Monday, not January, today  Timestamps:  00:00 — welcome in and why today's episode is going to wake you up  01:40 — the two types of procrastinators (one of them is you)  03:46 — the "future you" myth that's costing you everything  05:31 — my own wakeup call (yes, I caught myself in this too)  10:42 — the actual psychology of procrastination 21:34 — pattern 1: the date delay 24:43 — pattern 2: the research loop 25:55 — pattern 3: the calendar exit 28:23 — pattern 4: the displacement project 33:28 — pattern 5: the motivation waiting room 35:08 — the real cost of waiting 37:59 — the goal body coaching invite (and how to come do this with me)  40:39 — final takeaways and where to connect with me     💋Connect with me: YouTube | YoutubeHilary Carver | FAT LOSS EXPERT FOR WOMEN Instagram | @goalbodybyhilary TikTok | @goalbodybyhilary Substack | READ MY BLOG HERE Website | goalbodybyhilary.com

  8. Jun 15

    186. You're not failing at fat loss. You're succeeding at staying comfortable.

    ❤️‍🔥 READY TO STOP FIGURING THIS OUT ALONE? If this podcast keeps hitting and you're ready to actually LIVE it instead of just listen to it... goal body coaching is where you belong. what you get inside:  ↳ daily access to me in your phone for the days it gets hard  ↳ a custom goal body plan built for YOUR life, your kids, your calendar  ↳ the full Goal Body Method, diet AND mindset ↳ six months together to get you all the way through 👉 apply HERE   🔥 free calorie + protein calculator HERE   You've been calling it failure for years. But girl... it isn't. You are not failing at fat loss. You are SUCCEEDING at staying comfortable. Today I'm naming the four exact moments you're doing it (and the truth-talk version of me who doesn't say "it's not that you're not disciplined" anymore is here for ALL of it).   In this episode: The reframe that changes everything: why you're not failing, you're succeeding (at the wrong thing)A recent moment I caught MYSELF in my own comfort zone (and what it taught me)The Sunday night reset that never makes it to Wednesday (and what the cycle is actually doing for you)The "I'll start when..." waiting room that's costing you YEARS of progressThe free content scroll that feels productive but isn't (you might recognize your camera roll here)The body blame pattern keeping you stuck (and why the answer is so much more boring than you want it to be)The truth about discipline I used to soften... and don't anymore  Timestamps: 00:00 — summer mom life chaos 02:35 — we're halfway through the year, babe... time for a wakeup call  03:21 — getting into the comfort zone truth talk  06:43 — the real reason you're staying stuck (and it's not what you think)  10:19 — my own recent wakeup call (yes, I caught myself too)  15:21 — the no-coffee challenge that exposed my own comfort zone hiding spot  18:40 — pattern one: the sunday/monday reset that never makes it to wednesday  23:54 — pattern two: the "i'll start when..." waiting room  25:28 — the goal body waiting room (if you've been listening for months without joining... this one)  26:34 — the start now mindset that breaks the waiting room cycle  28:36 — how to know if you're stuck in the waiting room trap right now  29:49 — pattern three: the free content scroll that feels like progress (and isn't)  34:12 — pattern four: stop blaming your hormones (and what to actually look at first)  41:06 — choosing discipline over comfort (and the new truth-talk version of me)  44:13 — the coaching invitation: how to come do this with me  46:16 — final wrap and where to connect   💋Connect with me: YouTube | YoutubeHilary Carver | FAT LOSS EXPERT FOR WOMEN Instagram | @goalbodybyhilary TikTok | @goalbodybyhilary Substack | READ MY BLOG HERE Website | goalbodybyhilary.com

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Ready to lose the weight and keep it off - once and for all? Welcome to Get Your Goal Body. I'm Hilary & I lost 100 pounds naturally over a decade ago, kept it off, and I have degrees in Nutrition and Psychology to back it up. More than that, I know the real work is about who you become, not just what you lose. Get Your Goal Body is for high-achieving women who are done playing small and ready to do this differently. Here, we talk about the stuff nobody else does: identity shifts, mindset upgrades, and the actual process of making your dream body - and life - your new normal. If you want permission to want more, to stop negotiating with yourself, and to live as the version of you who finishes what she starts, you’re in the right place. You’ll get unfiltered stories, practical truth bombs, and a totally new way to think about results - straight from someone who’s walked it, studied it, and coached thousands through it. No more waiting for the “right” time. No more shrinking to fit someone else’s plan. This is your invitation to step all the way in. Let's get YOU your Goal Body!

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