Midlife Muse: Things Your Mother Never Told You

Dr. Amanda Hanson
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The magnificence and rapture of womanhood are often not passed down from our mothers. We are all too familiar with stories of sacrificing, shrinking, and overcoming. The majority of women are left to feel like something is constantly missing. And what's usually missing is the feminine essence of every single one of them. Dr. Amanda Hanson is a clinical psychologist and a global influencer who has helped millions of women to reimagine their lives, reconnect with their feminine side, and heal generational trauma. In each episode, Dr. Amanda will introduce you to concepts of womanhood that will ignite your radiance, ease the confusion, and help you craft an unshakeable foundation of self-worth. Whether you are seeking guidance, inspiration, a deeper reflection on your life, or knowledge for making your lifetime of being a woman more fulfilling ~ The Midlife Muse podcast is for you. For women of all walks of life, regardless of their origin, religious views, age, or previous experiences, this is a universal platform that unites safe women across the globe.

  1. May 13

    I Hired My Best Friend: Judith Nowlin EP 67

    There is a woman in your life...or perhaps you are still searching for her. The one who picks up the phone when no one else does. The one who holds your vision before it has a name, your heart before you have a plan. The one who does not shrink in the presence of your intensity, but instead reflects it back to you as the very thing that makes you extraordinary. Female friendship, when it is built on the right foundation, becomes the infrastructure of who you are allowed to become. In this episode, Dr. Amanda sits down with her very best friend of 20 years, Judith Nowlin, her co-founder on the groundbreaking iBirth app and now COO of Midlife Muse. Together, they unpack what has made their friendship not only endure, but deepen with every season, and what they believe every woman deserves to know about building the kind of sisterhood that lasts a lifetime. In this episode, we explore: Why true Safe Sisterhood begins with a rising tide mentality and how Judith's refusal to compete changed the entire trajectory of Dr. Amanda's life The mic drop moments that rewired both women's relationship to themselves and how one reframe can alter the course of an entire life Self-leadership as the quiet force behind thriving homes, lasting marriages, and friendships that grow rather than stagnate How Amanda and Judith co-founded iBirth, one of the very first pregnancy and postpartum apps, and what it taught them about saying yes before you know how Navigating a business transition with grace and how that moment became the foundation of even greater trust The promises made, the rituals kept, and the invisible agreements that make love feel like safety Why celebrating yourself out loud is one of the most generous things you can do for the women around you Some women walk into your life and stay long enough to build an empire beside you. Long enough to sit across from you and say: I was there. I knew who you were before you did. This conversation is for the woman who has always known, somewhere deep inside, that she was made for more than surface-level connection. The woman who wants to be truly known, genuinely celebrated, and held accountable to the fullest version of herself. That kind of sisterhood is not luck. It is a practice. And it is available to you. The Muses Community was built on this exact premise. That expansion is not the exception, it is the baseline. That women from around the world, at every stage of their becoming, can walk alongside one another with radical generosity and zero competition. That the rising of one woman lifts every woman in her orbit. If you are ready to be surrounded by women who have your back, who reflect your greatness back to you, and who are committed to going further together, your people are waiting for you inside the Muses Community.  Join The Muses Community  https://amandahanson.com/themuses/  Connect with Dr. Amanda on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/midlife.muse/

