Feminine & Ambitious | Habits of a High Value Woman

Ashlina Kaposta
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Helping Busy Women go from Burnt Out to Blissful in Life & Business by learning SPIRITUAL SELF-CARE STRATEGIES, GODDESS MINDSET SHIFTS and WEALTHY WELLNESS HACKS. As women, creatives, mothers and entrepreneurs, we tend to work against our divine nature (femininity) and hustle ourselves into burnout, trying to keep up with everyone else. The purpose of this podcast is to provide a space where we can pause, slow down and recreate our life more intentionally. Let's discuss how to create structures and systems (masculine structures) for us to live in our FEMININE energy. Which is the space where we live and create from blissfully! I am Ashlina Kaposta, an entrepreneur, mentor, author, course creator, blogger and mom. Visit www.ashlinakaposta.com for more.

  1. 2D AGO

    378 | The Female Brain, Empathy, and the Power of Curated Environments

    In this episode, we explore the neuroscience behind empathy, mirror neurons, and why women are especially sensitive to the environments, people, and beliefs they surround themselves with. What if your sensitivity isn't a flaw — but a neurological design? In this episode of Feminine and Ambitious, we explore the science of empathy, mirror neurons, and why women are especially influenced by the environments, people, and beliefs they surround themselves with. You'll learn how the female brain mirrors emotion, confidence, and self-belief — and how both your inner identity and external environment quietly shape how others experience you. This episode unpacks why proximity matters more than motivation, how your self-beliefs are mirrored back to you by others, and why curating your environment, community, and habits is a powerful act of self-respect. You'll learn why finishing what you start builds neurological trust, how identity is reinforced through daily follow-through, and how spaces, art, and community quietly shape who you become. This is not about forcing confidence or pushing yourself harder — it's about understanding how your nervous system learns and choosing mirrors that elevate you. In this episode, we cover: What mirror neurons are and how they influence behavior and emotion Why women experience empathy and emotional contagion more deeply How your self-beliefs are subconsciously mirrored by others The role of integrity and follow-through in building self-trust Why proximity to regulated, ambitious women changes everything How your home and environment program your nervous system Why curation is self-respect — not avoidance ✨ Ready to Go Deeper? Everything I shared in this episode is the energetic foundation behind my work, especially my High Vibe Home workshop that teaches you how to curate a harmonious and grounding home.  If you'd like to experience it in a tangible way, start with my free 7-Day Glow Up Challenge — it's designed to help you recalibrate your energy, habits, and self-trust. And if you're ready to build a brand or business from this place of alignment, clarity, and calm authority, you'll find this philosophy fully embodied inside Shine Online Digital Wealth Mastermind If you want to learn more about building a personal brand, download my FREE ebook guide 'The Passionista Playbook here ***WELCOME TO MY WORLD*** 💌  Grab my FREE 7-day Glow Up Challenge &  personal development love letters  💻 Read my blog: ashlinakaposta.com 📖 Check out my my collection of e-books 🎥 Watch my videos on YouTube 👋 Connect with me on Tik Tok & Instagram @ashlinakaposta 👉 Shop my favorites in books, spirituality & skincare

