8 episodes

A podcast where we dive deep into what really goes on inside of domestic violence relationships that makes it so hard to simply "just leave". Through stories of survivors, and practical conversations with guests, I am going to put the microscope back on what the abuser is doing that causes us to become so trapped in the first place, and how each survivor was eventually freed. We will discuss what abusive relationships look like, sound like, and feel like for the purpose of educating and relating to one another in a much needed way.
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Why She Stayed Grace Stuart

    • True Crime
    • 5.0 • 17 Ratings

A podcast where we dive deep into what really goes on inside of domestic violence relationships that makes it so hard to simply "just leave". Through stories of survivors, and practical conversations with guests, I am going to put the microscope back on what the abuser is doing that causes us to become so trapped in the first place, and how each survivor was eventually freed. We will discuss what abusive relationships look like, sound like, and feel like for the purpose of educating and relating to one another in a much needed way.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Full Q&A Episode

    Full Q&A Episode

    This is a Q&A style episode where I will be answering all of the questions you asked through Instagram. Any questions we did not cover, I will do in a part 2 episode at some point. All links discussed in the episode will be in my Linktree in my bio on both Tiktok and Instagram.
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    • 1 hr 1 min
    Navigating the Court System & Post Separation Abuse: With Divorce & Custody Coach- @momswithswords

    Navigating the Court System & Post Separation Abuse: With Divorce & Custody Coach- @momswithswords

    On this episode, I have an in-depth conversation with Rachel, (a divorce and custody coach) about what it looks like to navigate pre-separation planning, as well as post-separation abuse while navigating the court system. Rachel shares so much valuable information on what you can practically expect, steps that can help you towards your desired outcome, and tips to stay strong & hopeful in the process.
    Below is the link for the Battered Women's Justice Project which is a FREE resource that you can check out:
    https://bwjp.org/
    Rachel's coaching website is: https://www.greaterthingstocome.com/
    And her Instagram is: @momswithswords

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    • 1 hr 4 min
    Healing from Abuse: Rumination, Dissociation, Building Self-Trust, & More

    Healing from Abuse: Rumination, Dissociation, Building Self-Trust, & More

    Today I am joined by my guest Pearl Velasquez (@resilient.therapy) where we will have an open conversation about healing from abuse. We cover topics such as rumination, dissociation, hypervigilance, building self-assurance, and more. Trigger warning- this episode also contains topics of SA and non-fatal strangulation.
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    • 47 min
    "But he never hit me"- Part 2

    "But he never hit me"- Part 2

    This episode is a part 2 from my story. Some details will be repeated as a recap, but we will discuss topics of infidelity, fear, and more about the turbulence of the cycle of abuse.
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    • 1 hr 8 min
    Inside the Abuser's Mind- with Eleni- Abuse Educator

    Inside the Abuser's Mind- with Eleni- Abuse Educator

    On today's episode, I'm joined by my guest Eleni who is a Certified Domestic Abuse Victim Advocate and author of the book "But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse". Her Tiktok is @nonarcsense and Instagram is @no_narcsense. In this episode, we discuss topics such as why the abuser does what they do, do they believe their own lies, tips to break the trauma bond, does therapy help or hurt, and are they able to change?
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    • 41 min
    A burger at Disney World- Jubilee's Story

    A burger at Disney World- Jubilee's Story

    This week we are hearing a survivor story from Jubilee. She will discuss how a "prophecy" lead her into an abusive relationship/ marriage with a man who had "2 sides" to him, how things escalated over time, and how she eventually escaped. Her Tiktok and IG are @magicwithjubilee
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    • 1 hr 12 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
17 Ratings

17 Ratings

Enitsirhc21 ,

Thank you for this podcast 🙏

I’ve been listening to a lot of self-improvement podcasts, particularly podcasts about domestic violence/abuse, partner NPD and the like. I find it comforting to know I’m not the only one navigating through the difficulties of being in or trying to get out of a toxic relationship. I heard of this podcast from the Not For Nothing podcast today. Grace speaks from experience and she delivers her message in a relatable, genuine, compassionate, and sincere manner, and this podcast truly speaks to me. Thank you 🙏

JoyPostema ,

Amazing!

I came across your page on IG and was crying over a relatable reel and started listening to your podcast for the first time today. I listened to both part 1 and 2 of your story. Thank you so much for sharing. You helped me and I know this will help many other's.

Dr. CassLG ,

What I’ve been needing to hear in recovery from DV

Grace- I found your podcast today and it’s like you’re telling a familiar story but with pieces of clarity and explanation and greater understanding than I have yet to experience elsewhere in my recovery journey.
Grace shares about domestic violence with honest truth and a gentleness for the listener that has been there.
This is helping my struggles with accepting the reality of domestic violence and how sick and sadistic and wrong it is and the cognitive dissonance that I stayed for “so long”. This helps in not feeling so alone, thank you for that.
I appreciate the compassion you have for everyone who has been affected by abusers in all ways, so detrimentally. As you say, these things are not talked about nearly enough so thank you so much for starting this podcast <3

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