    1h 7m

  2. Apr 8

    Why You Love Who You Love with Eli Harwood EP 66

    Most women believe they are struggling in relationships because they are choosing the wrong people. But what if the pattern began long before them? What if the way you learned to seek love, hold love, or even lose yourself in love…was formed in the very first relationships you ever experienced? Attachment has a way of shaping everything. Not just how you love, but how you trust, how you express your needs, how safe you feel being seen, and how you respond when connection feels uncertain. In this conversation with Eli Harwood, we explore what it means to understand those patterns, not from a place of blame, but from a place of awareness and responsibility. Because when you can see the pattern…you can begin to change it. In this episode, we explore: Why attachment patterns formed in childhood continue to show up in adult relationships. The difference between seeking a partner and unconsciously seeking a parent. How self-abandonment becomes a strategy for staying connected. The grief of not receiving what you needed, and why it must be faced to move forward. Why one secure relationship can shift your sense of self and your capacity for connection. How the mother wound can influence sisterhood, trust, and connection with other women. The importance of emotional maturity in leadership, healing, and relationships. What many women discover is that the ache they feel in relationships isn't about this moment. It lives deeper than that…in something that was never fully seen or safely held. And while you cannot go back and change where you came from, you can begin to meet your life differently now. In the way you choose. In the way you love. In the way you stay with yourself. This conversation is for the woman who is ready to stop repeating the same cycles… and start creating relationships that feel safe, steady, and real. If this episode resonates, share it with a woman who is learning to love without losing herself. Because this is work we were never meant to do alone. And if you feel called to go deeper into reclaiming your sense of self and emotional safety, my book Muse is available now. It is a guide for women returning to themselves. Order your copy of Muse https://amandahanson.com/muse/?utm_source=attachment&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=eli&utm_campaign=podcast Connect with Dr. Amanda on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/midlife.muse/ Connect with Eli Harwood: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentnerd/

    1h 4m

  3. Mar 11

    Behave Candy: From Play To Profit: Mayssa Chehata EP 65

    As a woman, when everything you built stops working, it feels like failure.  But it doesn't mean that your dream was wrong. It just means that the way you learned to push, prove, and perform can no longer carry what you're trying to build.  Entrepreneurship has a way of bringing those moments to the surface.  The moments where ambition collides with exhaustion. Where discipline stops feeling empowering and starts feeling like punishment. When a woman begins to realize that the rules she followed to get here may not be the ones that will carry her forward. What many women discover is that entrepreneurship is not just a business journey. It becomes a spiritual one.  Because building something of your own has a way of surfacing every belief you carry about worth, safety, success…and love. In this conversation with Mayssa Chehata, founder of Behave Candy, we speak honestly about what happens when building a company becomes a mirror.  In this episode, we explore: Why what we often call discipline can actually be a lack of self-trust The hidden conditioning holding female entrepreneurs back The subconscious limits from childhood that show up in entrepreneurship The real emotions behind financial fear, burnout, and staying in the game  Why reconnecting to purpose is often the turning point How creativity and fun can unlock growth that force never will  What rock bottom in business is really trying to teach you Sometimes the breakthrough you need isn't found in working harder. It is found in working differently.  It's the willingness to slow down, reconnect with your purpose, and begin creating from joy instead of pressure.  This conversation is for the woman who is building something brave and feeling the weight of it. For the woman who wonders if she is cut out for this. For the woman who senses that the next level won't require more effort, but more self-trust. If this episode resonates, consider sharing it with a woman who is creating something of her own. Because no woman building something brave should feel like she has to do it alone.  And if you feel called to go deeper into reclaiming your inner authority and self-trust, my book Muse is available now. It's a guide for women who are returning to themselves.  Order your copy of Muse https://amandahanson.com/muse/?utm_source=entrepreneurship&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=maysa&utm_campaign=podcast Connect with Dr. Amanda on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/midlife.muse/ Connect with Mayssa Chehata: https://www.instagram.com/mayssa/

    1h 1m

  4. Feb 11

    The Spirituality of Menopause: Dr. Amanda Hanson EP 64

    There is a moment in a woman's life when something quiet but irreversible happens. It isn't loud. It isn't dramatic. And it isn't the breakdown we've been taught to expect. Menopause is often framed as something to manage, fix, or endure. A list of symptoms to brace for. A season to survive. What I was never offered, and what so few women are, is the deeper truth of this passage. Menopause is not the loss of self. It is the reorganization of self around truth. There is a spirituality to this experience that our culture rarely names. Ancient societies understood this threshold. They prepared women for it. They listened to the women who emerged from it. Today, we tend to rush her, medicate her, and ask her to return to normal even though there is no normal on the other side of transformation. This reflection names what becomes possible when menopause is honored as a rite of passage rather than treated as a hormonal inconvenience. I speak to meeting physical changes with curiosity instead of fear, allowing ritual to replace resistance, and listening for the deeper intelligence inside each shift. In this episode, I explore: Why menopause is not a breakdown, but a profound internal shift How fear-based narratives disconnect women from their bodies What happens when a woman stops bending, explaining, and bleeding energy Why discernment sharpens and tolerance drops in this season of life The difference between patriarchal and matriarchal stories of aging How choosing a different narrative can change the experience entirely Here, I share my experience…not from a medical or prescriptive lens, but from a lived, embodied one. I offer this for the women walking that path now. And for the younger women who deserve a different imprint than fear. Because menopause does not diminish a woman. It reveals her. If this conversation resonates, consider sharing it with a daughter, a friend, or a woman you love. To continue this work of reclaiming inner authority across every season of womanhood, my book Muse is available now…a guide for women returning to themselves. Connect with me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/midlife.muse/ Order your copy of Muse https://amandahanson.com/muse/?utm_source=menopause&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=episode64&utm_campaign=podcast