    20 min
  2. You Might Also Like: On Purpose with Jay Shetty

    2D AGO · BONUS

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    Introducing Dating Expert Sabrina Zohar: You’re Not Confused, You’re Ignoring the Signs (THIS Mindset Shift Will End the “What If” Loop for Good) from On Purpose with Jay Shetty. Follow the show: On Purpose with Jay Shetty Why do we chase people who don’t choose us, confuse anxiety for attraction, and stay in relationships that leave us questioning our worth?  Today, Jay sits down with Sabrina Zohar, podcast host and one of the most influential voices in modern dating, to unpack the emotional patterns that quietly shape how we love. Drawing from her own healing journey and work with thousands of clients, Sabrina explains how our childhood experiences, nervous system responses, and unhealed wounds influence who we’re drawn to often without us realizing it. Together, Jay and Sabrina explore what emotional availability really looks like, why consistency matters more than intensity, and how boundaries aren’t about pushing people away but protecting your peace. They break down common dating traps, from overanalyzing texts to mistaking butterflies for chemistry, and reveal why self-advocacy is one of the most important relationship skills we’re never taught. Through practical insights and deeply personal stories, Sabrina shows why asking for what you need isn’t “too much,” and why love should feel safe, not confusing. In this interview, you'll learn: How to Stop Chasing People Who Don’t Choose You How to Date Without Abandoning Yourself How to Set Boundaries Without Fear of Losing Someone How to Recognize Emotional Availability Early How to Break the Cycle of Situationships How to Ask for What You Need Without Feeling “Too Much” How to Stop Confusing Intensity for Intimacy You don’t need to chase clarity, overperform for love, or silence your needs to be chosen. Real connection begins when you feel safe enough to be honest, brave enough to set boundaries, and grounded enough to walk away from what doesn’t honor you. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here.  Check out our Apple subscription to unlock bonus content of On Purpose! https://lnk.to/JayShettyPodcast  What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:01 How to Tell If Someone Is Truly Interested 02:52 Why You Date the Parts of You That Aren’t Healed 06:04 Understanding Your Emotional State Before You Date 07:59 Don’t Ignore These Red Flags! 10:33 What Should a Healthy, Secure Relationship Feel Like? 13:34 Why Slowing Down Creates Real Connection 20:07 What’s Really Draining You About Dating? 24:09 Your Partner Will Trigger You, That’s Okay! 29:03 Building a Strong Foundation for Dating 32:45 How to Advocate for Yourself Without Fear of Losing Them 39:20 Are You Feeling Alone? 42:03 How to Spot Emotional Unavailability Early  44:51 Why Boundaries Are Non-Negotiable 46:56 How to Be Honest About Your Feelings 50:20 How to Communicate Your Needs Clearly 54:52 Why Relationships Must Support Growth 56:57 Timing Is Not a Reason to Hold On 59:23 Texting Etiquette in Modern Dating 01:12:33 Why Real Change Takes Time and Practice 01:18:36 Dating Rapid Fire  Episode Resources: Website | https://www.sabrinazohar.com/   Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/sabrina.zohar  YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@sabrina_zohar  TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrina.zohar   Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/p/The-Sabrina-Zohar-Show-100094409286590/  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to team@podroll.fm.

  3. FEB 2

    377 | The 5 Feminine Boundaries Every Woman Needs to Grow Her Business, Brand & Bank Account

    In this episode, I'm sharing a framework I've lived by for years, long before concepts like nervous system regulation and holistic success became mainstream. Drawing from feng shui, Chinese life principles, and feminine leadership, we explore why so many women feel burned out, scattered, or stuck — and how boundaries, when practiced femininely, actually create flow instead of restriction. This conversation reframes boundaries not as rigid rules, but as energetic containers — the architecture that allows creativity, visibility, wealth, and intuition to expand safely. At the center of this episode are the five elements — Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal, and Water — and how each one corresponds to a feminine boundary that supports sustainable success in business, personal branding, and money. ✨ In This Episode, We Explore: Why hustle culture fails women (and what ancient systems understood instead) How feng shui extends far beyond your home and into your body, work, and decisions Why boundaries are not masculine — they're a feminine necessity How misaligned energy leads women to overwork instead of real momentum The difference between forcing success and creating the conditions for it ✨ Ready to Go Deeper? Everything I shared in this episode is the energetic foundation behind my work. If you'd like to experience it in a tangible way, start with my free 7-Day Glow Up Challenge — it's designed to help you recalibrate your energy, habits, and self-trust. And if you're ready to build a brand or business from this place of alignment, clarity, and calm authority, you'll find this philosophy fully embodied inside Shine Online Digital Wealth Mastermind If you want to learn more about building a personal brand, download my FREE ebook guide 'The Passionista Playbook here ***WELCOME TO MY WORLD*** 💌  Grab my FREE 7-day Glow Up Challenge &  personal development love letters  💻 Read my blog: ashlinakaposta.com 📖 Check out my my collection of e-books 🎥 Watch my videos on YouTube 👋 Connect with me on Tik Tok & Instagram @ashlinakaposta 👉 Shop my favorites in books, spirituality & skincare

    30 min

  4. JAN 29

    376 | From Hiding to Iconic: The Spiritual Power of Personal Style in Your Glow-Up Era

    In this episode, we talk about why personal style is not superficial — it's spiritual. Your clothes are energy. Your colors are signals. And the way you dress often reveals whether you're still protecting an old version of yourself… or stepping into your next era of abundance. In this episode, we explore: What the Year of the Snake has been teaching us about shedding, truth, and quiet endings The bold, visible, magnetic energy of the Fire Horse — and why hiding no longer works How relationships can subtly mute self-expression (without us even realizing it) Why personal style is often the first place we hide — and the first place we reclaim power A real-life moment that reminded me how embodiment changes how the world responds to you The difference between dressing to belong vs. dressing to lead Why abundance, confidence, and visibility are deeply connected to how you show up visually A practical takeaway you can apply immediately: I walk you through a simple but powerful style activation ritual — from creating a style vision board, identifying the colors you're craving, discovering your color season, and choosing one bold piece that stretches you into the woman you're becoming. Because this glow-up isn't about trends. It's about permission. And Fire Horse energy rewards women who are willing to be seen. If you've felt the urge to shed an old skin… If you know you're not meant to blend in anymore… This episode is your invitation to step fully into your iconic era. Ready to go deeper? This is the work we do inside Shine Online — learning how to communicate with clarity, build confidence through visibility, and turn your voice into authority and income without burning out. January enrollment is closing, and when you join this month, you'll also receive my Pinterest Masterclass for free — a powerful tool for long-term visibility that compounds over time. 💫 Click here to join Shine Online Digital Wealth Mastermind 💫 Our next live call is happening in just a few days Your next level isn't hidden. It's waiting for you to be seen. If you want to learn more about building a personal brand, download my FREE ebook guide 'The Passionista Playbook here ***WELCOME TO MY WORLD*** 💌  Grab my FREE 7-day Glow Up Challenge &  personal development love letters  💻 Read my blog: ashlinakaposta.com 📖 Check out my my collection of e-books 🎥 Watch my videos on YouTube 👋 Connect with me on Tik Tok & Instagram @ashlinakaposta 👉 Shop my favorites in books, spirituality & skincare

