Healing Our Relationships: From Codependency to Authenticity

Marisa La Fata

Healing Our Relationships is a transformational podcast guiding listeners into the deeper work of relational healing, self-trust, and spiritual awakening. Hosted by Marisa La Fata—Insight Timer Meditation Teacher, Intuitive, Transformation Guide, and a woman with more than 18 years of lived recovery and spiritual practice—this podcast offers a grounded, heart-centered path back to the truth of who you are. Marisa's work blends psychology, codependency recovery, addiction healing, Toltec wisdom, trauma-awareness, and soul-level spiritual practice. She is known for her ability to translate complex inner work into clear, embodied, compassionate guidance—rooted in her lived experience of awakening and her commitment to helping others return to themselves. Each episode invites listeners beneath the surface of codependency—not just the behaviors, but the origin: the fear, the survival strategies, the inherited agreements, and the inner narratives that once kept us safe but now keep us small. With her signature depth and clarity, Marisa explores patterns such as people-pleasing, avoidance, projection, control, hypervigilance, and self-abandonment, showing how each one formed and how to shift them with compassion rather than shame. Listeners learn how to: • Identify the unconscious agreements shaping their relationships • Differentiate fear from intuition, trauma from truth • Set boundaries without collapsing into guilt • See themselves through the lens of their soul rather than their history • Heal from old relational wounds and learn to trust their inner voice • Build relationships rooted in courage, clarity, honesty, and love Whether you're navigating partnership, friendship, family dynamics, or your own inner patterns, this podcast is ultimately about coming home to the most important relationship you will ever have—the one with yourself. Learn more about Marisa's 1:1 journeys and group offerings at www.healwithalchemy.com

  1. Your New Companion: The Healing Our Relationships Workbook

    MAY 11

    Your New Companion: The Healing Our Relationships Workbook

    Season 2 is here! And I am bringing something tangible with it! 📖  Hello Journeyers! I am so excited to open this season with a companion to your journey. Inspired by all of your emails asking for the tools to really transform painful relationship patterns, I have spent the last seven months devoted to creating the Healing Our Relationships From Codependency to Authenticity Workbook. In this episode, I share the story behind its creation and the recovery and devotion that went into it. This isn't your average workbook. It's a journey of deep and powerful transformation inspired by 18 years of soul recovery, that offers mind, body, and spirit teachings and tools to support you in healing painful relationship patterns, while simultaneously offering you a powerful way to nurture and grow a deep and loving relationship with yourself.  PRESALE IS OPEN! USE THE PROMO CODE: PODCAST  Read the Back Cover👇 A Compassionate Guide To Understanding The Patterns That Once Protected You  Whether you know the C-word, "Codependency,"and feel ready for this book, or the word itself makes you recoil from it like a hot flame, I promise this journey will surprise you, and hopefully inspire you to pass it on to a friend. Codependency is often misunderstood. It is not just people-pleasing or insecurity, it lives on a spectrum that almost everyone dances on. It shows up in the one who over-gives and the one who withdraws, in the perfectionist, the caretaker, the person who stays guarded, and the one who has spent years abandoning themselves to keep the peace. If you have ever related to others from a place of fear rather than authenticity, this book was written for you. Inspired by the author's beloved Healing Our Relationships podcast, this workbook draws from eighteen years of lived spiritual exploration. The workbook does not ask you to see yourself as broken, or to become someone better, but simply to remember and return to the authentic truth of who you already are. Through a lens of compassionate curiosity you will explore five core areas of codependent patterns, patterns many of us adapted to survive when our needs, feelings, and truth felt unsafe to express. Each area is explored through a five-step inquiry process that reveals the pattern, honors its origin, acknowledges the cost, and re-orients you towards new possibilities. Then, it brings it all into the practice of daily life. This is where the mind stops running old patterns on autopilot, the nervous system begins to heal, and you reclaim the power of choice. You are not here to judge yourself or label yourself as being codependent. You are here to honor what once protected you and to reclaim the parts of yourself that got lost along the way. If you have spent years abandoning yourself, shape-shifting for others, staying walled off or emotionally unavailable, or repeating painful relationship patterns, this is your invitation back to the most important relationship of all- the one you have with yourself. Head to https://www.healwithalchemy.com/presale use the Promo Code: PODCAST to pre-order the book at a special discount.  Follow our NEW  instagram page @soulalchemyhealing  The book and our new website will be live June First @  www.healingourrelationships.com  Work with me 1:1 or set up a free connection call @ https://www.healwithalchemy.com/coaching See you next week!

