How To Convince with Lawyer Vince

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Welcome to How to Convince with Lawyer Vince — the deeper dive into the viral strategies from @howtoconvince. If you’ve ever wished you could speak up, set boundaries, and stay calm under pressure, you’re in the right place. Here, we go beyond the quick Instagram tips and break down real-world communication skills that lawyers use in court—and you can use in everyday life. Each week, Lawyer Vince shares practical scripts, mindset shifts, and tools to help you hold your ground, protect your peace, and speak with confidence when it matters most. New episodes every Tuesday at 8 AM PST.

  1. 5d ago

    How to Deal With Someone Who Never Apologizes | Lawyer Vince

    💪 Ready to stop watching and start practicing? If you've ever watched one of my videos and thought: "Okay... but what would I say in my situation?" That's exactly why I built The Communication Gym. The internet is full of communication advice. But confidence isn't built by watching videos, it's built by putting in the reps. Inside The Communication Gym, you'll learn how to confidently handle difficult conversations through structured training, real-world practice, live coaching, and personalized feedback from me and other members. 🏋️ Weekly Live Coaching 💬 "What Should I Say?" Forum 📖 Step-by-Step Training Programs 🎯 Real-World Communication Challenges 🤝 Feedback from Me & the Community 💪 A Place to Practice Before the Conversation Matters Whether you're trying to: Set better boundaries Speak up with confidence Handle conflict Know exactly what to say Read people better Become a stronger leader There's a training path for you. Stop Watching. Start Practicing. 👉 Join The Communication Gym: ⁠https://www.skool.com/howtoconvince/about⁠

    How to Deal With Someone Who Never Apologizes | Lawyer Vince

  2. Jul 14

    The One Question That Stops a Manipulator Cold | Lawyer Vince

    💪 Ready to stop watching and start practicing? If you've ever watched one of my videos and thought: "Okay... but what would I say in my situation?" That's exactly why I built The Communication Gym. The internet is full of communication advice. But confidence isn't built by watching videos, it's built by putting in the reps. Inside The Communication Gym, you'll learn how to confidently handle difficult conversations through structured training, real-world practice, live coaching, and personalized feedback from me and other members. 🏋️ Weekly Live Coaching 💬 "What Should I Say?" Forum 📖 Step-by-Step Training Programs 🎯 Real-World Communication Challenges 🤝 Feedback from Me & the Community 💪 A Place to Practice Before the Conversation Matters Whether you're trying to: Set better boundaries Speak up with confidence Handle conflict Know exactly what to say Read people better Become a stronger leader There's a training path for you. Stop Watching. Start Practicing. 👉 Join The Communication Gym: ⁠https://www.skool.com/howtoconvince/about⁠

    The One Question That Stops a Manipulator Cold | Lawyer Vince

  3. Jul 7

    How To Handle Someone Who Always Has To Be Right | Lawyer Vince

    💪 Ready to stop watching and start practicing? If you've ever watched one of my videos and thought: "Okay... but what would I say in my situation?" That's exactly why I built The Communication Gym. The internet is full of communication advice. But confidence isn't built by watching videos, it's built by putting in the reps. Inside The Communication Gym, you'll learn how to confidently handle difficult conversations through structured training, real-world practice, live coaching, and personalized feedback from me and other members. 🏋️ Weekly Live Coaching💬 "What Should I Say?" Forum📖 Step-by-Step Training Programs🎯 Real-World Communication Challenges🤝 Feedback from Me & the Community💪 A Place to Practice Before the Conversation Matters Whether you're trying to: Set better boundariesSpeak up with confidenceHandle conflictKnow exactly what to sayRead people betterBecome a stronger leaderThere's a training path for you. Stop Watching. Start Practicing. 👉 Join The Communication Gym:https://www.skool.com/howtoconvince/about