    34 min

  5. JAN 27

    375 | The Femininity Formula for Turning presence into income through vulnerability and visibility

    Vulnerability + Visibility = Virality The cheat code to your next level of confidence, connection, and income What if virality wasn't about algorithms, trends, or posting more — but about letting yourself be seen before you feel ready? In this episode, I'm breaking down the real relationship between vulnerability, visibility, and virality, and why most women stay invisible not because they lack talent — but because they're waiting for confidence that only comes after they show up. I'm sharing my own real-time experience with returning to my art, posting imperfect sketches, and allowing people to witness the process — and how that vulnerability created deeper connection, conversations, and momentum than perfection ever could. In this episode, we talk about: Why visibility is a skill, not a personality trait How vulnerability builds confidence after execution Why most women hide their becoming — and what it costs them The difference between performing online vs. communicating clearly How visibility creates trust, authority, and opportunities Why virality is often a byproduct of resonance, not strategy If you've been feeling called to share more of yourself — your ideas, your creativity, your perspective — but fear has been holding you back, this episode is your permission slip. ✨ You don't need to be ready. ✨ You need to be visible. Ready to go deeper? This is the work we do inside Shine Online — learning how to communicate with clarity, build confidence through visibility, and turn your voice into authority and income without burning out. January enrollment is closing, and when you join this month, you'll also receive my Pinterest Masterclass for free — a powerful tool for long-term visibility that compounds over time. 💫 Click here to join Shine Online Digital Wealth Mastermind 💫 Our next live call is happening in just a few days Your next level isn't hidden. It's waiting for you to be seen. If you want to learn more about building a personal brand, download my FREE ebook guide 'The Passionista Playbook here ***WELCOME TO MY WORLD*** 💌  Receive my FREE weekly personal development love letters  💻 Read my blog: ashlinakaposta.com 📖 Check out my my collection of e-books 🎥 Watch my videos on YouTube 👋 Connect with me on Tik Tok & Instagram @ashlinakaposta 👉 Shop my favorites in books, spirituality & skincare

    20 min

  6. JAN 21

    374 | How to Find Your Brand Archetype and Shift from Influencer to Icon

    What if the reason your content doesn't feel magnetic has nothing to do with strategy—and everything to do with embodiment? In this episode, I'm sharing a deeply intuitive conversation about creativity, identity, and what actually makes a personal brand powerful, recognizable, and sustainable. We explore the difference between being an influencer and becoming an embodied creator—someone whose presence feels like comfort, whose content feels grounding, and whose message lands because it's lived, not performed. And that's exactly what most creators are missing online. In this episode, we cover: Why influencers ask for attention, but embodied creators give people a safe place to land How regulation and presence create trust and magnetism Why your environment, energy, and creativity are deeply connected What your "signature sauce" really is—and why it matters How discovering your brand archetype brings clarity, confidence, and coherence to your content Why embodied creation leads to sustainable income (without forcing, chasing, or burning out) I also share how finding my own brand archetype transformed the way I create, lead, and build—and why I show up not just as a creator, but as a guide, stabilizer, and ruler inside my work. ✨ This is the work we do inside Shine Online: Digital Wealth Mastermind Shine Online is where you stop trying to keep up with content trends and start building a brand that feels like you. Inside, I teach you how to identify your brand archetype, clarify your message, and create content that's recognizable, resonant, and income-supportive—all within a grounded, supportive community. If you're ready to move from influencer energy to icon energy… If you're craving clarity, cohesion, and confidence in what you create… Shine Online is your next step. If you want to learn more about building a personal brand, download my FREE ebook guide 'The Passionista Playbook here ***WELCOME TO MY WORLD*** 💌  Receive my FREE weekly personal development love letters  💻 Read my blog: ashlinakaposta.com 📖 Check out my my collection of e-books 🎥 Watch my videos on YouTube 👋 Connect with me on Tik Tok & Instagram @ashlinakaposta 👉 Shop my favorites in books, spirituality & skincare