    32 min
  2. Season Two Is Back! Teaser Trailer!

    SEASON 2 TRAILER

    Season Two Is Back! Teaser Trailer!

    Welcome Back! I'm Marisa, Transformation Guide, Insight Timer Meditation, and a woman who has spent over 18 years walking her own road through addiction, codependency, and soul recovery. This is Season 2 of The Healing Our Relationships: From Codependency to Authenticity.  Last season was an invitation to step into compassionate awareness. To ask yourself where codependent patterns show up in your relationship to yourself and others. This season, we heal it at a deeper level. In the mind, body and spirit. I am going to have incredible guests for you AND the Healing Our Relationships Workbook will be available for purchase in a few weeks!  I spent the last six months devoted to creating a journey of healing and transformation that you can tangibly follow and hold. I gave it ALL of me and believe I have created something special and powerful for lasting change.  📖 Want to Dive Deeper? Get The Workbook!  PRESALE IS OPEN! USE THE PROMO CODE: PODCAST  Read the Back Cover👇 A Compassionate Guide To Understanding The Patterns That Once Protected You  Whether you know the C-word, "Codependency,"and feel ready for this book, or the word itself makes you recoil from it like a hot flame, I promise this journey will surprise you, and hopefully inspire you to pass it on to a friend. Codependency is often misunderstood. It is not just people-pleasing or insecurity, it lives on a spectrum that almost everyone dances on. It shows up in the one who over-gives and the one who withdraws, in the perfectionist, the caretaker, the person who stays guarded, and the one who has spent years abandoning themselves to keep the peace. If you have ever related to others from a place of fear rather than authenticity, this book was written for you. Inspired by the author's beloved Healing Our Relationships podcast, this workbook draws from eighteen years of lived spiritual exploration. The workbook does not ask you to see yourself as broken, or to become someone better, but simply to remember and return to the authentic truth of who you already are. Through a lens of compassionate curiosity you will explore five core areas of codependent patterns, patterns many of us adapted to survive when our needs, feelings, and truth felt unsafe to express. Each area is explored through a five-step inquiry process that reveals the pattern, honors its origin, acknowledges the cost, and re-orients you towards new possibilities. Then, it brings it all into the practice of daily life. This is where the mind stops running old patterns on autopilot, the nervous system begins to heal, and you reclaim the power of choice. You are not here to judge yourself or label yourself as being codependent. You are here to honor what once protected you and to reclaim the parts of yourself that got lost along the way. If you have spent years abandoning yourself, shape-shifting for others, staying walled off or emotionally unavailable, or repeating painful relationship patterns, this is your invitation back to the most important relationship of all- the one you have with yourself. Head to https://www.healwithalchemy.com/presale use the Promo Code: PODCAST to pre-order the book at a special discount.  Follow our NEW  instagram page @soulalchemyhealing  The book and our new website will be live June First @  www.healingourrelationships.com  Work with me 1:1 or set up a free connection call @ https://www.healwithalchemy.com/coaching