    How To Handle Someone Who Always Has To Be Right | Lawyer Vince

  4. Jun 30

    How To Handle Inappropriate Questions | Lawyer Vince

    Most people think the way to handle an inappropriate question is to come up with a clever comeback in the moment. That's not the goal. In this episode of How to Convince, I break down what inappropriate questions actually are, why so many people answer when they don't want to, and what the real response looks like because apologizing, over-explaining, and freezing all make the situation worse. If you've ever given someone information you didn't want to give, just because they asked and the moment moved too fast to stop it, this episode is for you. This episode covers: What's actually happening when someone asks an inappropriate question and the three very different types Why the social script between question and answer runs faster than conscious thought The three reasons people answer when they don't want to The five responses that let you decline cleanly without blowing up the room Why your privacy doesn't require their approval to be valid What to do when someone pushes back after you've already said no Plus, listener Q&A on family interrogations about your relationship status, a colleague who asked about your salary, and a boss who asked whether you're planning to have kids. Comment "NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS" if this resonated with you. 📩 WANT YOUR QUESTION ANSWERED? These Q&A questions come from my newsletter subscribers. Join the newsletter using this link to submit your question for a future episode. https://howtoconvince.mykajabi.com/opt-in-59c80c01-4d11-4aca-b1b3-e041f7edcdf7 🎧 Subscribe and turn on notifications for weekly tools on confidence, comebacks, and calm communication. — Hosted by Lawyer Vince (@howtoconvince) #howtoconvince #LawyerVince #StayCalm #CommunicationSkills #ConfidenceHacks #ConflictResolution #CalmUnderPressure #PeopleSkills #ProfessionalGrowth #LeadershipTips

    How To Handle Inappropriate Questions | Lawyer Vince

  5. Jun 22

    How To Make Someone Regret Dismissing You | Lawyer Vince

    Most people think the way to make someone regret dismissing you is to prove them wrong in the moment. That's not how it works. In this episode of How to Convince, I break down what dismissal actually is, why it almost never has anything to do with you, and what the real response looks like because proving, shrinking, and reacting all make the problem worse. If you've ever said something in a meeting and been ignored, only to watch someone else say the exact same thing and get applauded, this episode is for you. This episode covers: What dismissal actually is and why it happens Why snap judgments are almost always wrong The three responses that accidentally confirm the dismissal How to keep showing up at your actual level regardless of how you're being received Why composure communicates more than confrontation What makes someone's regret inevitable without you doing anything dramatic Plus, listener Q&A on a partner venting to family about private relationship issues, a disengaged employee who used to be enthusiastic, and a mother-in-law undermining parenting decisions in front of the kids. Comment "MAKE THEM REGRET IT" if this resonated with you. 📩 WANT YOUR QUESTION ANSWERED? These Q&A questions come from my newsletter subscribers. Join the newsletter using this link to submit your question for a future episode. https://howtoconvince.mykajabi.com/opt-in-59c80c01-4d11-4aca-b1b3-e041f7edcdf7 🎧 Subscribe and turn on notifications for weekly tools on confidence, comebacks, and calm communication. — Hosted by Lawyer Vince (@howtoconvince) #howtoconvince #LawyerVince #StayCalm #CommunicationSkills #ConfidenceHacks #ConflictResolution #CalmUnderPressure #PeopleSkills #ProfessionalGrowth #LeadershipTips

    How To Make Someone Regret Dismissing You | Lawyer Vince

  6. Jun 16

    How To Be RESPECTFUL Instead Of Just Polite | Lawyer Vince

    Most people think being polite and being respectful are the same thing. They're not. In this episode of How to Convince, I break down why chronic politeness often comes at the expense of honesty, how it weakens boundaries and relationships, and what it looks like to communicate with clarity instead. If you've ever said "it's fine" when it wasn't, agreed just to avoid conflict, or struggled to say no without feeling guilty, this episode is for you. This episode covers: • The difference between politeness and respect • Why people-pleasing creates resentment • How to say no without over-explaining • Why honesty builds stronger relationships • How to disagree without being rude • What respectful communication sounds like in real life Plus, listener Q&A on family boundaries, salary negotiations, relationship uncertainty, and supporting friends without sacrificing your integrity. Comment "BEING POLITE IS HURTING YOU" if this resonated with you. 📩 WANT YOUR QUESTION ANSWERED? These Q&A questions come from my newsletter subscribers. Join the newsletter using this link to submit your question for a future episode. https://howtoconvince.mykajabi.com/opt-in-59c80c01-4d11-4aca-b1b3-e041f7edcdf7 🎧 Subscribe and turn on notifications for weekly tools on confidence, comebacks, and calm communication. — Hosted by Lawyer Vince (@howtoconvince) #howtoconvince #LawyerVince #StayCalm #CommunicationSkills #ConfidenceHacks #ConflictResolution #CalmUnderPressure #PeopleSkills #ProfessionalGrowth #LeadershipTips

