Motherhood. Neurodivergence. Work-from-home life. Burnout. And that uncomfortable in-between season where nothing is falling apart… but nothing feels settled either. This episode is a deep exhale for anyone living in the messy middle. Megs sits down with Candice Janae — therapist, coach, writer, and fellow human navigating real life — to talk about what happens when life shifts, routines stop working, and you’re trying to stay aligned without burning yourself out. Together, they unpack how to: Adapt when life changes (again)Build systems that actually work for neurodivergent brainsLet go of guilt, perfection, and “this should be easier by now”Communicate needs and share the load at homeChoose rhythms and rituals over rigid routinesThis conversation is grounding, honest, and full of “oh wow, that’s me” moments — especially if you’re juggling caregiving, creativity, and a career. ⏱️ Episode Breakdown (timestamps adjusted +39 seconds) 02:22 — What “The Messy Middle” Actually Means 03:46 — When Life Happens: Navigating Unexpected Changes 05:31 — Coping with the Unknown (without spiraling) 13:02 — Aligning Your Values with Your Real-Life Needs 19:19 — Creating Systems That Work For You (Not Against You) 24:47 — Letting Go, Grief, and Embracing Change 25:04 — Holiday Decorations, Traditions, and Letting Them Evolve 26:07 — Adapting to New Living Spaces 27:08 — Creative, Neurodivergent-Friendly Organizing Solutions 30:55 — Progress in the Messy Middle (Even When It’s Not Pretty) 37:13 — Why Rhythms & Rituals Beat Routines Every Time 42:54 — Sharing the Load: Communication & Balance with Partners 🌊 Guest Spotlight: Candice Janae Candice is a private practice therapist by day and, in the online space, a burnout & balance coach for indie, self-employed, and freelance moms. She works closely with chronically ill and neurodivergent moms who are trying to do all the things — without losing themselves in the process. She’s also: An author of both fiction and nonfictionA water-lover (oceans, lakes, give her all of it)An introvert constantly navigating the push-pull between community and quietCandice brings a grounded, compassionate lens to burnout, balance, and identity — especially for moms who are exhausted from holding everything together. ✨ Connect with Candice Instagram / Threads: https://instagram.com/soul_cadence_coaching Substack: https://soulcadencecoachconnect.substack.com Website: https://soulcadencecoaching.servicesShare your thoughts with Megs! Would you like to learn more about hiring Megs as your ADHD coach? Start here> The Perfect Place to Start The Community is OPEN! Join right here: Organizing an ADHD Brain You can also learn more about the community HERE> OrganizinganADHDBrain.com