The Real Work with Maggie Sterling

Maggie Sterling
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Can't stop overthinking, emotional eating, or numbing out? You're not broken—you're disconnected from your body. The Real Work helps women break chronic stress, anxiety, and burnout by addressing root causes, not symptoms. Host Maggie Sterling combines neuroscience and nervous system regulation to help you stop self-abandonment, build self-trust, and feel safe in your skin. No toxic positivity—just practical tools for rewiring your brain, regulating emotions, and coming home to yourself. Deep transformation for women ready to stop escaping and start living.

  1. 2D AGO

    22 - The Missing Step in Nervous System Work

    Most nervous system advice is missing something critical — and it kept me stuck for years. If you've tried everything (the breathing exercises, the tapping, the vagus nerve resets, the meditation) and nothing seems to work… you're not broken. You might just be using the wrong tools for where your system actually is. In this episode, I'm breaking down the difference between a dysregulated nervous system and a sensitized nervous system — and why that distinction changes everything about how you heal. Take the quiz to find out if your nervous system is sensitized or dysregulated Join the waitlist for my new program, Soft Regulation for Sensitized Nervous Systems

    24 min

  2. JAN 5

    21 - 3 Things to Avoid When Healing Your Nervous System

    You're doing all the "right" things — the breathing exercises, the meditation apps, the journaling — and you're still anxious. Still wired. Still can't relax. Here's the thing: some of the habits you think are helping are actually keeping your nervous system stuck in survival mode. In this video, I'm sharing 3 things to stop doing if you actually want to feel calm. These aren't obvious mistakes. They're the subtle patterns that keep you in the loop of trying to fix yourself — which is the exact energy that keeps your nervous system on high alert. If you've tried everything and nothing seems to work, this might be why. Soft Regulation System Waitlist

    16 min

  3. 12/29/2025

    20 - What Acceptance Actually Looks Like (It's Not What You Think)

    You've heard that acceptance is the key to healing. But when you try to "accept" your symptoms, nothing changes. That's because acceptance isn't something you do—it's what happens when you stop doing. In this episode, I'm breaking down what acceptance actually looks like in practice (hint: it's not saying affirmations or trying to feel calm). I'll share why your "fix it" energy is keeping you stuck, what to remove before you add anything new, and how to know if you're actually accepting or just using acceptance as another tool. Hw If you've been asking "but HOW do I accept this?"—this one's for you. Soft Regulation System Waitlist

    21 min

  4. 12/22/2025

    19 - How I Quiet My Anxious Mind in 7 Seconds

    I used to have one anxious thought hijack my entire day. Now it passes in about 7 seconds. In this episode, I'm sharing the shift that made this possible—and it's not a breathing technique or a hack. It's understanding the difference between being "anxiety free" and being "free from anxiety." One keeps you stuck. The other is where the suffering actually drops. I'll tell you about a moment I had recently while sick—a scary thought popped up about post-viral symptoms—and what I did differently this time that let it pass in seconds instead of spiraling for hours. If you've been doing all the things and still feel trapped by anxious thoughts, this one's for you. Soft Regulation System Waitlist

    20 min

  5. 12/15/2025

    18 - Why Therapy Wasn't Enough (What No One Told Me)

    For years, I was doing everything therapy told me to do… and somehow, I was still getting worse. More panic. More symptoms. More fear. More confusion. It didn't make sense. Until it finally did. In this episode, I'm sharing the part of healing that talk therapy never explained — the piece I didn't even know I was missing. If you've been in therapy, doing the work, trying your best… but nothing is changing, this conversation is going to make something click. Soft Regulation System Waitlist

    28 min

  6. 12/08/2025

    17 - You're Not Lazy, You're Overstimulated

    Feeling lazy, exhausted, and overstimulated? You're not lazy—your nervous system is maxed out. Learn why you're tired all the time even when you "haven't done anything" and how to rebuild capacity. If you've been calling yourself lazy because you can't seem to make yourself do anything, this episode is for you. What looks like laziness is often a nervous system that's been running at 12 out of 10 for years—maybe decades. Your body is burning massive energy internally through hypervigilance, worry loops, and constant stimulation... even when you're not "doing" anything visible. In this episode, I talk about: Why laziness is almost never the real problem The difference between functional freeze and full freeze How overstimulation drains you without you realizing it Why your exhaustion isn't about today—it's cumulative What's actually happening when you "know what to do but can't do it" This isn't a productivity problem. It's not a willpower problem. It's an overload problem. Soft Regulation System Waitlist

    27 min

  7. 12/01/2025

    16 - 20 Years of Insomnia Healed. Why Didn't Anyone Tell Me This?

    Do you dread nighttime? Does your heart race the moment the sun goes down because you're terrified you won't sleep again? In this episode, I'm sharing my personal journey with insomnia — a battle that started when I was 15 years old and consumed my life for over two decades. I'll walk you through the exact moment everything shifted, the Reddit post that changed my perspective, and the mindset shift that finally broke the cycle. If you've tried every sleep hack, supplement, and strategy with no results, this one's for you. This is the insomnia conversation I wish someone had with me years ago. Work with me

    39 min

  8. 11/24/2025

    15 - Is Your Nervous System On Overdrive Without You Knowing?

    If you're constantly moving like your house is on fire, bracing for impact, or collapsing exhausted every evening - your nervous system is running on overdrive. This episode breaks down why childhood conditioning, unresolved trauma, and urgency addiction keep you in chronic stress mode, plus practical tools to interrupt the pattern. What you'll learn: - Why you unconsciously clench your jaw and raise your shoulders - How childhood hypervigilance became your baseline - The difference between productive and compulsive rushing - Why slowing down initially feels MORE stressful (and what to do about it) - How to signal safety to your body through micro-moments - The "two modes" trap: full throttle or complete collapse Work with me

    33 min
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Can't stop overthinking, emotional eating, or numbing out? You're not broken—you're disconnected from your body. The Real Work helps women break chronic stress, anxiety, and burnout by addressing root causes, not symptoms. Host Maggie Sterling combines neuroscience and nervous system regulation to help you stop self-abandonment, build self-trust, and feel safe in your skin. No toxic positivity—just practical tools for rewiring your brain, regulating emotions, and coming home to yourself. Deep transformation for women ready to stop escaping and start living.

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