    How To Be RESPECTFUL Instead Of Just Polite | Lawyer Vince

  7. Jun 9

    How To Handle Someone Who Always Interrupts You | Lawyer Vince

    Most people don't realize they've been trained out of finishing their thoughts until they notice they've stopped trying. In this episode of How to Convince, I break down why being interrupted does more than cut off a sentence, why the most natural response to being cut off is exactly what keeps it happening, and what to do instead so you hold your space without turning every conversation into a confrontation. If you've ever stopped mid-point because someone talked over you, let an idea go entirely because the moment passed, or started noticing you share less in certain conversations without fully understanding why, this episode is for you. This episode covers: Why interruptions work and what gets established every time you stop The difference between habitual interrupting and targeted interrupting, and why it changes your response Why talking louder or faster usually makes things worse The two words that reclaim your space without starting a fight How to re-enter a conversation after being cut off without asking permission What to do when someone finishes your sentences and gets it slightly wrong How to recover when your mind goes blank mid-thought How quieter people can hold space in fast-moving group conversations without changing who they are Plus, real listener Q&A about a coworker who only interrupts women, a partner who calls it sensitivity, a colleague who hijacks sentences with good intentions, a brain that freezes under pressure, and someone who feels invisible in every group conversation. Comment "STOP LETTING THEM CUT YOU OFF" if this resonated with you. 📩 WANT YOUR QUESTION ANSWERED? These Q&A questions come from my newsletter subscribers. Join the newsletter using this link to submit your question for a future episode. https://howtoconvince.mykajabi.com/opt-in-59c80c01-4d11-4aca-b1b3-e041f7edcdf7 🎧 Subscribe and turn on notifications for weekly tools on confidence, comebacks, and calm communication. — Hosted by Lawyer Vince (@howtoconvince) #howtoconvince #LawyerVince #StayCalm #CommunicationSkills #ConfidenceHacks #ConflictResolution #CalmUnderPressure #PeopleSkills #ProfessionalGrowth #LeadershipTips

    How To Handle Someone Who Always Interrupts You | Lawyer Vince

  8. Jun 2

    How to Stop Carrying Other People's Emotions | Lawyer Vince

    Most people don't realize they've absorbed someone else's emotions until hours later when they're still unsettled, still replaying the conversation, still wondering why they apologized for something that wasn't their fault. In this episode of How to Convince, I break down why other people's emotional reactions are so effective at overriding your decisions, why smoothing things over works against you even when it comes from a genuinely caring place, and what to do instead so you can hold your position without becoming cold or indifferent. If you've ever walked back something you were right about because someone got upset, managed someone else's feelings instead of saying what you needed to say, or found yourself apologizing before you finished your sentence, this episode is for you. This episode covers: Why emotional reactions stop being involuntary and start functioning as leverage How empathy and emotional responsibility get fused — and what separating them changes Why the urge to fill silence makes the pattern worse How to acknowledge someone's feelings without letting them replace the conversation The one sentence that holds both care and position at the same time Why over-explaining teaches people what works on you Plus, real listener Q&A about a manager whose employee shuts down during feedback, a wife whose concerns keep getting replaced by her husband's hurt feelings, someone whose body panics at any shift in tone, a friend who frames every boundary as abandonment, and an employee who absorbs her manager's stress daily. Comment "YOUR REACTION IS THEIR WEAPON" if this resonated with you. 📩 WANT YOUR QUESTION ANSWERED? These Q&A questions come from my newsletter subscribers. Join the newsletter using this link to submit your question for a future episode. https://howtoconvince.mykajabi.com/opt-in-59c80c01-4d11-4aca-b1b3-e041f7edcdf7 🎧 Subscribe and turn on notifications for weekly tools on confidence, comebacks, and calm communication. — Hosted by Lawyer Vince (@howtoconvince) #howtoconvince #LawyerVince #StayCalm #CommunicationSkills #ConfidenceHacks #ConflictResolution #CalmUnderPressure #PeopleSkills #ProfessionalGrowth #LeadershipTips

    How to Stop Carrying Other People's Emotions | Lawyer Vince
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Welcome to How to Convince with Lawyer Vince — the deeper dive into the viral strategies from @howtoconvince. If you’ve ever wished you could speak up, set boundaries, and stay calm under pressure, you’re in the right place. Here, we go beyond the quick Instagram tips and break down real-world communication skills that lawyers use in court—and you can use in everyday life. Each week, Lawyer Vince shares practical scripts, mindset shifts, and tools to help you hold your ground, protect your peace, and speak with confidence when it matters most. New episodes every Tuesday at 8 AM PST.

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