    6 min
  3. Embodied Self-Trust: Living From Your Heart Center | Lesson 8

    JAN 19 ·  BONUS

    Embodied Self-Trust: Living From Your Heart Center | Lesson 8

    This final lesson is an invitation to continue walking between your inner and outer worlds. Everything you've experienced in this course — your landscape, your guides, the symbols, the sensations, the clarity that rises from within — becomes truly transformative when you nourish it and bring it into your daily life. Integration is not an ending. It is the beginning of living from your heart center — using your body as your compass, your intuition as your guide, and your inner world as a place you can return to again and again. This lesson is a reminder that the doorway is always open, and you now have everything you need to continue the journey within. Please download my free mediation app HealSpace https://healspaceapp.com You will hear me refrence mediation journeys and they can all be found here. I'm Marisa, Insight Timer Meditation Teacher and Transformation Guide and I am bringing this Insight Timer Course to you here on the Healing Our Relationships Podcast. This course is a bridge into embodied transformation: To become deeply connected to yourself and your inner world where your intuition, boundaries, and truth actually live. Through heart-centered visioning practices, guided inner exploration, and embodied teachings, you will learn how to: Enter your heart center with intention and clarity Navigate the inner landscapes that arise through visioning Understand the symbols, sensations, and imagery that come forward Connect with your intuition, inner guidance, and helping energies Strengthen self-trust and emotional regulation Shift out of mind-made stories and into truth Build new neural pathways that support healing and transformation Develop a deeper, more grounded relationship with yourself Access the unseen wisdom and spiritual connection already within you If you are ready to stop circling the same patterns and start living differently book a Free Connection Call with me to see how a 12-week guided 1:1 journey can help you rebuild trust with yourself and step into the life of radial self-acceptance and embodied love.  Book your connection call here 📖 Want to Dive Deeper? Get The Workbook!  PRESALE IS OPEN! USE THE PROMO CODE: PODCAST  Read the Back Cover👇 A Compassionate Guide To Understanding The Patterns That Once Protected You  Whether you know the C-word, "Codependency,"and feel ready for this book, or the word itself makes you recoil from it like a hot flame, I promise this journey will surprise you, and hopefully inspire you to pass it on to a friend. Codependency is often misunderstood. It is not just people-pleasing or insecurity, it lives on a spectrum that almost everyone dances on. It shows up in the one who over-gives and the one who withdraws, in the perfectionist, the caretaker, the person who stays guarded, and the one who has spent years abandoning themselves to keep the peace. If you have ever related to others from a place of fear rather than authenticity, this book was written for you. Inspired by the author's beloved Healing Our Relationships podcast, this workbook draws from eighteen years of lived spiritual exploration. The workbook does not ask you to see yourself as broken, or to become someone better, but simply to remember and return to the authentic truth of who you already are. Through a lens of compassionate curiosity you will explore five core areas of codependent patterns, patterns many of us adapted to survive when our needs, feelings, and truth felt unsafe to express. Each area is explored through a five-step inquiry process that reveals the pattern, honors its origin, acknowledges the cost, and re-orients you towards new possibilities. Then, it brings it all into the practice of daily life. This is where the mind stops running old patterns on autopilot, the nervous system begins to heal, and you reclaim the power of choice. You are not here to judge yourself or label yourself as being codependent. You are here to honor what once protected you and to reclaim the parts of yourself that got lost along the way. If you have spent years abandoning yourself, shape-shifting for others, staying walled off or emotionally unavailable, or repeating painful relationship patterns, this is your invitation back to the most important relationship of all- the one you have with yourself. Head to https://www.healwithalchemy.com/presale use the Promo Code: PODCAST to pre-order the book at a special discount.  Follow our NEW instagram page @healingourrelationships The book and our new website will be live June First @  www.healingourrelationships.com  Work with me 1:1 or set up a free connection call @ https://www.healwithalchemy.com/coaching

    7 min
  4. Embodied Self-Trust: Meditatie & Explore Your Great Within | Lesson Seven

    JAN 19 ·  BONUS

    Embodied Self-Trust: Meditatie & Explore Your Great Within | Lesson Seven

    In lesson seven you'll move beyond theory and into direct experience. You'll be guided through a deep inner journey designed to attune your body, heart, and energy field to receiving authentic guidance from within. After the journey, you'll be given space for integration through journaling or creative expression. This lesson is a ceremonial doorway — a chance to experience your inner guidance directly and anchor it into your waking life. Please download my free mediation app HealSpace https://healspaceapp.com You will hear me refrence mediation journeys and they can all be found here. I'm Marisa, Insight Timer Meditation Teacher and Transformation Guide and I am bringing this Insight Timer Course to you here on the Healing Our Relationships Podcast. This course is a bridge into embodied transformation: To become deeply connected to yourself and your inner world where your intuition, boundaries, and truth actually live. Through heart-centered visioning practices, guided inner exploration, and embodied teachings, you will learn how to: Enter your heart center with intention and clarity Navigate the inner landscapes that arise through visioning Understand the symbols, sensations, and imagery that come forward Connect with your intuition, inner guidance, and helping energies Strengthen self-trust and emotional regulation Shift out of mind-made stories and into truth Build new neural pathways that support healing and transformation Develop a deeper, more grounded relationship with yourself Access the unseen wisdom and spiritual connection already within you Follow me on Instagram @soulalchemyhealing Join my Mailing List at www.healwithalchemy.com Email me with any questions or if you need any support marisa@healwithalchemy.com Book a free connection call if you feel called to work 1:1 and dive deeper into this work.