    31 min

  7. JAN 15

    373 | Your Ego Is Killing Your Business (Here's How to Fix It)

    Why Posting More Isn't the Answer (And What to Fix Instead) If you've been showing up consistently online—posting, sharing, creating—and still hearing crickets, this episode is for you. So many women have been taught that growth comes from doing more: more posts, more content, more effort. But what I've seen again and again—both in my own journey and while working with women inside my mastermind—is that posting more has never been the thing that builds powerful, magnetic personal brands. In this episode, we're going deeper than content strategy. We're talking about clarity, ego, and why creating from self-image instead of service is often the invisible block holding women back. I'm sharing: Why "post more" is actually burnout advice for women The real reason content falls flat (and why it's rarely the algorithm) How ego quietly interferes with clarity and decision-making A personal story of starting a business from ego—and what it taught me How I use the birth chart (rising sign, descendant, and Chiron) to get soul-level clarity on who I'm here to serve Why your 40s activate deeper alignment with your purpose and message How true clarity leads to less posting—but stronger resonance and response When you know who your soul is here to help, content stops feeling forced. You don't need to post more—you have more to say, and it lands differently. If you want to learn more about building a personal brand, download my FREE ebook guide 'The Passionista Playbook here 🤍 Your Best Year Yet is waiting for you!  This episode reflects the philosophy behind all of my courses and everything I teach — how to live with more presence, confidence, and self-trust, and how to turn your life, perspective, and lived experience into something meaningful and sustainable. What I'm most excited to invite you into for the coming year is Shine Online: Digital Wealth Mastermind. ***WELCOME TO MY WORLD*** 💌  Receive my FREE weekly personal development love letters  💻 Read my blog: ashlinakaposta.com 📖 Check out my my collection of e-books 🎥 Watch my videos on YouTube 👋 Connect with me on Tik Tok & Instagram @ashlinakaposta 👉 Shop my favorites in books, spirituality & skincare

    27 min

  8. JAN 13

    372 | 10 Powerful Truths: Why Your 40s Are the Beginning of Your Online Creator Era

    Why Women Are Meant to Create & Why This Is Our Time There comes a moment in a woman's life — especially in midlife — when something inside her begins to stir. Not because her life is broken. Not because she's behind. But because something within her wants to be born. In this episode, I'm sharing a powerful conversation inspired by The Art of Creating by Joseph Nguyen — and why creation is not a luxury for women, but a biological, emotional, and spiritual need. We talk about why so many women feel restless, anxious, or disconnected… and how that feeling is often the result of unexpressed creative energy. This episode is especially for women in their 40s and beyond who feel the pull to create, teach, share, or express — but wonder if they're too late, too old, or missed their moment. You didn't. You're right on time. ✨ In This Episode, We Explore: Why women are natural creators and birthers — of ideas, wisdom, and purpose What happens emotionally and energetically when women suppress creativity Why midlife (40s and beyond) is actually a creative initiation, not a decline How Saturn's timing supports women stepping into visibility and leadership Why the creator economy is opening doors for women with lived experience The difference between forcing creativity vs. allowing it Why creation heals the nervous system and builds self-trust How creating online can be gentle, grounded, and aligned 🤍 Your Best Year Yet is waiting for you!  This episode reflects the philosophy behind all of my courses and everything I teach — how to live with more presence, confidence, and self-trust, and how to turn your life, perspective, and lived experience into something meaningful and sustainable. What I'm most excited to invite you into for the coming year is Shine Online: Digital Wealth Mastermind. ***WELCOME TO MY WORLD*** 💌  Receive my FREE weekly personal development love letters  💻 Read my blog: ashlinakaposta.com 📖 Check out my my collection of e-books 🎥 Watch my videos on YouTube 👋 Connect with me on Tik Tok & Instagram @ashlinakaposta 👉 Shop my favorites in books, spirituality & skincare

    27 min
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Helping Busy Women go from Burnt Out to Blissful in Life & Business by learning SPIRITUAL SELF-CARE STRATEGIES, GODDESS MINDSET SHIFTS and WEALTHY WELLNESS HACKS. As women, creatives, mothers and entrepreneurs, we tend to work against our divine nature (femininity) and hustle ourselves into burnout, trying to keep up with everyone else. The purpose of this podcast is to provide a space where we can pause, slow down and recreate our life more intentionally. Let's discuss how to create structures and systems (masculine structures) for us to live in our FEMININE energy. Which is the space where we live and create from blissfully! I am Ashlina Kaposta, an entrepreneur, mentor, author, course creator, blogger and mom. Visit www.ashlinakaposta.com for more.

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