    22 min

  5. Jan 28

    The Postpartum Crisis We Ignore: Kate Hernandez EP 63

    There is a quiet abandonment built into motherhood. After the baby arrives, the world gently but decisively turns its gaze. Questions shift. Attention moves outward. The mother is expected to hold the rest privately…recovering offstage, adapting without pause, needing little, asking less. Within that quiet expectation, something internal begins to form. Women start to minimize their own truths. They tell themselves it's not that bad. They learn to translate exhaustion into gratitude, confusion into shame, grief into something to be endured rather than spoken. What cannot be neatly named is often swallowed whole. Women don't stay silent because they want to. They stay silent because our culture tells them there is no room for the truth. In this episode, I sit down with Kate Hernandez, founder of Postparty, a company built on a radical premise: that the recovery of mothers is essential, not optional. Together, we name the truths that are often minimized or ignored: the fear and guilt new mothers carry, the physical realities of postpartum healing, the emotional rupture many women experience, and the permission to hold gratitude and struggle at the same time. In this conversation, we explore: Why birth is celebrated while mothers are quietly abandoned afterward. How shame keeps mothers from asking for help when they need it most. The cultural obsession with bouncing back and who it actually serves. Why "being cleared" is not the same as being cared for. How virtual and in-home care can close dangerous access gaps. The cost of ignoring maternal wellbeing on families, children, and future generations. What becomes possible when mothers are finally centered and supported. Why postpartum never really "ends", it simply evolves. Because birth is not the finish line. It's the handoff into a years-long transformation and the way we show up for mothers in the weeks, months, and years after birth reverberates through families, communities, and generations. If you're pregnant, newly postpartum, supporting a new mother, or holding your own birth story in silence…this conversation is for you. Because when the mother is well, the family is well. And when the mother suffers, we all suffer. If you want to continue this work of honoring the mother, not just the birth, my book Muse is available now. A guide for women reclaiming their identity, restoring inner authority, and returning to themselves in every season. Connect with Dr. Amanda on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/midlife.muse/ Connect with Kate Hernandez: https://www.instagram.com/yourpostparty/ Order your copy of Muse https://amandahanson.com/muse/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=kate_hernandez

    48 min

  6. Jan 14

    The Curse of Generations: Gary Vee EP 62

    This week I am joined by the incredible Gary Vee…a visionary who often speaks about hustle, but today, sits with us to talk about heart. The conversation began before the microphones turned on. With my own children gathered around him, asking questions and soaking up his words. He took the time to talk with them and share his wisdom. It spoke volumes about who he was, how he relates to people of all ages, and the valuable words he has to offer. Once we started recording, he continued the conversation with the same authenticity. We stripped away the layers of "shoulds" and expectations that society places on us. We explored what it really looks like to stop apologizing for who you are and start celebrating it. Gary shares his unique perspective on why the fear of judgment is what's standing between you and the life you crave, and how self-awareness is the ultimate form of self-love. Inside this episode, we discuss: Why success doesn't shape character…it exposes it How fear gets passed down quietly through generations Why so many adults are still waiting for approval long past childhood How entitlement replaces gratitude and erodes resilience without us noticing Why failure is formative, not damaging What happens when self-awareness replaces performance The moment adulthood actually begins If you have been feeling the call to reinvent yourself, to pivot, or simply to show up more boldly in your own skin, this episode is for you. Remember, it is never too late to become the woman you were always meant to be. If you want to continue this work of remembering who you are beneath the noise, my book Muse is available now. A guide for women reclaiming identity, authority, and their inner voice. Connect with Dr. Amanda on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/midlife.muse/ Connect with Gary Vee: https://www.instagram.com/garyvee/ Order your copy of Muse https://amandahanson.com/book/