    28 min
  5. Embodied Self-Trust: Receiving Inner Guidance | Lesson Six

    JAN 19 ·  BONUS

    Embodied Self-Trust: Receiving Inner Guidance | Lesson Six

    In lesson Six you'll learn how to receive inner guidance in the way it was always meant to be received — through the body, not the mind. You'll explore how visioning invites you to enter a state of somatic receptivity — a shift in your nervous system that opens the door to your inner world. From this place, guidance doesn't need to be forced or figured out. It rises on its own. Visioning works because it bypasses the mind's defenses. It reveals the truth beneath the Ego's story and narrative. And when the body feels that truth, the ego can no longer hold onto its old perception. The imagery becomes so real. When it is felt physically, emotionally, and energetically, the ego mind reorganizes itself around what you've experienced. This is why people have breakthroughs during inner journeys: not because they understand something new, but because they feel something true. In this lesson You'll learn how to receive guidance directly through the body's intelligence — the place where transformation actually happens. Please download my free mediation app HealSpace https://healspaceapp.com/ You will hear me refrence mediation journeys and they can all be found here. I'm Marisa, Insight Timer Meditation Teacher and Transformation Guide and I am bringing this Insight Timer Course to you here on the Healing Our Relationships Podcast. This course is a bridge into embodied transformation: To become deeply connected to yourself and your inner world where your intuition, boundaries, and truth actually live. Through heart-centered visioning practices, guided inner exploration, and embodied teachings, you will learn how to: Enter your heart center with intention and clarity Navigate the inner landscapes that arise through visioning Understand the symbols, sensations, and imagery that come forward Connect with your intuition, inner guidance, and helping energies Strengthen self-trust and emotional regulation Shift out of mind-made stories and into truth Build new neural pathways that support healing and transformation Develop a deeper, more grounded relationship with yourself Access the unseen wisdom and spiritual connection already within you Follow me on Instagram @soulalchemyhealing Join my Mailing List at www.healwithalchemy.com Email me with any questions or if you need any support marisa@healwithalchemy.com Book a free connection call if you feel called to work 1:1 and dive deeper into this work.

    22 min
  6. Embodied Self-Trust: Strengthening Intuition | Lesson Five

    JAN 19 ·  BONUS

    Embodied Self-Trust: Strengthening Intuition | Lesson Five

    In lesson five you'll learn how to strengthen self-trust by following the first images, sensations, and impressions that arise in your heart center. Instead of analyzing or searching for meaning, you'll explore how intuitive truth reveals itself through feeling, symbolism, and subtle inner knowing. You'll learn why the first impression is often the clearest, how to stay with what appears instead of trying to control it, and how to navigate the difference between a visceral no, avoidance, resistance, and a genuine growth edge. You'll also explore how doubt shows up inside your inner landscape, and how imagination becomes a bridge— not a barrier— to intuitive clarity. This lesson includes a rapid-fire "visioning flashcard" practice to help you tune into your inner vision quickly and naturally. Through these exercises, you'll begin building a deeper relationship with your inner world, learning to receive without pressure, soften into the unknown, and trust what arises within you. Please download my free mediation app HealSpace https://healspaceapp.com/ You will hear me refrence mediation journeys and they can all be found here. I'm Marisa, Insight Timer Meditation Teacher and Transformation Guide and I am bringing this Insight Timer Course to you here on the Healing Our Relationships Podcast. This course is a bridge into embodied transformation: To become deeply connected to yourself and your inner world where your intuition, boundaries, and truth actually live. Through heart-centered visioning practices, guided inner exploration, and embodied teachings, you will learn how to: Enter your heart center with intention and clarity Navigate the inner landscapes that arise through visioning Understand the symbols, sensations, and imagery that come forward Connect with your intuition, inner guidance, and helping energies Strengthen self-trust and emotional regulation Shift out of mind-made stories and into truth Build new neural pathways that support healing and transformation Develop a deeper, more grounded relationship with yourself Access the unseen wisdom and spiritual connection already within you Follow me on Instagram @soulalchemyhealing Join my Mailing List at www.healwithalchemy.com Email me with any questions or if you need any support marisa@healwithalchemy.com Book a free connection call if you feel called to work 1:1 and dive deeper into this work.

    27 min
  7. Embodied Self-Trust: Discern Between Your Ego & Your Soul | Lesson Four

