High Performance Mindset | Learn from World-Class Leaders, Consultants, Athletes & Coaches about Mindset Dr. Cindra Kamphoff

As Founder/CEO of the Intrigue Agency, and the Tongue Fu! Training Institute, Sam helps people create respectful, intriguing, proactive communications that are a win for all involved. 
Sam's 3 TEDx talks and 10 books - including Tongue Fu!, POP!, Talking on Eggshells, SOMEDAY is Not a Day in the Week - have been featured in NY Times, Fast Company, Forbes, Readers Digest, TED.com, NPR. 
Sam's IKIGAI - and one of her great joys - is helping people crystallize a meaningful message/mission that puts the light on in their eyes and creates a rising-tide LEGACY that adds value for all involved.

In this episode, Cindra and Sam discuss: 
“Words to Lose, and Word to Use”  
Her AIR acronym 
What to do when you disagree with someone
Tools to deescalate a situation
And, why her PLAN tool can help you prepare for any conversation
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Leading yourself can be very difficult because our brain is hardwired to see what is missing. Instead, you can lead yourself to your own personal vision by remembering:
What you think about yourself, you become. Thoughts only have power if you believe them.  You can act independent of how you feel. Chance thinking doesn’t lead to success – instead, make time each day to master your thoughts and lead yourself even more deliberately.
 
This Week's Power Phrase: “I lead myself today.”
Quote of the Week: “Work harder on yourself than you do your job.” — Jim Rohn

Allistair McCaw is recognized as one of the world’s leading figures on team culture, leadership, and mindset. For over 25 years, he has consulted and worked with numerous Olympians, Grand Slam Champions, Fortune 500 companies and NCAA Colleges including LSU, SMU, Duke, and the University of Minnesota. 
An author of 7 best-selling books and a keynote speaker, Allistair consults and mentors leaders, coaches, teams and organizations. A 29x marathon finisher and former 5-time World Championship competitor in the sport of Duathlon, Allistair resides in Florida.
In this episode, Cindra and Allistair discuss: 
7 Types of People You Should Surround Yourself With  
The 90/9 Rule 
3 Steps to Achievement 
The Power of Your Story
And, 10 Things You Should Let Go Of 
 
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Confidence is a choice you make daily. Your belief and trust in your ability is your choice. Don’t overthink the feeling of confidence – you might feel nervous and unconfident when you are trying something new. Keep building the foundational skill of confidence. Intentionally decide today to take control of your confidence. Believe and trust that you can!
 
Power Phrase this Week: “I choose confidence today!”
Quote of the Week: “You don’t become what you want, you become what you believe.” - Oprah
 

Much of our happiness can be changed by engaging in daily, intentional activities that impact how we act and think. In fact, happiness also comes from the relationships we develop. This week be even more deliberate about building relationships and being present in them. 
This Week’s Power Phrase: “I choose happiness by building relationships around me.”
Quote of the Week: "Happiness is not the goal…it’s a by product of a life well-lived.” - Elenor Roosevelt

You can never outperform your self-image. Your self-image is your view of yourself. Be careful what you say to yourself about yourself. To level of your self-image, consider the beliefs you want to hold about yourself to reach all of your goals and dreams.
This Week's Power Phrase: “I talk to myself powerfully today.”
Quote of the Week: “People are never able to outperform their self-image.” - John Maxwell