    1h 1m

  7. 12/31/2025

    She Stopped Performing : Constance Zimmer EP 61

    By the time a woman reaches midlife, she has usually learned the rules: stay pleasant, stay young-looking, stay non-threatening. Don't take up too much space. Don't show the edges. And definitely don't age out loud. The cost of that agreement, however, is the slow erasure of her voice, her authority, and her truth. In this episode, I sit down with actress Constance Zimmer to talk about aging in Hollywood, the fear and grief that can come when opportunities narrow after 50, and the sovereignty that emerges when women refuse to go quiet. Constance shares the story behind her iconic Entourage audition, how her most "unlikable" characters became the most relatable, and why she's now building spaces for women to tell midlife stories across stage, screen, and community. Inside this episode, we explore: The myth that actors "choose" roles - and what it's really like when opportunity chooses you How Constance landed Entourage by walking in with nothing to prove and everything to own What shifts for women after 50 in Hollywood - and why the silence can feel terrifying Why midlife often becomes a creative ignition point tied to purpose and legacy The vision behind The Midlife Monologues and creating platforms where women's stories are centered The cultural cost of erasing women's aging faces - and the message it sends to our daughters How women heal through truth-telling, witnessing, and community - without fixing or performing This episode is for the woman who can feel the old programming creep in - the voice that says, "Stay likable. Stay small. Stay young." If this conversation moves something in you, share it with a sister who needs the reminder. Because that's what sisters do. Connect with Dr. Amanda on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/midlife.muse/ Connect with Constance Zimmer: https://www.instagram.com/constancezimmer/

    56 min

  8. 12/17/2025

    Sober. Emotionally.: Colleen Freeland EP 60

    So many women tell the same quiet story: "I'm fine. I'm grateful. I'm doing it all." And yet… There's a glass of wine waiting every evening just to soften the edges enough to keep going. In this week's episode of Things Your Mother Never Told You, I sit down with Colleen Freeland, the woman redefining what sobriety means for high-achieving, overwhelmed women. Her work is not about labels or lifelong abstinence. It's about emotional sobriety - the art of living without the chaos, pressure, and self-abandonment that make us reach outside ourselves for relief. Colleen brings a radically compassionate perspective: Most women don't have drinking problems. They have disconnection problems. Inside this conversation, we explore: Why Type A, hyper-capable women often use alcohol as a bridge to survive the life they've built. How emotional numbing becomes a default for women who never learned to feel their own needs. Why shame-based sobriety models can backfire - and what actually creates lasting change. The truth about "mommy wine culture" and the billion-dollar industry marketing alcohol as self-care. How creating small, honest moments of pleasure and regulation can begin to untangle long-held patterns. What happens when a woman finally tells the truth: I'm not okay, and I can't keep living this way. The real reason midlife becomes a turning point, and why so many women "wake up" during these years. This episode is an invitation to pause. To listen inward. To meet the woman you've been overriding for far too long. If something in this conversation lands in your body - share it with someone who needs to hear it. Your revolution begins within. Connect with Dr. Amanda on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/midlife.muse/ Connect with Colleen Freeland: https://www.instagram.com/thehangoverwhisperer/ https://emotionalsobrietycoaching.com/

    53 min
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The magnificence and rapture of womanhood are often not passed down from our mothers. We are all too familiar with stories of sacrificing, shrinking, and overcoming. The majority of women are left to feel like something is constantly missing. And what's usually missing is the feminine essence of every single one of them. Dr. Amanda Hanson is a clinical psychologist and a global influencer who has helped millions of women to reimagine their lives, reconnect with their feminine side, and heal generational trauma. In each episode, Dr. Amanda will introduce you to concepts of womanhood that will ignite your radiance, ease the confusion, and help you craft an unshakeable foundation of self-worth. Whether you are seeking guidance, inspiration, a deeper reflection on your life, or knowledge for making your lifetime of being a woman more fulfilling ~ The Midlife Muse podcast is for you. For women of all walks of life, regardless of their origin, religious views, age, or previous experiences, this is a universal platform that unites safe women across the globe.

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