    JAN 19 ·  BONUS

    Embodied Self-Trust: Discern Between Your Ego & Your Soul | Lesson Four

    In lesson four you'll learn how to discern between the voice of the ego and the voice of the soul by working inside your heart center. Rather than thinking your way into clarity, you'll discover how your inner landscape reveals the energetic difference between fear and truth. You'll explore the qualities of ego and soul as archetypal forces within you, learn how they feel inside your inner realm, and understand the dance between them. This lesson teaches you how to bring situations from your outer life into your heart center for clarity, compassion, and soul-led direction. Please donwnload my free mediation app HealSpace: www.healspaceapp.com You will hear me refrence mediation journeys and they can all be found here. I'm Marisa, Insight Timer Meditation Teacher and Transformation Guide and I am bringing this Insight Timer Course to you here on the Healing Our Relationships Podcast. This course is a bridge into embodied transformation: To become deeply connected to yourself and your inner world where your intuition, boundaries, and truth actually live. Through heart-centered visioning practices, guided inner exploration, and embodied teachings, you will learn how to: Enter your heart center with intention and clarity Navigate the inner landscapes that arise through visioning Understand the symbols, sensations, and imagery that come forward Connect with your intuition, inner guidance, and helping energies Strengthen self-trust and emotional regulation Shift out of mind-made stories and into truth Build new neural pathways that support healing and transformation Develop a deeper, more grounded relationship with yourself Access the unseen wisdom and spiritual connection already within you   Email me with any questions or if you need any support marisa@healwithalchemy.com Book a free connection call if you feel called to work 1:1 and dive deeper into this work. Follow me on Instagram @soulalchemyhealing  Join My Mailing list  www.healwithalchemy.com

    20 min
  8. Embodied Self-Trust: A Meditation Journey | Lesson Three

    JAN 19 ·  BONUS

    Embodied Self-Trust: A Meditation Journey | Lesson Three

    In lesson three you're guided fully into your inner realm — the living landscape within your heart center. You'll prepare your body by lying close to the earth, grounding into your breath, and softening into receptivity. Through breath, visualization, and the spiral of light in your heart, you'll cross the veil into your landscape, explore its elements, and meet a helping spirit animal or guide. This journey helps you receive symbols, colors, sensations, and intuitive messages from your soul. Afterward, you'll process through journaling or art to honor what emerged. Please download my free mediation app HealSpace https://healspaceapp.com/  You will hear me refrence mediation journeys and they can all be found here. Email me with any questions or if you need any support marisa@healwithalchemy.com Book a free connection call if you feel called to work 1:1 and dive deeper into this work. I'm Marisa, Insight Timer Meditation Teacher and Transformation Guide and I am bringing this Insight Timer Course to you here on the Healing Our Relationships Podcast. This course is a bridge into embodied transformation: To become deeply connected to yourself and your inner world where your intuition, boundaries, and truth actually live. Through heart-centered visioning practices, guided inner exploration, and embodied teachings, you will learn how to: Enter your heart center with intention and clarity Navigate the inner landscapes that arise through visioning Understand the symbols, sensations, and imagery that come forward Connect with your intuition, inner guidance, and helping energies Strengthen self-trust and emotional regulation Shift out of mind-made stories and into truth Build new neural pathways that support healing and transformation Develop a deeper, more grounded relationship with yourself Access the unseen wisdom and spiritual connection already within you Follow me on Instagram @soulalchemyhealing  Join my Mailing List at www.healwithalchemy.com

    29 min

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Healing Our Relationships is a transformational podcast guiding listeners into the deeper work of relational healing, self-trust, and spiritual awakening. Hosted by Marisa La Fata—Insight Timer Meditation Teacher, Intuitive, Transformation Guide, and a woman with more than 18 years of lived recovery and spiritual practice—this podcast offers a grounded, heart-centered path back to the truth of who you are. Marisa's work blends psychology, codependency recovery, addiction healing, Toltec wisdom, trauma-awareness, and soul-level spiritual practice. She is known for her ability to translate complex inner work into clear, embodied, compassionate guidance—rooted in her lived experience of awakening and her commitment to helping others return to themselves. Each episode invites listeners beneath the surface of codependency—not just the behaviors, but the origin: the fear, the survival strategies, the inherited agreements, and the inner narratives that once kept us safe but now keep us small. With her signature depth and clarity, Marisa explores patterns such as people-pleasing, avoidance, projection, control, hypervigilance, and self-abandonment, showing how each one formed and how to shift them with compassion rather than shame. Listeners learn how to: • Identify the unconscious agreements shaping their relationships • Differentiate fear from intuition, trauma from truth • Set boundaries without collapsing into guilt • See themselves through the lens of their soul rather than their history • Heal from old relational wounds and learn to trust their inner voice • Build relationships rooted in courage, clarity, honesty, and love Whether you're navigating partnership, friendship, family dynamics, or your own inner patterns, this podcast is ultimately about coming home to the most important relationship you will ever have—the one with yourself. Learn more about Marisa's 1:1 journeys and group offerings at www.healwithalchemy.com

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