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For 18 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast.

Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday.

Listen to this podcast in New York Times Audio, our new iOS app for news subscribers. Download now at nytimes.com/audioapp

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    • Society & Culture
    • 4.4 • 7.8K Ratings

For 18 years, the Modern Love column has given New York Times readers a glimpse into the complicated love lives of real people. Since its start, the column has evolved into a TV show, three books and a podcast.

Each week, host Anna Martin brings you stories and conversations about love in all its glorious permutations, dumb pitfalls and life-changing moments. New episodes every Wednesday.

Listen to this podcast in New York Times Audio, our new iOS app for news subscribers. Download now at nytimes.com/audioapp

    I Needed David Schwimmer’s Help

    I Needed David Schwimmer’s Help

    Samantha Joseph’s childhood was scattered with golden trips to California to visit her Aunt Gail. Aunt Gail was the cool aunt. She worked in Hollywood and befriended actors like Robin Williams, Mayim Bialik and the cast of “Friends.” And yet she was still relatable (she’d get on the floor and play like a kid).

    One day, those trips to California stopped: Aunt Gail no longer wanted to see Samantha’s family. Samantha was devastated, and several years later, she was devastated again by the news that Aunt Gail had died by suicide.

    Today, Samantha shares her search for answers following her aunt’s death and how a conversation with David Schwimmer helped her to heal.

    • 25 min
    Essay Read: I Had To Stop Asking Why

    Essay Read: I Had To Stop Asking Why

    Samantha Joseph reads her Modern Love essay, “I Had to Stop Asking Why.” You can listen to Anna’s interview with Samantha in the “Modern Love” podcast feed - the episode is called “I Needed David Schwimmer’s Help:.

    • 12 min
    Essay Read: How I Lost the Fiancé But Won the Honeymoon

    Essay Read: How I Lost the Fiancé But Won the Honeymoon

    Nell Stephens reads her Modern Love essay, “How I Lost the Financé but Won the Honeymoon.” You can listen to Anna’s interview with Nell in the “Modern Love” podcast feed.


    You can also read Nell’s essay on the New York Times website here.

    • 12 min
    How I Lost the Fiancé But Won the Honeymoon

    How I Lost the Fiancé But Won the Honeymoon

    Bored and in love, Nell Stevens found a hobby combing the internet and entering her name into online contests. But, when she actually wins a prize — a luxury honeymoon in India — her world falls apart: The man she thought she was going to marry breaks up with her.

    She decides to go on the trip anyway.

    On today’s show, the host Anna Martin talks with Nell about her fiancé-less honeymoon — and what she had discovered about herself by the time she returned home.

    • 23 min
    My Invisible Husband

    My Invisible Husband

    The last time David visited his ailing grandmother, he hid his wedding ring in his pocket. He’d never told her about his identity as a gay, married man. Fearful David’s grandmother would disown him, his family never told her about David’s loving marriage with his husband, Constantino. It was an untruth David lived with until the day she died.

    Today, David shares how that untruth left a gaping hole in his relationship with his grandmother — and the power of telling the truth in his eulogy.

    • 14 min
    The Day My Family Changed Forever

    The Day My Family Changed Forever

    Imagine you are on vacation. Your favorite shirt is waiting for you in your suitcase. You go to put it on, only to realize it’s not there. You forgot it, and there’s nothing you can do now.

    That’s an experience that played out time and again for Natalie Muñoz, who split her childhood and adolescence between her parents’ houses after their divorce. Now that she’s turning 18, she tells us how she’s finding a balance that works better for her.

    Then, Modern Love listeners share stories about the moment they knew their parents were really divorcing and how that feeling has lingered throughout their lives.

    • 23 min

Customer Reviews

4.4 out of 5
7.8K Ratings

7.8K Ratings

sorrow56 ,

Used to love this show, but….

These stories used to be refreshing and often surprising perspectives on love but now I usually skip this podcast when it shows up in my feed. The stories have now become too boring and seem to fit a more narrow and conventional view of romantic love. And the interviews with the authors and analysis of the stories which comprise half the podcast make whole thing overdone. Sorry to see yet another jewel of a podcast grow stale.

Elsa elsewhere ,

Miss the original format

Not worth coming back to after years of absence. Charm and format lost…for the worst.

dadpod3 ,

WHY

Why on earth would they change the format of the show?! The beauty of the show was having the opportunity to listen to these amazing essays. That was literally the point of the podcast. Please PLEASE go back to the original format

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